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hironobu85
post Apr 14 2010, 03:48 AM

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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:05 PM)
Hi.

Would like to share my real story..

im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick..

i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear..

but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens..

im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment)  rclxms.gif and i have a stable career at my age..

and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise....

really...

there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...

everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..

but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf..

"have u ever got a real bf?'"

this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate...

i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust...

i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?"

and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this...

maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right?

i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss....

if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...

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hey i am 25 and i haven't got into a relationship yet~ i have the same situation as you right now i think... every friend always assume that i have a gf... and my cousin say i am nice enough to have a gf...

sometimes i also felt lonely but being from a conservative family~ being single has its perks as well...
cheer up~ thumbup.gif

oh yea and i am still studying~! doh.gif

This post has been edited by hironobu85: Apr 14 2010, 03:52 AM
hironobu85
post Apr 15 2010, 10:41 AM

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QUOTE(conny @ Apr 14 2010, 11:43 PM)
relax girl..ur 22? still young....
im 26 single..last time many guys approached me too but i reject them all..now seems market value are dropping already..haha
then all fren , relatives keep asking me dun be so choosie but the fact is i haven't met someone i really wants.
hope can get mr right before 30...haha, wish me luck
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good luck buddy~ thumbup.gif


Added on April 15, 2010, 10:57 am
QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:20 AM)
as i dunt want to get hurt...  drool.gif


Added on April 13, 2010, 11:22 am
of course money is important.. but got enough money is enough oredi for me...

no need to be like millionaire.. got money for our own commitment, and no need to borrow money from relatives or frens is considered ok lol...

not every gals had the opportunity to become millionaire's wife..

if got the chance oso, their husband oso will not loyal to them for whole life.
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a lot of people say they don't wanna get hurt but its the process... from my experience everytime saw chunchick but don't dare to approach coz scared of rejection... if there isn't a try you won't know what will happen... yes you might get hurt in the process but having to weight up the risk of getting hurt makes the happiness that you are pursuing a lot more worth you time? Initiative... if you don't take the first step then nothing will happen... period whistling.gif

I have been in Japan for a few days and realized one thing (a lot is from a good chat up with the tour guide icon_rolleyes.gif )... only people in Malaysia and especially us Chinese talked about money money money~..... i walk around Japan and I don't see girls dressing up in brands like in KL... Malaysian mentality now is like no money no talk~ and having the mindset as if you don't do business you aren't gonna get rich and be a lowlife...
You just have to spread your horizons... icon_rolleyes.gif

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