Hi.

Would like to share my real story..

im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick..

i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear..

but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens..

im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment)  and i have a stable career at my age..

and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise....

really...

there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...

everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..

but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf..

"have u ever got a real bf?'"

this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate...

i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust...

i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?"

and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this...

maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right?

i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss....

if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...

You needed opinion or wanted to look for bf here in LYN???
1 advise >>>>  CERTAINLY not in LYN !!!!!!

u know what i mean de la. Here nonsense ppl alot more than those who truely thinks & mature. U see all those forumers in kopitiam and the way they wrote u know la.

Just enlarge ur social life by making more frens and have more outings with frens..Know them from there.

wifey material...good

you better than me............

i 25..still no GF................................

http://www.click-together.com/cgi-bin/click/index.cgi

maybe you can try your luck here

in the topic here, i see many giving you fishing rod (advice), teach you how to fish (taking on this matter)

but none of them show you where is the river...............where to fish..............(a platform to meet ppl you want)

ppl like loiter at FB, because its free...............

ppl wont loiter at this event, because they come there to seek for true love......they come on purpose.................

it help filter a lot of puppy love style ppl...............................
`im picky becos i want to get a bf tat can develop to another stage.. im very serious in this matter...im not just look for a bf just to dating only.. im thinking for my future as well.. although some ppl said this cant be controlled.. but i m particular on this.. i dunt want to get hurt at the end...`
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ppl come to this event major is for married...............................
170 cm..................

tall woh.............................

maybe the height filter away too many `boy`......................

its a good sign
edited the reply for 4 time..........

while edit, while readint this 22pages topic.................

why girls (and boys) today are so desperate...?

Because love is wonderful...

Don't worry la.. you are only 22 ... Still a long way to go.. When i was 22, I also don't have bf..

When the time is right, your Mr Right will just appear in front of you.. 

What you can if that really worries you.. start to join social clubs like rotaract or leos, or JCs, etc  which helps you to socialize, make new friends, and also expand your networking.. If you are a christian, then maybe join in the youth fellowships..  when u are so busy with those activities, you will not think too much...

Lastly, do pray about it.. Sure God will answer your prayer when the time is right.. ** this apply to all religion ya**

So don't worry too much.. As for your friend keep asking the question, just ignore them.. Just tell them when i found my mr right, i'll sure intro to you all..

Don't worry la.. you are only 22 ... Still a long way to go.. When i was 22, I also don't have bf..

When the time is right, your Mr Right will just appear in front of you.. 

What you can if that really worries you.. start to join social clubs like rotaract or leos, or JCs, etc  which helps you to socialize, make new friends, and also expand your networking.. If you are a christian, then maybe join in the youth fellowships..  when u are so busy with those activities, you will not think too much...

Lastly, do pray about it.. Sure God will answer your prayer when the time is right.. ** this apply to all religion ya**

So don't worry too much.. As for your friend keep asking the question, just ignore them.. Just tell them when i found my mr right, i'll sure intro to you all..

ya lo... 22 still young.. I'm 24 this year yet still no gf...

22 is still young.... enjoy ur time.... you'll find the one when ur fate comes

23 this year and alre passed the "desperately-need-a girl-friend" stage last year, currently totally dont need anyone in my life,
so, practically, my "heart" has died since last year , and "closed shop", now focus on money and being materialistic. Soulmate-matter...
maybe next life la~

23 also young lah...summore you are a guy, better work hard to earn a lot money first....when you have a lot money, u scare no gf meh