now gal guy position are quit equal which gal can live them self w/o rely on guy so there are not rushing to go into relation.

A lot prefer to build their relation slowly and stably. And a lot couple are no plan to born 3-5 children so mostly have 1-2 nowsday. so there got more time to chose what there want.

BTW my a lot of fren born at 198x are married already (me also)

Like your personality, bless you will get your Mr. Right soon.

I believe LYN lot of nice guys, just they dunno the way to socialise & to get the girls.

I duno either why these girls prefer bad guys. They know very well that they are bad, yet they still consciously choose to get together with them. Then once they're together, they complain and complain about why he's like this and that when we meet up for girl talk. In my heart, I was already thinking "I told you so".

yea, socialising isn't that difficult afterall
the guy friends around me are all really nice, just like how i like a guy to be
but too bad, they are either just friends or someone else's bf

your blessing received

ego to tame a wild horse and fall badly

Maybe they think that it is an accomplishment if they able to tame them and serenade their heart which apparently does not even exist in the real situation...Most of this gals jz attention whore i think...at the end of the day...when the "relationship" nt work out then they start whinning and make fuss all over it...truly a b****....

There's the easy way and the more tactful way. If you use the easy way I think you deserve the reputation that comes along with it.

You guys are just butthurt over pretty girls being cold to you

I've done part time jobs which require us to take precaution over hamsup guys. You don't need to educate me on what's tactful =.=

pretty girls in their 28s will accept anyone as long as you care and has financial security. This is happened to my friend. Accept the younger guy(4yrs below) within 2-3 weeks. The guy is not handsome and nerd. Nice guy. so you can crash on 28s and above girls

Its all depends on individual girl. I even attempt a 30's girl, but didn't go well. So nothing is definite right or wrong.

All depend their mentality & what they really want.

sometimes I prefer to be single.. cos I can be free..

lol, i like ur signatures ad especially this v

Don't hate me because I'm beautiful, hate me because your boyfriend thinks I am.

haha

i never wanted 2 b single until seeing and hearing so much complaints from friends/relatives etc about their relationships and involvement of both of their families blah blah blah =.= and i dont want 2 b a maid 2 them/kids even after getting old!

Match is the key here.....i believe love know no age limit but the farther the age difference the more it is unlikely to match each other.....coz we change when we age...thinking, believes and all...becomes more mature etc.

So in the beginning, both clicks n match n they are together...over time both matures....now different ppl matures at different rate....it'll be great if both matures at around the same rate...matched closely.....

If one matures faster n the other not so much...one would complain "u changed"..something like that...until a point both unable to match....then breaks....

Having said above, if one wanna find a match....one would have higher success if look at the similar age range..

my humble opinion...

Agree!

because u are as a child, u make ur parents become a maid?

Well said.... Well said... This is the type of lady deserve a place as candidate to become wife...

No time to read all 9 pages. But as to why girls prefer to remain single, there's this possible answer: no bf is better than a lousy bf.

yet there's still bunch of ladies clinching to their lousy bf n stay on... yet i felt $$$ plays the game still...

most single girls are waiting for their prince charming or mr right that they will never find

so they will either marry a loser when they are 30+ or remain unmarried and will die a single lonely old hag