I tell you a truth: a man who is stable NOW, doesn't mean he is stable forever.

You might say I'm pessimistic, but I just want to tell you choose a man because you love him as who he is, instead of his XXX, BBB, CCC, etc or stability. Everything a person has, countable or uncountable, will change along the time, only the person himself will not change.

Hoho..strong words u gt there...im totally agreed with ur statement....

why must a girl cook for the guy? why can't it be the other way round?

my man cooks for me, and i love it!

No, I couldn't care less whether or not my significant other cooks for me. I can cook my own food, why do I need her to make sammiches?

So what you're saying is... women who had been complaining for the past 8 decades are actually just whining about what big losers they are? Thanks for clearing that up.

Btw, men complain "money not enough" because women are always pestering men for it.

O'rly? Like WHAT?

THIS coming from YOU?? I don't believe.



There's no such thing as "money not enough", there are only losers.

Men who don't make enough for themselves and their women (if they women depend on it) + complain about it = Losers also.

This post has been edited by ace.princess: Mar 28 2011, 06:20 PM

hm...since when this turn into "guy cook or girl cook" topic pulak?

for me, i dun really care if my girl can cook or not...coz i myself love to cook, no issue from me. XD

It depends all guys & girls have different set of requirements.

Girls
Stability - Cash(Stable career/rich/etc)
Maturity
Looks
Humor
Chemistry
etc

Truth is more often than not u see an attractive girl paired up either with a person with an attractive face or attractive wallet. Now it could be that these guys have way more confidence then the average guy but still it shows.

Just a neutral point of view. =)

There's the other side, attractive girls who have been hit on by an idiot or 2 and suddenly any guy that says "hi" to them is a stalker/pervert. I guess it's about balance, you need to have methods to handle guys who just can't get it while not putting on the "I think I'm lenglui so i treat every person who says "hi" as a potential stalker because most guys will treat it as perasaan.

lies.

stability is just another word for "rich" because stability for girls means:

he has a stable career so
he has a stable monthly income so
he is going to get stable raise every year so
he is going to rise up in the company ranks stability so
he will be earning more monies stability so
...
etc



and that is why girls like "stable" guys.


them materialistic girls always ask for more, them are never contented.

Maybe they think they can feed themself and no need guys to help them. -,-

Err... this one, sometimes must really put on precaution. Not because we're perasan or anything, but sometimes, being cold to certain guys is meant to protect ourselves.

Perverted guys can be really very perverted wan lor... Best is to take precaution first. You can blame us for being perasan later, not like I'd care. Better be safe than sorry.

+1

Girls often speak reversely without themselves knowing it what they want.

They often said prefer nice & caring guys, but mostly end up with interesting & attractive playboy or bad guy which will hurt them deeply.

Most girls just can't resist those guys who driving their emotion crazy, but those guys never want genuine relationship. Coz with lot of dating & experience, they know how to manipulate girls emotion. But still many girls drop into these traps.

i dont think girl prefer to be single, cuz all the girls that i chase are attached, sigh....

there's still a lot of singles out there
maybe no luck for you??
try harder~~lol~~

+1 for u dude..i totally agreed in ur statements...gals tends to chase after the guy who can make them physically attracted....emotions goin thru their mind when they fall for the sweet talk by the badder....i dunno whether gals feels superior when they be with this bad guy....is it jz to make them look good and popular? They often says that they want to have a relationship with guys who cares for them and being nice.....bt why still they chase after them? There're plenty of good and nice guys out there bt unfortunately, most of the gals prefer those badder....question which mkes me ponder and wonder all the time.....Why Why???

too much drama influence??
some girls thought they have the ability to tame a bad guy
whatever, i'm not one of those girls
i would prefer to go after someone that share similar interest

Pretty & nice girls attract more bees. Left over will still left out till one day they change their mind.
Those girls which attached know what is love & dun wanna be lonely.

Those which still single, they have thousand of their own reason to being single or still hoping their prince charming or Mr Perfect.

"No man can be an Island" Its all depend personal mentality. Most guys/girls just dunno how to socialise & let go their ego. That is why problem created, claiming & whining they can't find their Mr/Mrs Right.

You can't please the world & every people. Why care so much. Worst case just import wife from oversea. Get out more & meet more people, exposure more with friends, remember that 50% of population are female, and they also looking for partner.

@Kelvin_87

As long the girl still haven't married, you still can approach & attract her, the best man win the girl.

@Amy

will you get attracted to a nice, caring, loyal but boring nerd and in relationship with him? And he may only have 1 common interest with you.

who knows, i might!
i'll let you know if i do meet one