Hi.

Would like to share my real story..

im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick..

i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear..

but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens..

im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment) and i have a stable career at my age..

and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise....

really...

there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...

everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..

but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf..

"have u ever got a real bf?'"

this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate...

i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust...

i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?"

and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this...

maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right?

i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss....

if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...

Any pix's ?

very sad story meh...
i want be your bf..

Seems like you are quite negative & like to compare with others

The only thing you can do is continue your life and mix with new friends if possible.

If you always keep searching for the "one", frantically, you will be disappointed at the end.

Sometimes, good things may happen as a surprise, you know.

Many of my friends, are already attached, but then.....since i don't, i guess i have other better things to focus, for now.

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Apr 6 2010, 04:13 PM

Dun need to rush la ... ur 22 only. U should be worry at >25. Start as of frens... know more ppl first. And most importantly ur expectation got to be realistic. If u expect to marry rich guy only.. then good luck lo....

cheh~~~ only 22yrs old wanna scared no bf.
still plenty of time to choose and befriend. I can tell u lar... u lucky the guy din eat u and disappear.
If they really love you or not only for one night stand or wan to sax u only then would mind be a real friend with you.
No worries lar, one you work already sure can get bf one.
Too bad me got partner already, if not i can be friend with you too...hehe.

wifey material...good

i wan to be ur bf

Too choosy.

time walk by fast as fast .. age increase as the nombor 1 to 2..
well.. just can say.. wish u meet ur Mr.Right soon..

been seen ur comment on the topic " why r u still single " ..
is quite nice .. honest..

You're still young, get to know more friends but be SMART.
At your age you should socialise, know more ppls and i believed you definately will get the ideas of what you needed in your life, what type of guys is ideal for you, your living style etc

Sometime you just cant hurried yourself to get into a relationship, situation might just get worst when you simply choose your partners, thinking by just getting a bf might solve your relatives/friends pressure.

There's guys who likes to stay at home as well after he got a gf/wife..a family man...

Enjoy life and dont just stay at home.. Love will comes when you less notice it..good luck

u are too focus on comparison and getting "who is ur ideal partner", i think partly is because of "face problem".

instead of finding "who u want" which usually made u so blind to observe the surrounding, try mix around, know more ppl and learn to whoever that are available which "who you accept"

hey i am 30 and same as u

Yeah just take it slow. I'm 22 too, and not worrying at all.

IMO, the right one might appear and we might not even notice it because we are too busy looking for the 'perfect' one.

Age 22 isn't late to get a partner unless u follow tradional kampung way.

I would rather say you and the guy u meet is choosy and timing not right for your case.

You like to stay home and spend time with family is not a problem to guy nowadays because if u ask guy where to go pak toh today...i believe lot guy will say dunno or say stay home to avoid jam and it is so hot outside.

I think u dun have to reduce your taste and preference level. U're still young. Dont bother about married unless u r desperately want to.

Keep going and wish u found your true love somewhere around the corner..

Go out at the weekends & mix around wif fren...

Wan bf.. gif me your pix n FB

That's cos you haven't met me.

Jokes aside. How are you going to meet Mr.Right if you don't make more friends? You don't think he's going to drop down from heaven on to your lap do you?

It's really funny sometimes girls/guys say they want to meet a potential spouse but do nothing to attain it , you have a better chance striking lottery. You need to make effort to be where a possible mr.right would be. If you want someone who is melancholic and homely who likes to read, go to the bookstore. Join a book club. Etc.

If you want someone sporty join badminton activities etc. Money ain't going to drop from heaven, neither will husbands.

You're only 22 So much more ahead of you. You're just not ready. Perhaps, broaden your circle of friends and who knows...