tactics. patient. earn the trust.

these girls learned a lot of 'lesson' before knowing u

very true

korek!!!! most ppl dun get the meaning of this line "Hard to blame a person for expecting something that they were consistently getting in the past." and everyone ends up with fight like she never understand me, he never compromised me, stuff like that..

yes, i'm emotional dependent to my partner before and it really hurt me a lot when we breakup. from there on, i asked my friends(mostly females) and all of them agree that 'never put full trust on another person' which lead to what the TS asked.

This post has been edited by Eclipxe: Mar 17 2011, 03:37 PM

Well, it's not that they're willingly to do so. After failing for many relationships, you're kinda get scared in giving full trust. I'm getting that feeling as well, the sense of unsecured, withholding back.

i did not say, dun trust men, k.

This post has been edited by Eclipxe: Mar 17 2011, 06:23 PM

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lol, i like ur signatures ad especially this v

Don't hate me because I'm beautiful, hate me because your boyfriend thinks I am.

haha

lesson learned?

@abubin, i think u should read this V
he explained manyak gooding. me agree although me no high expectation.

i mean should i said i learned that? i'm still trying to understand how different gender thinks.

This post has been edited by Eclipxe: Mar 31 2011, 02:03 PM

That's why I'm learning now lor.

^ Well, as I mentioned earlier, most of the 30+ girls I know especially my elder sister and her friends.. still being single due to problems they encountered during in the relationship. And what I learned, different genders have different needs, motivations and so. Women craze for emotional supports. Trust, loyalty, security, guidance and yada yada. Once it's being betrayed or abandoned, it'll bit hard to accept and reaccept it again.

And men? no comment, cos I'm still trying to learn and understand them.

yalar.. i mean everyone want them but women 'craze' for it ma.

ah, my england no good, dunno explain.

absorbing the informations

define a good lover and a capable bf

but i do agree with everyone needs love.

not all lar. although we do look for mr nice guy, but we always end up with jerks that knows how to sweet talk and always makes fake sweet promises, that's where u get the idea of reversed words.

I have no idea where or how many girls that you have met required all of those, I still never met one yet.

But few of real live example that I can give, my eldest sister, she helped her ex by loaning a lot of money to him for business problem, so is few of her other female friends, some got cheated for affair, and money as well. they got the ability to pay their own bills, cars, houses and etc.

For girls, age 25+ above, one of my net friend, she's good looking. her ex still studying, she sometimes fetches him, and i even know that she pleases him sometimes with the sexy sample clothes she got from her supplier. but in the end, they just split because her ex is aftering her extra earning earned from online selling.

another example, my college friend even paying fees for her ex for oversea studying while she work here locally like shiat. but in the end, he got a new 'gf' and deserted her. she's down to earth, cheerful and good looking too.

and me, i fetches my 1st ex to wherever we go when we date because he ride on bike. we treat each other for dining. my 2nd ex? i lend him and help him when he got in to financial problem. i will sometimes treat him dining and get him gifts like shirts, belt, etc eventhough they're not branded. i would rather starve and sacrifice my time with friends or shopping to help him but in the end, both would rather have affair and ditched me aside.

now u might be saying that i'm trying to get self pity or exaggerating how 伟大 or great women is. no, i won't be saying that, i will only say, we got face problem and we are just stupid. so please, don't flame all the girls because u met few that are. u're just looking at the wrong location and wrong target market. not all girls are materialistic. we girls aren't perfect either.

This post has been edited by Eclipxe: Apr 2 2011, 10:46 AM

er.. we all are working adult lor.. i'm 27 this yr jor and my sis.. 3+ i wish i have thought of coupling during my college days lol and honestly? i really still haven't met one materialistic girl yet

but i only rike uncles and oledi not so choosy liao.