haha....
very good miyoko....

me as a guy dont wanna be flamed(by girls mostly) if i say things like that over here. Coz i dont think any of the girls here are dat selfish...

it is good for a girl to admit to these things u sed....point of view from a girl.

jdreamer....i think Miyoko had made it quite clear here....
She found the way of telling u what many of us dont dare to tell u.
we are afraid ull get emotional.
tell u what?
that the xgf of urs is a PLAYA.

and about bein selfish....here is another example....
CLICK HERE
especially page 2.....

u see la it is in the real world....
i bet that guy's girl oso got another guy....haha...
mebbe....

but dont u be like this ok?
dont do to others what u dont want to be done to you.

I'll never step on two boats at one time.

i hope so too.....
and i hope those people 2 timing other people realize what they do is wrong and hurtful to other people.

life is fair.
maybe the best cure for them is to be hurt by being 2 timed oso.

haha

Well, Im pretty sure that I wont. I've kind of dragged into this by my ex because she was already considered as two timing both of us. I know how hurt it is.. so Im not going to do that.

'sup... so this is where it's all at. My official first time post here.

welcome to the thread, darklight79. i know that you dont simply post in cupids. but rest assured that this thread is very worth it. not that much of spam, i would say. here, we help each others and it's like a small community. welcome to the thread. feel free to dropby.

This post has been edited by miyoko: Oct 26 2006, 11:10 AM

did i make it too harsh? gosh i just feel the pain when i see my friend in such a great pain, caused by another girl (my same kind).

wah....
darklight here?

haha....
welcome

how come u are here?
yeah....this thread is just like what miyoko said....

a lil community helping each other....

one day i wanna meet these guys....

You know why i hate spanners and 2 timers? I used to be one. I even stepped on three boats at the same time before. I know how it's like to hurt people and get hurt in turn. Karma. Things have a way of going around.
Back in Taylors 9 years ago, i had the near perfect partner, a New Zealand bred Chinese girl. She finished her pre U here and moved back to NZ but promised herself to me. I believed her, I still believe that if i never did all the bullshit i did, she would still be with me. She even tried fighting for me.
I had it, looks and the body, and i abused my gifts a lot, but once you find during that phase that the woman you go after behind the back of someone you truly love is not worth it, then it hits you on the face like cold water after a hangover, you tend to ask yourself, wtf have i done?
That's why if i hate certain individuals, i hate them for a reason because spanners and 2 timers represents a part of my past which i detest but acknowledge because i want to remember the mistakes i did so as not to repeat them again. History, the most wonderful teacher of life.

This post has been edited by darklight79: Oct 26 2006, 11:17 AM

Fully agreed on this.

i dont know about harsh....
but u are being honest. thats good.

we guys over here can never say things like that here.....
dats like picking a fight with a woman.....i bet if guy say like u say....will be flame one.

surely the guy will be called sexist eventhough it is true.
especially when it is true. lol

do i sound like a sexist? haha

miyoko, ur not harsh, ur just being honest. And I understand.

glad that you would share your life experience with us here. well, as for me, i always try to think in advance before i do certain things. learning from other people's mistake is always better than experiencing it myself. anyway, my principle is, dont treat other people bad, if i dont want other people to treat me bad. in other words, i believes in karma.

nolah, you dont sound sexist. as you said, i was just being honest. i hope i dont get all girls hate me. hahaha...

huhu ....
so....
we have all learned something here....
and i think i learned oso in how to deal with what ur going thru.
now i know what i shud have done after my last breakup.
So...jdreamer...
u dont have to learn the hard way dealing with this.....
not like i do....

take it from me who has gone thru hell....
dont blame the other guy.
u can say its her fault.....up to u,
but the best way to heal fast is...forgive and forget....
move on.

let those Playars be with their life....
be with other Playars and Spanar (and a little SCREWing in between)

This post has been edited by quiksilver: Oct 26 2006, 11:28 AM

Maybe like someone who posted previously, the world is round, she can leaves me for that guy, that guy will also leave her for another girl.

i believe that was me who said that.

if this is any consolation for me...
i dont know....

but the guy my xgf left me for.....
didnt accept her as gf.......
she was turned down after had fun.

yes, and when that happens, just sit around and congratulate yourself that you are out of the loop already.

opps, that was to reply the post about the world is round.

This post has been edited by miyoko: Oct 26 2006, 11:36 AM

What you say is very true.

I god damn hate spanners!

haha....yeah...
but if all girls reali think like miyoko.,,,
and they remind themselves about it all the time, (most of the time is ok too)
no problem...less trouble for us guys....

This post has been edited by quiksilver: Oct 26 2006, 03:35 PM