not all lar.    although we do look for mr nice guy, but we always end up with jerks that knows how to sweet talk and always makes fake sweet promises, that's where u get the idea of reversed words.

I have no idea where or how many girls that you have met required all of those, I still never met one yet.

But few of real live example that I can give, my eldest sister, she helped her ex by loaning a lot of money to him for business problem, so is few of her other female friends, some got cheated for affair, and money as well. they got the ability to pay their own bills, cars, houses and etc.

For girls, age 25+ above, one of my net friend, she's good looking. her ex still studying, she sometimes fetches him, and i even know that she pleases him sometimes with the sexy sample clothes she got from her supplier. but in the end, they just split because her ex is aftering her extra earning earned from online selling.

another example, my college friend even paying fees for her ex for oversea studying while she work here locally like shiat. but in the end, he got a new 'gf' and deserted her. she's down to earth, cheerful and good looking too.

and me, i fetches my 1st ex to wherever we go when we date because he ride on bike. we treat each other for dining. my 2nd ex? i lend him and help him when he got in to financial problem. i will sometimes treat him dining and get him gifts like shirts, belt, etc eventhough they're not branded. i would rather starve and sacrifice my time with friends or shopping to help him but in the end, both would rather have affair and ditched me aside.

now u might be saying that i'm trying to get self pity or exaggerating how 伟大 or great women is. no, i won't be saying that, i will only say, we got face problem and we are just stupid. so please, don't flame all the girls because u met few that are. u're just looking at the wrong location and wrong target market. not all girls are materialistic. we girls aren't perfect either.