Serious 22 year old
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Apr 13 2010, 11:18 AM
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44 posts Joined: Jul 2008 From: PJ Malaysia |
good luck
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Apr 13 2010, 11:18 AM
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15,856 posts Joined: Nov 2007 From: Zion |
QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:15 AM) yes, they are some girls tat looking for a rich men as that kind of men can give them security in term of money... u r still sooooooooooooo young la...why worry about not finding a good bf now? you want to get married now? jolin tsai and lin chi ling reaching their 30s d also still single ma...i am not agree with them totally.. for me, i think girls should be independent.. although had a rich bf or husband, girls oso need to depend herself by working... to see the outside world.. dunt let the guys think that we r always depend on them.. for me, it doesnt matter the guy is rich o not, at long as he got the ambition (siong chun sam), i dunt mind to work with him together to build a good & happy family.. as long as he got the ambition and confident on it... i always said a happy family is when "kung yat fan pho yat fan" is in the family.. wife will understand what her husband encountered during the work and so do him... for me money is important but the important thing is to get a good bf and husband.. if the man is so rich, but playboy.. im sure i will be the one who suffer in tat relationship.. so to omniknight86, not every gals are like tat... and picky doesnt mean that we are looking or hunting for a rich man.. we picky just becox we want to find a good and caring bf & husband... and the most important thing for me, he can love my family too.. this is very very important for me in choosing a bf... or husband... |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:19 AM
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5 posts Joined: Dec 2009 |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:19 AM
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4,852 posts Joined: Aug 2006 |
QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:15 AM) yes, they are some girls tat looking for a rich men as that kind of men can give them security in term of money... This kind of girls are rare now.i am not agree with them totally.. for me, i think girls should be independent.. although had a rich bf or husband, girls oso need to depend herself by working... to see the outside world.. dunt let the guys think that we r always depend on them.. for me, it doesnt matter the guy is rich o not, at long as he got the ambition (siong chun sam), i dunt mind to work with him together to build a good & happy family.. as long as he got the ambition and confident on it... i always said a happy family is when "kung yat fan pho yat fan" is in the family.. wife will understand what her husband encountered during the work and so do him... for me money is important but the important thing is to get a good bf and husband.. if the man is so rich, but playboy.. im sure i will be the one who suffer in tat relationship.. so to omniknight86, not every gals are like tat... and picky doesnt mean that we are looking or hunting for a rich man.. we picky just becox we want to find a good and caring bf & husband... and the most important thing for me, he can love my family too.. this is very very important for me in choosing a bf... or husband... BF>money. Now,everyone wants to see money first. |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:20 AM
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5 posts Joined: Dec 2009 |
QUOTE(zstan @ Apr 13 2010, 11:18 AM) u r still sooooooooooooo young la...why worry about not finding a good bf now? you want to get married now? jolin tsai and lin chi ling reaching their 30s d also still single ma... as i dunt want to get hurt... Added on April 13, 2010, 11:22 am QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 13 2010, 11:19 AM) of course money is important.. but got enough money is enough oredi for me...no need to be like millionaire.. got money for our own commitment, and no need to borrow money from relatives or frens is considered ok lol... not every gals had the opportunity to become millionaire's wife.. if got the chance oso, their husband oso will not loyal to them for whole life. This post has been edited by cutebabe1988: Apr 13 2010, 11:22 AM |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:23 AM
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1,139 posts Joined: Nov 2006 From: kota kemuning,puchong,penang |
QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:19 AM) its hard to list down.. as love cant judge by tat.. well u just write down what u want in ur future husband, tall-short,skinny-fat,dark-fair, etc etc in a paper, but my needed requirement is he has to love me n my family too... hehe.. then keep it in somewhere no want can see and u wont look for it, then go on with ur own everyday life, 1 day u will get what u want, not 100% but just near to what u want some people find their partner through dates, i mean alot of it, they date alot time only find their match, as for ur case ur looking for some 1 to pop up in front u and melt ur heart, |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:24 AM
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15,856 posts Joined: Nov 2007 From: Zion |
QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:20 AM) as i dunt want to get hurt... == u slowly find then u won get hurt lo..u prefer older guys or younger guys?XDAdded on April 13, 2010, 11:22 am of course money is important.. but got enough money is enough oredi for me... no need to be like millionaire.. got money for our own commitment, and no need to borrow money from relatives or frens is considered ok lol... not every gals had the opportunity to become millionaire's wife.. if got the chance oso, their husband oso will not loyal to them for whole life. |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:25 AM
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5 posts Joined: Dec 2009 |
QUOTE(kelvio @ Apr 13 2010, 11:23 AM) well u just write down what u want in ur future husband, tall-short,skinny-fat,dark-fair, etc etc in a paper, u sure boh?then keep it in somewhere no want can see and u wont look for it, then go on with ur own everyday life, 1 day u will get what u want, not 100% but just near to what u want some people find their partner through dates, i mean alot of it, they date alot time only find their match, as for ur case ur looking for some 1 to pop up in front u and melt ur heart, Added on April 13, 2010, 11:26 am QUOTE(zstan @ Apr 13 2010, 11:24 AM) older and matured..This post has been edited by cutebabe1988: Apr 13 2010, 11:26 AM |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:27 AM
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1,139 posts Joined: Nov 2006 From: kota kemuning,puchong,penang |
QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:25 AM) u wanna know u can try, just list down in a paper, what u can lose ?? just a bit of ur time,little ink, and a piece of paper only but what if u get?? u get ur future, am i right, no harm trying Added on April 13, 2010, 11:30 amya if u want it fast u can put the time frame when u want to have a bf, maybe in 3 years or 5 years, or maybe 2 years This post has been edited by kelvio: Apr 13 2010, 11:30 AM |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:41 AM
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4,852 posts Joined: Aug 2006 |
QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:20 AM) of course money is important.. but got enough money is enough oredi for me... Im not saying money is not important at all. Money is crucial for today's world. Without it,i doubt you can even survive 1 week.Besides,im not saying that one must be a millionaire. As long as it's sufficient,thats enough. At the time, constantly improving the lifestyle together.no need to be like millionaire.. got money for our own commitment, and no need to borrow money from relatives or frens is considered ok lol... not every gals had the opportunity to become millionaire's wife.. if got the chance oso, their husband oso will not loyal to them for whole life. I just want someone to build my future together. Not some super hot sex loving girl. |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:43 AM
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 13 2010, 11:41 AM) Im not saying money is not important at all. Money is crucial for today's world. Without it,i doubt you can even survive 1 week.Besides,im not saying that one must be a millionaire. As long as it's sufficient,thats enough. At the time, constantly improving the lifestyle together. yes u r rite. I just want someone to build my future together. Not some super hot sex loving girl. |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:46 AM
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15,856 posts Joined: Nov 2007 From: Zion |
hmmm...this kind of guy everywhere also got..but maybe no looks...
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Apr 13 2010, 11:46 AM
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550 posts Joined: Feb 2010 |
QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 13 2010, 11:41 AM) Im not saying money is not important at all. Money is crucial for today's world. Without it,i doubt you can even survive 1 week.Besides,im not saying that one must be a millionaire. As long as it's sufficient,thats enough. At the time, constantly improving the lifestyle together. MONEY is at the to for sure. no money, no talk, no date, no love.I just want someone to build my future together. Not some super hot sex loving girl. |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:51 AM
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4,852 posts Joined: Aug 2006 |
QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:43 AM) QUOTE(zstan @ Apr 13 2010, 11:46 AM) Whatever then.QUOTE(BoboTheGrouch @ Apr 13 2010, 11:46 AM) Thats true,but it doesnt mean that you have to rich to have dates,love etc. |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:54 AM
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1,139 posts Joined: Nov 2006 From: kota kemuning,puchong,penang |
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Apr 13 2010, 12:20 PM
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148 posts Joined: Mar 2009 From: KL |
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Apr 13 2010, 12:34 PM
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7,606 posts Joined: Dec 2004 From: Subang |
QUOTE(gracechew @ Apr 12 2010, 11:51 PM) Who say guys got nothing to lose? Guys got plenty to lose what, but guys are MUCH bigger risk takers than women.QUOTE(Ricky300 @ Apr 13 2010, 10:45 AM) It's Personal AssistanT, not assistance. Ok y'all malaysians need to stop looking down on positions such as PAs and secretarys. These are highly respectable positions and they carry a lot of responsibilities. In fact, I have more respect for them than people in say.... marketing.QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:20 AM) You can't learn how to swim if you don't want to get wet.QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:25 AM) Why hello thar! |
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Apr 13 2010, 12:36 PM
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1,647 posts Joined: Sep 2008 From: Marehsia-Bolehland |
QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:15 AM) yes, they are some girls tat looking for a rich men as that kind of men can give them security in term of money... that again is not so reflective of the reality out there, ambition guys are everywhere....we as guys have 1 common objective which is to find as much money there as possible, because we have the responsibility but however i doubt that not many guys have this mentality of take care of wife or GF....i.e She no need to work also can....i have seen too many examples out there that guys left by his gf or wife because no money and got other man offered or a better man have appeared....i am not agree with them totally.. for me, i think girls should be independent.. although had a rich bf or husband, girls oso need to depend herself by working... to see the outside world.. dunt let the guys think that we r always depend on them.. for me, it doesnt matter the guy is rich o not, at long as he got the ambition (siong chun sam), i dunt mind to work with him together to build a good & happy family.. as long as he got the ambition and confident on it... i always said a happy family is when "kung yat fan pho yat fan" is in the family.. wife will understand what her husband encountered during the work and so do him... for me money is important but the important thing is to get a good bf and husband.. if the man is so rich, but playboy.. im sure i will be the one who suffer in tat relationship.. so to omniknight86, not every gals are like tat... and picky doesnt mean that we are looking or hunting for a rich man.. we picky just becox we want to find a good and caring bf & husband... and the most important thing for me, he can love my family too.. this is very very important for me in choosing a bf... or husband... Money is important...good or no good is very subjective Like many people said...a man give you so much money per month, gives you a car, house you want or not? depends on the girls...but i hardly seen any who will reject of course i do not said all girls are like that...but the girls who want love is rare. being picky is okay...but we have to understand that people can be picky on us as well, if you don't mind people picky then i guess it is okay....since picky is okay....then the word love is no longer applicable in today society...but however it is much more on the man ability |
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Apr 13 2010, 01:15 PM
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QUOTE(spanker @ Apr 13 2010, 12:34 PM) Who say guys got nothing to lose? Guys got plenty to lose what, but guys are MUCH bigger risk takers than women. first of all, y look down on a p/a or sec? these both jobs are ok..It's Personal AssistanT, not assistance. Ok y'all malaysians need to stop looking down on positions such as PAs and secretarys. These are highly respectable positions and they carry a lot of responsibilities. In fact, I have more respect for them than people in say.... marketing. You can't learn how to swim if you don't want to get wet. Why hello thar! i dunt understand why got ppl look down on these jobs.. being a sec is easy but being a p/a is not tat easy.. u have to years of experience in being a sec to top mgmt.. and the pay oso high can said higher than doing sales at least this is a stable job not like sales, a bit risky. anyway thanks spanker for not looking down on these jobs... and understand our job scope.. |
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Apr 13 2010, 01:17 PM
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1,964 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: KL |
nothing will happen if u don't make an effort... and yes, it needs AN effort, at least one~
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