Well, I guess it only show how much "experience" you actually have in life. Dude, I'm 20 this year and I was 6 feet tall at 17. Sounds cool right? Well not necessarily when you tip the scales at 128kg! I f***ing worked my ass of at the gym and with proper guidance and bloody self discipline, I managed to bring my weight down to 92kg in 5 months. Since then, things have been looking bright for me and I'm currently 6"3, 83kg. Come on man, stop being a f***ing retard (no pun intended) and believe in yourself. Sure, its hard at the beginning, but trust me,if you REALLY wan'tto make a change, you can f***ing do it! You don't have to be rich or good looking to get a girl you want, all you need to have are balls the size of church bells, and the only way you're gonna GROW them is by having self confidence in yourself. Trust me dude, I could be doing so many other things at this time rather than typing this for you, but it just goes to show that you're not the only one out there who HAD a repeated f***ed up series of events in your life. Let me tell you this dude, you wanna be mad at God, go ahead...you wanna be mad at society, be my guest....but when it comes to f***ing up your own life just because YOU think that YOU'VE been treated unfairly, reality check my friend, there are others who are worst off than you.

Come to think of it, I remember this really overweight dude who used to sell burgers down my street, Nizam...let me share with you a true conversation that I dare swear on all things divine is not made up,

Vinesh : Abang, bagi burger ayam special 3..
Nizam : Sorry bro, malam ni abang tutup awal..
Vinesh : Laaaaaa, asal pulak ni, takkan nak jumpa awek kot...
Nizam : Eh ko ingat abang ni tak seksi ke ha?!
Vinesh : Err, tak..=P
Nizam : Ko nak tengok gambar tunang abang *whips out his cellphone*
Vinesh : Ni gambar masa tunang ke?! *With a HOLY f*** expression across my face*
Nizam : Habis tu, takkan masa tengah mandi..
Vinesh : Perh, terra la abang, lawa la gf abang..
Nizam : GF wak lu, 2 bulan lagi dah nak khawin, kita dah tak main bf, gf ni semua la..

The fella got married 2 and a half months later, I know for sure because I went for his wedding as it was in my housing area. His bride looked similar, if not EXACTLY like that "MyEg" advertisement girl, Fazura (I did a quick Google to find her name)

All I'm trying to say is, you've got your entire future in front of you. Whether you wanna continue going around searching high and low for whore houses that would eventually serve you a nice cold dish of herpes, that's your call mate.
To end this,all I have to say is this, I too fell for my best friend of 4 years, and yes I TOO was rejected, but let me tell you this, it WASN'T[I] because of my looks, neither was it because of my weight. It was because she wasn't ready for a relationship and she didn't want to loose faith by bickering and having small arguments with her best friend, and you know what man, we're still best friends even after I "imploded" for a couple of days because if there's one boundary that love CAN'T cross, that would be true, sincere and honest friendship and respect for one another.

Cheers mate, hope you have a great life ahead of you, and just pm me if you need to talk. I know I'm only 20, but hey, experience doesn't necessarily always come with age.


Holy f***ing banana, I need to sleep...

Haha, I'm not assuming anything mate, its just that different people have different metabolisms etc. Like they say, TRY and TRY again. Going from 130kg to 100kg is no easy feat, I totally agree with that AND I know where you're coming from because I've been there. Heck if someone just wrote to me or told me what I typed in my previous post, I would have probably replied something similar.
No hard feelings bro, just trying to help out....I'll you some tips that worked for me, maybe they could work for you, cheers!

Just did bro, trust me, they'll work for people like US who were not genetically gifted to begin with

No problem man, just pm me if you need more info,would be glad to help