Sorry to tell that, those ladies are just bullshit. Girls always claim they need a nice guys, but always rather end up with jerk. Girls words are always reversed, they like to said they are not materialistic, they just need a guy with house, a second car for her, grand luxury wedding, annual trip, a expensive birthday gift & etc.

We are not living in the perfect world, so as no perfect person or perfect match do exist.

not all lar. although we do look for mr nice guy, but we always end up with jerks that knows how to sweet talk and always makes fake sweet promises, that's where u get the idea of reversed words.

I have no idea where or how many girls that you have met required all of those, I still never met one yet.

But few of real live example that I can give, my eldest sister, she helped her ex by loaning a lot of money to him for business problem, so is few of her other female friends, some got cheated for affair, and money as well. they got the ability to pay their own bills, cars, houses and etc.

For girls, age 25+ above, one of my net friend, she's good looking. her ex still studying, she sometimes fetches him, and i even know that she pleases him sometimes with the sexy sample clothes she got from her supplier. but in the end, they just split because her ex is aftering her extra earning earned from online selling.

another example, my college friend even paying fees for her ex for oversea studying while she work here locally like shiat. but in the end, he got a new 'gf' and deserted her. she's down to earth, cheerful and good looking too.

and me, i fetches my 1st ex to wherever we go when we date because he ride on bike. we treat each other for dining. my 2nd ex? i lend him and help him when he got in to financial problem. i will sometimes treat him dining and get him gifts like shirts, belt, etc eventhough they're not branded. i would rather starve and sacrifice my time with friends or shopping to help him but in the end, both would rather have affair and ditched me aside.

now u might be saying that i'm trying to get self pity or exaggerating how 伟大 or great women is. no, i won't be saying that, i will only say, we got face problem and we are just stupid. so please, don't flame all the girls because u met few that are. u're just looking at the wrong location and wrong target market. not all girls are materialistic. we girls aren't perfect either.

This post has been edited by Eclipxe: Apr 2 2011, 10:46 AM

Everything seems like a commodity these days.

Younger women: > looks
Older women: looks<

Younger men: Stability/income<
Older men: > Stability/income

I think women need to find partners who are less superficial with more depth or they'll just find themselves neglected or abandoned by the time they get older.

I mean if it's all about leverage then it's highly likely the guy that's most in demand gets to have the best pick all the time. As was said guys tend to be shallow, so a highly desirable guy who faces way more temptations than the average guy has a higher tendency to cheat.

Normal guy: 2-3 girls interested
Good looking, Rich, Funny guy: 1000's

Consider their cheating percentage as equal at 2% it's not that the normal guy will never cheat but because he goes through less temptations and has less attractive admirers the possibility of that occurring is far less.

And looks fade as with all other things more importantly than maintaining herself i think girls should have more depth and a more attractive personality because if you're just all looks there's not gonna be much to look forward too after 5,10,25 years.

You got your point, just that people surrounding me are working adult. They just take for granted which ever possible.

Now no more those simple & easy life during Uni/College time, which all friends are equal & treating each other good.

Those nice gals I met either already attached or getting married, but those single girls I met mostly demanding perfect guy or have some problem with their personality/unfriendly.(the face always show "do not disturb" type)

Is better to get a bf/gf while you still studying, which close to each other & open to accept relationship. Once work, life become hard & complicated.
You will keep compare & demand better partner.

this is so true.

so so agree..thats why most of us prefer to be single than involve in any relationship..

er.. we all are working adult lor.. i'm 27 this yr jor and my sis.. 3+ i wish i have thought of coupling during my college days lol and honestly? i really still haven't met one materialistic girl yet

dangg i have a hard time to find a single men..

so desperate???

not so desperate but every time try to find one or attracted to the one always married guy..or is it because my surrounding full with married guy..i need to step out more..

So have you been in a lot of relationships with successful women CEOs, and GMs and MDs?

Is normal.. cause nice & good guys/gals finish fast.

For gals, either you get a younger guy which good potential or dun be choosy & get a normal guys.

For guys.. dun be worry, our value appreciate by age. Now I starting to feeling it. Lot of young gals prefer mature & stable guys. So keep creating & improve your own value.

but i only rike uncles and oledi not so choosy liao.

I go for older guys too.. not so much for being financially stable.. but at least they're mentally more matured as well.. in terms of handling situations etc.. I mean, that's what I think..