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 Nowadays many girls prefer to be single?, Any advise to change that mentality?

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fordmaniac
post Mar 25 2011, 07:03 PM

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QUOTE(yinyum @ Mar 25 2011, 04:58 PM)
How to get a Mr Right? I'm noob in this!! LOL
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show them u had plenty of love n they will return u with plenty of money.... muahahahahah
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post Mar 26 2011, 04:03 PM

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QUOTE(yinyum @ Mar 26 2011, 02:12 AM)
LOL!!! I like this idea!!!  biggrin.gif  biggrin.gif  biggrin.gif
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See See TeongPeng san... see wat yimyum said... kakkakaka rclxms.gif rclxms.gif rclxms.gif
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post Mar 30 2011, 09:39 AM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Mar 27 2011, 10:46 PM)
I tell you a truth: a man who is stable NOW, doesn't mean he is stable forever.

You might say I'm pessimistic, but I just want to tell you choose a man because you love him as who he is, instead of his XXX, BBB, CCC, etc or stability. Everything a person has, countable or uncountable, will change along the time, only the person himself will not change.

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Well said.... Well said... This is the type of lady deserve a place as candidate to become wife... tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif
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post Mar 30 2011, 09:56 AM

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QUOTE(Marcian @ Mar 30 2011, 09:43 AM)
No time to read all 9 pages.  But as to why girls prefer to remain single, there's this possible answer:  no bf is better than a lousy bf.
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yet there's still bunch of ladies clinching to their lousy bf n stay on... yet i felt $$$ plays the game still...
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post Mar 30 2011, 02:05 PM

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QUOTE(Duke Red @ Mar 30 2011, 11:52 AM)
I just think that instead of wallowing in their own self pity, men should step up their game and deal with the fact that women's expectations have increased over the years. Men will ALWAYS be seen as providers. It has been this way since our forefathers first learned to walk upright. Things are getting more expensive these days, and women are earning more income. How can they not expect more out of men? Guys need to raise their game and man up.
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Just for the sake of discussion... if women are able to earn themselves... then y lift the expectation on men instead but not lower their expectation on men???? of course this come back the question of one's attitude... hmm.gif hmm.gif hmm.gif
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post Mar 30 2011, 10:37 PM

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QUOTE(Duke Red @ Mar 30 2011, 02:19 PM)
It's like I said, men will always be seen as providers, the head of the family, economically and emotionally. Women may earn more but they'd still like to know that their man can provide a security blanket. I get a little tired reading "women are materialistic" posts because I feel these posters don't completely understand their claim. A 'strong' man will always be more appealing than a 'weak' man. It's like I said in another post, "survival of the fittest". If she chooses a richer guy over a poorer guys, it's probably because the richer guy also has more appealing traits, unless he struck the lottery. People tend to only look at the surface. "Oh she went for the rich guy, she's so materialistic". As chance would have it, successful guys also have more appealing characteristics, like determination, ambition, charm, etc. Are there girls who are in it purely for the money? Of course but much less than some posters make it out to be.

I think that on some level, guys use this materialistic claim as an excuse to console themselves. Instead of considering that she chose a richer guy off him because he's a loser, he chooses to believe that it's purely because he doesn't have much money. It's easier to stomach. Everyone has an opinion on everyone else, but few look at themselves, critique themselves and decide to iron out the flaws. Instead, they make other people look equally as bad e.g. "The guy is rich, must be father's money. Must be damn 'lancee'".

Lower expectations on men? Why would anyone want to settle for less? Would you lower your expectation of women under any circumstances? No, we strive for better things.
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i must admit u r well said....
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post Apr 3 2011, 12:34 AM

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QUOTE(mafilee @ Apr 3 2011, 12:20 AM)
dangg i have a hard time to find a single men.. shakehead.gif
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so desperate???

 

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