Hi.

Would like to share my real story..

im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick..

i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear..

but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens..

im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment) and i have a stable career at my age..

and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise....

really...

there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...

everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..

but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf..

"have u ever got a real bf?'"

this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate...

i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust...

i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?"

and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this...

maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right?

i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss....

if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...

yes u r rite..

hehe...

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Added on April 6, 2010, 4:54 pmwat u mean>?

This post has been edited by cutebabe1988: Apr 6 2010, 04:54 PM

ic.. emm.. not at all..

nah.. din't lie leh..

just kidding.. but me a bit mature for 22 year old... i mean my look..

maybe im quite tall... tats y... ppl will thought im older than my age... tats y normally guys will approach me will be 30 something and somemore had married...

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Added on April 6, 2010, 5:01 pmoff course no premarital for me.. im a very conservative person in this situation... but i will not expect all the ladies will think like me... i love my self very much... and i want to give the most precious one to my husband, i mean my mr right in future...



This post has been edited by cutebabe1988: Apr 6 2010, 05:01 PM

170cm

spanker.. u r always giving negative feed back ...

hehe... great...

yes.. and yup.. i got huge problem.... y u all so clever one? cannot tipu lol i at lyn>>

becos some of frens here mentioned that normally one dint pak toh at this age still single sure not pretty and got problem one mah.. if they think like tat, then i got problem lol..


hehehehehe..........

reason is to main saja... no worry im ok..

and here not match making...

i know who am i.. hehehe..

spanker.. u r so honest... yup... only yum cha ma.. u guys all oni look for a pretty gals only meh to yumcha...

apa la..

y geh?

then curi wat..?

guys will like this kind of gal meh?

u sure boa?

i thought its opposite?

yameh...?

u sure bo?

yes.. wat do u want to know about me?

im from kl... and sorry i afraid u r one of the buaya...


hehe.. just kidding....no marah ya...

tq... for ur comment n advice..

appreciate it..

thanks for ur "Husband Store"

i got it...

so interesting n meaningful....

thanks for it..

maybe i have seen many frens of me & relatives had encounter love affairs...

like my aunt , although she married oredi, but she still can divorce easily just becox one man.. and that man is a very playful man... and the worst thing, is he had married with few daughters & sons..

their relationship kept on continue no matter how our family advice.. the guy really so bad and use my aunt 's money.. and never provide anything to her except sex ...

so i am so afraid that when i fall in a love, i will become blind and cant be rationale.. and afraid to be cheated.. nothing to lose for men right?

please dunt misunderstand with my words.. not purposely offended any men here...

like one of my gf , she is sooo desperate of getting a bf after broke up.. just in 1 mth , she can find a guy no matter how bad he is.. as long as the man accept her as gf.. we had advised her many times tat no hurry in finding a bf.. she need to look for a good bf instead of a bad one... when the first bf dumped her, she still can sms him and ask him to accept her back everyday after the day of broke up... but the guy never reply her sms or even call her.. after 1 mth , that guy found a new gf, then only my friend gave up on repairing the relationship with tat guy and look for another guy..

she always asked me to intro guy friends to her.. and i said let it be.. if the mr right is here, you both sure will be together, no need to purposely look for it... at anywhere ...