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 Nowadays many girls prefer to be single?, Any advise to change that mentality?

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post Mar 24 2011, 11:32 AM

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QUOTE(conqu3ror @ Mar 15 2011, 12:33 PM)
Recently meet some girls (pretty & high educate & >25+), they are single, and after know them for a while, they just said they prefer to be single.

Any comment and any ideal to break the ice?
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You fool. That's the code word for "I sleep around".
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post Mar 24 2011, 12:26 PM

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QUOTE(GaYoon @ Mar 24 2011, 12:21 PM)
Maybe they're still waiting for the perfect guy to come. But guys that are rich, good looking and loyal are rare these days. *sigh* Most guys that are rich and good looking are just play boys.
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You jelly because there are many guys richer and better looking than you and having more fun with women than you isit? laugh.gif

Anyway, those guys are "playboys" because women can't give them a reason why they (the men) should commit.
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post Mar 24 2011, 02:34 PM

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QUOTE(dawnreaver @ Mar 24 2011, 02:24 PM)
If I was filthy rich and good looking I'd be a "playboy" too because girls would be lining up anyway.

Never pass up on a good thing.  laugh.gif  laugh.gif  laugh.gif
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Yeah man, if the women want to behave like prostitutes, then let them lor, I don't lose anything anyway laugh.gif
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post Mar 25 2011, 01:44 AM

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QUOTE(ace.princess @ Mar 18 2011, 12:19 PM)
But these days, women can easily work and earn their own.
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QUOTE(ace.princess @ Mar 25 2011, 12:09 AM)
When they're successful in their career, they have subordinates.  tongue.gif

I don't mind being single forever if I have a very stable and successful business. My direct reports will be my "friends", and I will make it compulsory for them to hang out with me after hours. Good pay and big titles are hard to come by for most people, I'd only hire people who will slave for me  tongue.gif

When you have money, what is it that you can't have?
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I don't know what you can't have, but even with money you have just lost some respect right there! laugh.gif
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post Mar 26 2011, 06:45 AM

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QUOTE(ace.princess @ Mar 25 2011, 04:40 AM)
wtf? glad i made u laugh?
Yeah, I laugh because for the past 80 years women are whining incessantly about how hard they have it in the working world and the glass ceiling blah blah blah, and now you're claiming it's easy. I LOL hard!!! laugh.gif

QUOTE(ace.princess @ Mar 25 2011, 04:40 AM)
Who cares? Bosses do that all the time... They make their subordinates stay after work teman them drink, in the name of "networking". When actually, they just want to feel powerful and extend their "reign time" beyond working hours.

Normal lar... What is respect, as long as you get what you need right...  tongue.gif
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QUOTE(ThanatosSwiftfire @ Mar 25 2011, 09:33 AM)
Similarly said, what is respect, as long as I get to fulfill my physical needs?
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Nais reply laugh.gif
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post Mar 28 2011, 10:01 AM

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QUOTE(yinyum @ Mar 26 2011, 11:24 AM)
this trick applies to all the men??  blink.gif
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No, I couldn't care less whether or not my significant other cooks for me. I can cook my own food, why do I need her to make sammiches?

QUOTE(ace.princess @ Mar 26 2011, 01:34 PM)
Money is not hard to earn if a person knows how to. When people complain, it's because they suck at making money. And this applies to both men and women. We see a lot of men complaining about finding it tough to climb the ladder too.

In fact, when it comes to "money not enough", I think you'll see more men complaining than women.
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So what you're saying is... women who had been complaining for the past 8 decades are actually just whining about what big losers they are? Thanks for clearing that up.

Btw, men complain "money not enough" because women are always pestering men for it.

QUOTE(happy_gal @ Mar 27 2011, 01:48 PM)
aiya ppl... i tell u most of the times its nt about MONEY so much..

everywhere in cupid corner thread u guys say girls oni look at money.. then bi*ch bout it..

im telling u nt all the girls are like tht.. c'on the group of close girls of mine all also pretty 1.. they are not materialistic at all.. they'd do anything for their bf.. they do lotsa stuff for their guys.. they'd sacrifice loads..
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O'rly? Like WHAT?
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post Mar 31 2011, 10:34 AM

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QUOTE(Duke Red @ Mar 30 2011, 11:52 AM)
I just think that instead of wallowing in their own self pity, men should step up their game and deal with the fact that women's expectations have increased over the years. Men will ALWAYS be seen as providers. It has been this way since our forefathers first learned to walk upright.
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EXACTLY! Men will ALWAYS be seen as providers, just like women will ALWAYS be seen as sex objects and sammich makers. I suggest they (women) wake up to that fact and step up their game instead of wasting time with their stupid demands.

QUOTE(ace.princess @ Mar 30 2011, 03:44 PM)
While that may be true, I don't deny that. But it's still irrelevant.

Just like how in the previous thread, ppl are asking "why some men cheat?", while you butt in and say "but..  but... but... women cheat too!!!"

Now when ppl say girls stay single cuz they have demands, you pulak butt in and say "but... but... but... men have demands too!!!"

See how irrelevant is it? That's why you kena shoot ---- AGAIN!  tongue.gif

You're only sour because it looks to you like people here are saying only girls can have demands. I don't know how did you come to see things that way. We didn't even say guys can't have demands =.=
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It does, however, shows your biasedness when it comes to who can have demands. It's like this, lets say you have a sister, and in an exam, she scores 10 A's, and you score 12 A's, and then everyone congratulates her and saying how great she is and totally ignores you. Wouldn't that make you look like you have crappy results?

Drian makes a valid point, there's always two sides to a coin, but you CHOOSE to ignore this fact, and insist that "tough luck dude, I didn't say there's only 1 side, but the women's side of the coin is face up now, suck it up".

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post Mar 31 2011, 10:39 AM

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QUOTE(Duke Red @ Mar 30 2011, 02:19 PM)
I think that on some level, guys use this materialistic claim as an excuse to console themselves. Instead of considering that she chose a richer guy off him because he's a loser, he chooses to believe that it's purely because he doesn't have much money. It's easier to stomach. Everyone has an opinion on everyone else, but few look at themselves, critique themselves and decide to iron out the flaws. Instead, they make other people look equally as bad e.g. "The guy is rich, must be father's money. Must be damn 'lancee'".

Lower expectations on men? Why would anyone want to settle for less? Would you lower your expectation of women under any circumstances? No, we strive for better things.
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Well said. Just like women think it's right to insult men as deadbeats and losers, men too now have to rights to call women fat and ugly and stupid in the event women fail to meet the expectations of men, ESPECIALLY after marriage (because women go into marriage believing men will give them a better life, and usually do. BUT men go into marriage thinking their wife will stay slim and/or spread their legs whenever he wants it, but usually don't).

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post Mar 31 2011, 11:59 AM

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Here's a quote from my favorite gender equality guy, Warren Farrell. Imma gonna put it in my siggy.


"Men's weakness is their facade of strength; women's strength is their facade of weakness." - Warren Farrell
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QUOTE(Eclipxe @ Mar 31 2011, 01:59 PM)
i'm still trying to understand how different gender thinks. tongue.gif
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post Mar 31 2011, 03:58 PM

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QUOTE(Eclipxe @ Mar 31 2011, 03:36 PM)
^ Well, as I mentioned earlier, most of the 30+ girls I know especially my elder sister and her friends.. still being single due to problems they encountered during in the relationship. And what I learned, different genders have different needs, motivations and so. Women craze for emotional supports. Trust, loyalty, security, guidance and yada yada. Once it's being betrayed or abandoned, it'll bit hard to accept and reaccept it again.

Those things are universal. You think men don't want trust, loyalty, etc meh?

QUOTE(Eclipxe @ Mar 31 2011, 03:36 PM)
And men? no comment, cos I'm still trying to learn and understand them.
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Simple, men want sex and sammich maker, hottie preferred, if rich then is bonus. All that crap about "click" or "common interests" are all bullshit, because if the woman don't have simple foundation like fulfilling the men's expectation (REAL expectations, mind you), all the "common interests" in the world will not help.

I.e. if there is a hot chick who totally digs kendo and anime and gaming and cars and traveling and swinging (basically all the same crap I like), but has this 1 tiny little problem of nagging (come on, admit it women, you know you nag), or is a shopaholic, it's not going to work.

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QUOTE(Eclipxe @ Mar 31 2011, 04:10 PM)
yalar.. i mean everyone want them but women 'craze' for it ma.

Why?

QUOTE(Eclipxe @ Mar 31 2011, 04:10 PM)
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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Apr 1 2011, 03:17 PM)
It's been my experience that really successful women, the CEOs and GMs and MDs, don't necessarily want a man who earns as much or more than they do. Sometimes they just want a man who is their equal in other areas besides money - intelligence, charm, general knowledge, talent, etc. As long as he's not just leeching off her, she's quite happy to be the one paying the bills.
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So have you been in a lot of relationships with successful women CEOs, and GMs and MDs?

 

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