aiks i no mislead .. i just translate what she said into a more flowery way of saying it ...

to the TS,

from all the replies u gave over here ( i don't know why im reading all 20 pages of these ), i reckon u should be able to handle urself pretty well should u decide to b more socialise n avail urself to the society....with ur life experiences (what u've seen n learned over the years) u should be able to detect good men / bad men (on the intentions department)

anyhow, as many here had said, me too agreed with most here that at your age u still have lots of time b4 u need to worry bout having bfs / husbands....

u know, experienced men (those in relationship b4) may prefer those ladies whose gone through working life to start a romantic relationship. Having said that, I've seen friends that started dating from early stage n later undergoing changes, whether the guy or the gal. the world opens up a different view to individuals when one gets to working life. some ppl change upon reaching that stage, love may not be the same anymore...ended up separated. today the guy is married to a different gal n the gal also gets married to a diff guy...there's no rite or wrong, good or bad in this....just that time wasted....

thing is, in my opinion, many ppl started dating young and by the time they get to working life, many are already stable couple, some also already married...so its pretty rare to be able to find the mr / ms right at that moment. I for one, have had a gf for 8yrs, recently splitted not due to life changes but like u, i m the quiet type, likes to stay home etc. while my gf would be the socialising type, wanting to have lots of friends, come home late at night or rather morning...in the end I call it quits.....now it been tough finding myself a nice caring one coz all are already taken

ended up telling myself let it flow with the water....if i can get to meet someone right n chance permits for me to make my move, i will take it....else, i m still able to live alone....its not too bad too being single so long as u're able to support ur living.

to the TS, just sharing my views, u don't have to hurry nor do u need to worry, whatever it is, live life to the fullest everyday like there's no tomorrow hehehe

I like tis translation...

anyway, wat's babe worries for? i'm 23 n i'm enjoying single life... free to go anywhere n do anything n i'm enjoying my own 5figures salary everymth without sharing (tis is jux bullsh** )

thank you thank you!!

welcome~~~
btw, y babe didnt post her fb or msn here?? I was searching ard the thread, sigh...

babe.. pm me ur fb so that I can hav a peek of ur beauti oso.

sex and relationship is overated, you're single because you are content and happy with your current lifestyle and probably your interest does not match a lot of guys, therefore you're not very interested in someone easily. sometimes we do wonder why we are so handsome/pretty than our friend but no bf/gf, it's down to our interest, the more you socialize, the more interest you have to match your future partner.

you're only 22, you might want to try something new, experience different things in life, meet outgoing people with a lot of funny and interesting stories to share, who knows, you might find something interesting in the process, and find yourself coming up with new interest, and that interest is something you can share with your current friends or people you'll meet in the future that with mutual interest that leads to have feeling with one another.

cheers

This post has been edited by sarcasm: Apr 13 2010, 09:14 PM

punya thread
self promote,dun not like

Join group gatherings with some respectable forumers present. I"ve made a few friends whom i yc regularly and they are female =P

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Added on April 14, 2010, 12:47 amAre you sure u dun wan the wife shop 2nd level?

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Added on April 14, 2010, 12:49 amLOL

This post has been edited by Tak3shi: Apr 14 2010, 12:56 AM

u r 22 only wor, if you're 30 liow then only start to scared la, summore if those hamsap, insincere guys approach...better stay single then

If you don't have male friends or meet guys how are you going to find your dream guy?

I tell that to my friends who are dreaming to be rich. They club, play computer games, watch movies, etc and enjoy life and they all dream of being rich. And what have they done to move towards that goal.......... Got la day dream...

When u wanna achieve a goal u need to plan. What u do daily will make your future.

Make more friends. =)

hey i am 25 and i haven't got into a relationship yet~ i have the same situation as you right now i think... every friend always assume that i have a gf... and my cousin say i am nice enough to have a gf...

sometimes i also felt lonely but being from a conservative family~ being single has its perks as well...
cheer up~

oh yea and i am still studying~!

This post has been edited by hironobu85: Apr 14 2010, 03:52 AM

hey ts,

just wonder how tall (cm) are you exactly?

Sex is NOT overrated!!!!

She said already, if your really want to know don't be lazy and read the previous pages.

its ok.. mine at 170cm

haha..

i think that these days more and more people prefer to stay single
i myself get question from my mum
- still havent find gf ahh...
- now how old already oo...
- in chinese calendar you already how old already you know
- if you 'ho meng' you become father already
-etc

haiz.... sien...
single and relationship has no difference at all
you will be happy... you will be sad, either way is just the same if you look it in general.

we all have witness our parent, aunt, uncle and frens relationship and it often does not went well...
so a lot of people think, what's the point of going in to one

then usually it comes down to what you want in life...
if you want sex.. i dont think that is difficult for you
if you want companionship... i dont think its difficult too...
if you want lots of money.... it aint difficult
everything will always come and go

so i think, lets enjoy while its there and acknowledge/appreciate when its gone
and things always change

kita enjoice

haha luckily my mom never told me that!!
Only my friends keep on asking me where's ur GF!!
DUn jia jia....dun hide her from them!! WT*
celaka...wonder why so hard to get a gf -.-

man.... you are right...
especially the 'DUn jia jia' quote
almost everyone will use that if there is an oppurnity
is like everyone having the same brain..

why is it difficult to get gf, u ask ?
because u think its difficult

Hmm... I wonder...
I used to be active in my group...
Tall, rich (that's what they told me, but I don't really think so! Moderate yes!), handsome--- so so lo....
Just dulan when ppl keep on asking where is ur partner? dun hide her from us...
Or when I close with a gal...my friends will question us whether are we dating...scare the hell of the gal -.-
sienz..this kind of life...
hmm...may be..

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This post has been edited by tlts: Apr 14 2010, 05:04 PM

That happen to me.

The girl end up running far far away.

Well,thats quite a sign of clearly not interested.