Serious 22 year old
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 Apr 14 2010, 05:16 PM
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1,514 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Earth  
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 14 2010, 05:15 PM) That happen to me. haha but the problem is i'm not interest with that gal as well...The girl end up running far far away. Well,thats quite a sign of clearly not interested.   just friend -.-  |
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 Apr 14 2010, 05:24 PM
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138 posts Joined: Sep 2006 From: Setapakian 
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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:05 PM) Hi. You needed opinion or wanted to look for bf here in LYN???Would like to share my real story.. im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick.. i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear.. but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens.. im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment)  and i have a stable career at my age.. and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise.... really... there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy... everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds.. but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf.. "have u ever got a real bf?'" this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate... i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust... i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?" and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this... maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right? i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss.... if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...  1 advise >>>> CERTAINLY not in LYN !!!!!! u know what i mean de la. Here nonsense ppl alot more than those who truely thinks & mature. U see all those forumers in kopitiam and the way they wrote u know la. Just enlarge ur social life by making more frens and have more outings with frens..Know them from there. |
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Apr 14 2010, 05:26 PM
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1,029 posts Joined: Apr 2007 From: All Blue
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Same thing happen to me. Relatives always ask when to get married and i'll just casually tell them i dun even hav gf, lulz. And my parents always promote me in front of other girls. wtf weih =_=
Well, it's never been less girls around me. Just that I don't feels like wanna paktoh for the time being as traumatized by my past relationship...... At the very least u know what u wanted. just wait patiently for your mr.right to appear  |
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Apr 14 2010, 05:32 PM
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294 posts Joined: May 2006 From: Shah Alam
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dun get married...
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Apr 14 2010, 06:30 PM
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4,522 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Mordor, Middle Earth.
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QUOTE(spanker @ Apr 14 2010, 09:52 AM) Sex is NOT overrated!!!! Sex is overrated, hugs and kisses is not. I prefer hugs. need more lady hugs.  This post has been edited by billytong: Apr 14 2010, 06:32 PM |
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Apr 14 2010, 11:43 PM
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16 posts Joined: Nov 2008 
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relax girl..ur 22? still young....
im 26 single..last time many guys approached me too but i reject them all..now seems market value are dropping already..haha then all fren , relatives keep asking me dun be so choosie but the fact is i haven't met someone i really wants. hope can get mr right before 30...haha, wish me luck |
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Apr 15 2010, 12:54 AM
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388 posts Joined: Mar 2008 From: PJ
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QUOTE(conny @ Apr 14 2010, 11:43 PM) relax girl..ur 22? still young.... market value dropping? dun worry, u got me still, if u dun mind older than me XD ahahahaim 26 single..last time many guys approached me too but i reject them all..now seems market value are dropping already..haha then all fren , relatives keep asking me dun be so choosie but the fact is i haven't met someone i really wants. hope can get mr right before 30...haha, wish me luck |
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Apr 15 2010, 10:41 AM
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30 posts Joined: Apr 2007
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QUOTE(conny @ Apr 14 2010, 11:43 PM) relax girl..ur 22? still young.... good luck buddy~ im 26 single..last time many guys approached me too but i reject them all..now seems market value are dropping already..haha then all fren , relatives keep asking me dun be so choosie but the fact is i haven't met someone i really wants. hope can get mr right before 30...haha, wish me luck  Added on April 15, 2010, 10:57 am QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:20 AM) as i dunt want to get hurt... a lot of people say they don't wanna get hurt but its the process... from my experience everytime saw chunchick but don't dare to approach coz scared of rejection... if there isn't a try you won't know what will happen... yes you might get hurt in the process but having to weight up the risk of getting hurt makes the happiness that you are pursuing a lot more worth you time? Initiative... if you don't take the first step then nothing will happen... period  Added on April 13, 2010, 11:22 am of course money is important.. but got enough money is enough oredi for me... no need to be like millionaire.. got money for our own commitment, and no need to borrow money from relatives or frens is considered ok lol... not every gals had the opportunity to become millionaire's wife.. if got the chance oso, their husband oso will not loyal to them for whole life.  I have been in Japan for a few days and realized one thing (a lot is from a good chat up with the tour guide  )... only people in Malaysia and especially us Chinese talked about money money money~..... i walk around Japan and I don't see girls dressing up in brands like in KL... Malaysian mentality now is like no money no talk~ and having the mindset as if you don't do business you aren't gonna get rich and be a lowlife...You just have to spread your horizons... This post has been edited by hironobu85: Apr 15 2010, 10:57 AM |
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Apr 15 2010, 11:45 AM
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431 posts Joined: Mar 2007
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 14 2010, 05:15 PM) That happen to me. if it happens that the girl is interested and stick close to u how? but you not interested. lol. Anyway i always ignore kepo friends.The girl end up running far far away. Well,thats quite a sign of clearly not interested. Added on April 15, 2010, 11:47 am QUOTE(conny @ Apr 14 2010, 11:43 PM) relax girl..ur 22? still young.... fuiyoo reject all. I give u lepost.im 26 single..last time many guys approached me too but i reject them all..now seems market value are dropping already..haha then all fren , relatives keep asking me dun be so choosie but the fact is i haven't met someone i really wants. hope can get mr right before 30...haha, wish me luck Husband Store A store that sells husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates. You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! You may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the Building! So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. . On the first floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs and love the Lord. The second floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, and love kids. The third floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, and are extremely good looking. "Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads: Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead good looking and help with the housework. "Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!" Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads: Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads: Floor 6 - You are visitor 4,363,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store. Watch your step as you exit the building, and have a nice day! This post has been edited by Tak3shi: Apr 15 2010, 11:47 AM |
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Apr 15 2010, 03:41 PM
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12 posts Joined: Apr 2010
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if you are tall u will be my choice ^^
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Apr 15 2010, 04:43 PM
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4,852 posts Joined: Aug 2006
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QUOTE(Tak3shi @ Apr 15 2010, 11:45 AM) if it happens that the girl is interested and stick close to u how? but you not interested. lol. Anyway i always ignore kepo friends. Good la! |
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May 15 2010, 03:00 PM
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6,249 posts Joined: Jul 2006
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QUOTE(conny @ Apr 14 2010, 11:43 PM) relax girl..ur 22? still young.... LOL im 26 single..last time many guys approached me too but i reject them all..now seems market value are dropping already..haha then all fren , relatives keep asking me dun be so choosie but the fact is i haven't met someone i really wants. hope can get mr right before 30...haha, wish me luck so u and TS can double date wif me  |
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May 15 2010, 03:19 PM
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2,787 posts Joined: Jan 2003
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give me a PM. we'll hang out, and see how it goes.
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May 15 2010, 05:29 PM
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80 posts Joined: Feb 2007 From: klang
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wanna date me? but pls know that i may cheat you... lay traps for u and may do all the bad things that ermmm that cab be found in the newspaper.....
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May 15 2010, 07:11 PM
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451 posts Joined: Aug 2009
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QUOTE(Tak3shi @ Apr 15 2010, 11:45 AM) if it happens that the girl is interested and stick close to u how? but you not interested. lol. Anyway i always ignore kepo friends. lol...nice story!Added on April 15, 2010, 11:47 am fuiyoo reject all. I give u lepost. Husband Store A store that sells husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates. You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! You may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the Building! So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. . On the first floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs and love the Lord. The second floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, and love kids. The third floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, and are extremely good looking. "Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads: Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead good looking and help with the housework. "Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!" Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads: Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads: Floor 6 - You are visitor 4,363,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store. Watch your step as you exit the building, and have a nice day! |
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May 15 2010, 10:23 PM
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418 posts Joined: Dec 2005 From: The Inside Out
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i also 22 baru have bf,
you know what is love relationship happen when two people who deeply love each other. a successful relationship dun happen many time in life ,break up is not a funny things too. many of the relationship is puppy love and is not that serious love is not a title but a true experience, so dun envy of other,you will meet in future a right one and it is really really enough have many relationship is a hurt,gal ,can you tahan you have many bf and many of them take advantage of you and then break up it really need time to meet the right one. and i think one deep love is enough in life |
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May 15 2010, 10:39 PM
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46 posts Joined: Feb 2010
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lol.. i think u should just focus on making urself happy rather than thinking about getting into a relationship. life is about you you you and you
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May 16 2010, 02:55 AM
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264 posts Joined: May 2005 From: Winland
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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:05 PM) everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds.. Wouldn't you try somewhere else if the person you show interest in doesn't show some interest as well in return?if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi... A relationship is a give and take situation. To me, only seriously despo people will keep chasing and waiting for one person. It has nothing to do with sincerity nor patience. Regular guys are (or should be) used to rejection, so spending time trying to chase a girl who clearly isn't interested is wasting time, as it would be time better spent looking elsewhere. Being pretty in itself doesn't necessarily mean you'll score in the relationship department; personality counts for as much, if not more. Realise that "Mr Right" is simply an ideal; nobody is ever going to fit your idea of perfection. Pining for a nonexistent ideal and dismissing all the real people around you will land you in exactly the situation you're in: bf-less. |
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May 16 2010, 07:11 AM
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27 posts Joined: Aug 2008
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» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « hey gurl chill. ur just 22 n alrd bout bf bf? then i shud be worried more. imo, from my personal experience, u really need to get out of the house more. communicate with the outside world. get to know what is good what is bad. enjoy ur life while ur still free from any commitment. dont care if ppl tease for not having bf yet. have u ever had a steady/real bf before? if u never, dont expect a guy to come to u perfect. even when he's perfect it doesnt mean u are. so that's y i advise u communicate with ppl more,not only to expose urself to whats good and bad,but also to learn more about yourself. i use to be like u too,always contained myself from the outside world and always think that im good. always thinks that im not sensitive,very open minded,very cheerful, etc. but it turns out that i was this type of person while mixing with my colleagues. i do thank my colleagues/my new found friends for pointing me out my weaknesses, n feel that im a much better person than i was b4. on the bf part..i dont rili care if ppl tease me cos i always have this thinking, 'when its time,itll come' but i do agree on having a little bit of experience. im not saying to fool around a guy. what i meant was,if someone comes to you n say he's interested in you..how bout giving him a chance,some sort of stepping stone. learn how to treat a man, learn to divide time between work/dating/friends/family/misc. and also learn what type of man u want. not everything is perfect on the first time. for the time being, get out of the house more. but control yourself. |
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May 16 2010, 11:48 AM
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5 posts Joined: Apr 2009
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you better than me............
i 25..still no GF................................ http://www.click-together.com/cgi-bin/click/index.cgi maybe you can try your luck here in the topic here, i see many giving you fishing rod (advice), teach you how to fish (taking on this matter) but none of them show you where is the river...............where to fish..............(a platform to meet ppl you want) ppl like loiter at FB, because its free............... ppl wont loiter at this event, because they come there to seek for true love......they come on purpose................. it help filter a lot of puppy love style ppl............................... `im picky becos i want to get a bf tat can develop to another stage.. im very serious in this matter...im not just look for a bf just to dating only.. im thinking for my future as well.. although some ppl said this cant be controlled.. but i m particular on this.. i dunt want to get hurt at the end...` ` ppl come to this event major is for married............................... 170 cm.................. tall woh............................. maybe the height filter away too many `boy`...................... its a good sign edited the reply for 4 time.......... while edit, while readint this 22pages topic................. This post has been edited by raijin_z750: May 16 2010, 01:44 PM |
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