Not sure bout you all...but she does want kids (me not really lah, kids expensive lah).

Actually when sign the contract we go have dinner in a restaurant, got bring witnesses, grandparents n parents (both sides) n sign in front of them.


haha. first time i hear of this (actually first time is when her sister husband or my bro in law sign first).

is like that 1 lo, is better to have baby when u still young ma

expensive dowries is just to show off.....

I heard right...the older the women when she give birth, the smarter the baby will be.

Then again, there is also perceived pressure (eg my sis married 3 years earlier and no child yet)

and i think we know the first grandchild is usually the most loved right? eg the CNY angpow is always bigger, etc.

I thought earlier is better and baby is smarter.
hm.. which one is true then.

So what do they bring to the table?

Or will your wife obediently serves you and your family after marriage? With limited access to her family?
Because, you have essentially bought her. Don't let her contact her family anymore except CNY, or death in the family. Maybe the parents' birthday.

Fug this shit.

Assume the contract to be like below:
Wife Demand:
1. BMW
2. Bangalow
3. Billionaire
4. Bank
5. Boss

Husband Demand:
Sex

No pressure. drag on. Eventually your fiancee would yield

No money. Postpone until got money to marry.

Wedding (don't count marriage). Is Expensive. Include dowry, etc, all that is expenses. If lucky can cover back.

Remember to save for wedding, house, car and kids, even before you have gf! When you have a gf, or think about getting married.. too late already. Unless you are super rich.

Some people have wedding fund. since dating. put money into the account for the future. Then have house fund, children fund, travel fund.

Don't be in debt because of wedding. But you would want to let your wife have a comfortable and happy life right? It's unfortunate if you have parent's in law which "milk you for money". I've seen a few. Milk the husband for all he is worth. Quite kesian. After that also still giving money to the family... pay for renovations to their family house etc. etc.
Although it's wife's family she should also be thoughtful of her new family and husband's capacity.

Whole life, is to work and work to pay bills. 15 years of studies is to find work to pay more bills till we die.

Live single life. Be free. Travel the world work only when need money. Don't buy house, buy car or all that liabilities or you will be working for it.

But if that is the dream you want. House, car, family.. you got to prepare to be able to afford all that and take care of everyone financially. If not better be selfish and stay single forever.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cQRytgGffV4