ya lor..haih..We can only hope and keep temptations and sorts and be strong..

this goes to both genders.
and when girls spana us.....we shud remember not to do anything stupid oso.

we can give many reasons.....
the girl is nekkid or...
the girl kissed me 1st or...
the girl hugged me 1st or...
the girl this, the girl that...
but in the end...it is our choice, our responsibility.
our fault if we make the wrong decision.

wahh....cool thread. i'm a newbie...just sufring thru lyn.

lot of sad ldr stories. i also had one last time, ldr for about 2 years out of 4.5 yeras,then i decided to call it quits. no one really did wrong, but i guess i needed some time to breathe. but she didn't see it coming i guess. so she was quite devastated. and i guess with all our sacrifices and investment, it was a v hard thing to do. this is the problem when you're too young to realise what you have, and you do stupid things. but i know i was not ready yet to settle down and it seemed a right choice then.

funny thing is though, i believe we're soulmates. and i know she does feel the same too. i guess after all the stuff we've been thru, and the ups n downs, plus our characters clicked, it was a no brainer. we're still v good frend, continents apart. and sometimes when we do have a chance to catch up over the net, we always kid around about the what if's...... i dare say it something like you'll see in a hollywood movie, when the man n woman know its the one at the end of the movie.

but then again it may seem that way becoz it ended b4 its time. who knows...

oh well, like someone said, History is a good teacher. can only make u a stronger person.

but if i had the chance to relive my youth, i wouldn't go for ldr r'ships if you're not going to marry the person. live life, experience everything b4 u decide to settle down. open ur selves. if it doens't work, move on. only then will u know what u have, and what u're looking for.....and treasure it.

what do the older/married sifu's say??.....

my 2 cnets....

That's what i meant..Both parties have to "YAN(cantonese)"
Haha.

jdreamer: i believe quiksilver replied to one of my post saying that it is not worth your love to a girl who is not loyal to you. I know that it is hard to do, but you must learn to let go. Mayb cry if you have to, to release everything... you will feel better after that... Dun let yourself in too deep or else it will be hard to get out of it... the deeper you go, the more painful it is to let go. Just let it go now....


As for my case, thanks quiksilver for your advice... But i realise something today... nothin was wrong with our relationship... we juz love each other too deeply... and we cant handle being seperated from each other... as for the other guy, she rejected him... according to her, she said she is scared of this and don't want to think of this after she graduate. we had a long chat juz now... i've decided to let her go... after i've graduate, i'll try again... although it is hard, but after letting her go, i felt much better... so, jdreamer, dun be afraid to let go... it is not as bad as it seems... you will find another truly worth ur love... i'll pray for the both of us tonite....

I'll learn to let go.. yea..

u will feel relieved after u let her to go.....no point bearing the so-called burden wif u ...

be enjoy ur single life.....

cheer...

I was beginning to think Cupid's Corner was full of retards. So this is where all the sensible people hang out. I assume you guys quarantine people like wangpr and unbelievable from this place.

If Im not mistaken, this is the only thread that is free from them, and crappy posts.

Hell... should've clicked on this thread sooner. I thought it was just a spam thread.

Yea, u should have come in earlier.

I'm a reg and Health and Fitness. I gave up on CC after too many retarded threads like "How to pick up girls?" and "how to know if he/she is a virgin?"
I only check out threads of those who seriously need help. Blame wangpr for a major part of CC's retardation. I'm sick of his threads degrading women. He needs to get shot.

Yea, thats why I dont visit those threads too.

Well, CC is not at all hopeless afterall

haha...how true....
sometimes this thread is the oni reason i surf lyn.(besides football of coz...haha)

Anyway, hows everybody doing?

havent heard from Suiteng for quite some time liao....

my bday card just arrived this morning.....OMG...it costed her rm45 to send a few cards to me....via Poslaju....

So sweet....cant wait to be home.

lately many sad stories in this thread....
i just hope everybody is ok dealing with their problems.

chatted with jdreamer a lil while ago...

i remembered something.

After breakup....after all the sh*t i went thru...
after i began to accept the fact and move on...
i realised something.

I am thankful for every single thing happened between my xgf and me.
i am thankful for the love we shared.
i am thankful oso for the pain we costed each other.
i realised, without being hurt so badly,
i would never ever appreciate and understand the true meaning of happiness and true love.

i am a better person.

thanx.

This post has been edited by quiksilver: Oct 26 2006, 09:25 PM

All those lies... all those that she said...... I thought I could forgive her. I even wrote that poem (which some of u read it before). I thought I could walk on. Until all these, she's playing my heart again. But once is enough. I had enough.

Im going to end everything by tonight.

Hi... It's me again... I've thought the whole nite through last nite... I've got slightly more than one year to come up with and idea to make her not to be afraid of loving me and to touch her heart all over again... i don't know is this thread is a good place for this or mayb i should open a new one? But anyways, i think from today onwards, i'll write my feelings and thoughts for today abt her or abt our relationship on a piece of paper and i'll fold it into a star or a heart and throw it into a jar... i'll write one everyday until she accepts me... at the end of the day does this shows that i'm thinking of her everyday, or am i just some maniac who is obssess with her? will this touch her heart? besides that, any other suggestions???



This is true... jdreamer, you might hate her now for playin with your heart... there will come a point in time where you will realise that because of what she did to you has made you a better person, a stronger person... everyone in your life will play an important part influencing you... when you meet your special someone, you will then treasure and love her even more than before... juz think of it that she is just a passenger in your life... what doesn't kills you, makes you stronger... juz my humble opinion...

Well, that'll be until when Im fully stand up from the pain.

I'm still around Just seldom post coz nothing much to say... Work have been busy.. sigh...