Serious 24 and still never had a relationship, No gf until now, I am 24
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 Oct 4 2009, 09:52 PM
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 01:49 PM) It's not like I am not enjoying this life. My parents are always saying that when I get out to work, I'll surely find the right one but friends out there are saying the opposite. Who to believe? I myself am really afraid that I may end up like a single poor old man. OMG. you rather listen to ur friends then learning how to accept. If you stop listening to ur frens who prejudged that girl, mayb u cud have a stable relationship.   |
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Oct 4 2009, 09:58 PM
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225 posts Joined: Nov 2004 From: Subang, USJ 
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Where ye balls? It ain't gonna get anywhere if you're containing it. A lil kick here and there IS okay and meant to be...at least you'd get somewhere!
So nuff with the excuses and act like a man! Cheers |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:08 PM
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 08:26 PM) Me and 2 of my friends are now 24 and we still don't have / never had a gf before. Do you guys/girls think this could be a problem or do we still have lots of chances in the future? According to some people, girls nowadays are starting relationships early, around during school days 16-18 age and by the time we, 24 -25 age meet them in their 21-24, they're already taken and are in a stable relationship. Do you guys/girls think this is true? nahh.. not true. i'm in my 20s and i'm single. and i still like 'tame' guys too.. so no problem at all. there are still so many ladies out there who are like me.Some girls commented that the 3 of us are a group of too 'husband-looking' guys and girls at 20s do not like to go out with us because we don't like parties/clubbing that much. We are those honest types of guys where, in the outside might look boring (because we dress normal and not very attractive) and girls say that we might get our love only around 30s because that's when girls finally find guys with our character to secure a future. What do you girls/guys think on this issue? Do give me some feedback on this. maybe going out once in a while can get you lady friends to start with~  |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:09 PM
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have u ever thought of spannaring? hahaha
since some ppl said that some attached gals are awaiting their prince charm to rescue them from the inferno but beware though, spannaring is quite risky in many cases, who knows u could have spannared a gal from a taiko This post has been edited by dattebayo: Oct 4 2009, 10:09 PM |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:09 PM
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QUOTE(redblaque @ Oct 4 2009, 10:08 PM) nahh.. not true. i'm in my 20s and i'm single. and i still like 'tame' guys too.. so no problem at all. there are still so many ladies out there who are like me. Ah,how tame do you want? maybe going out once in a while can get you lady friends to start with~ |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:11 PM
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QUOTE(redblaque @ Oct 4 2009, 10:08 PM) nahh.. not true. i'm in my 20s and i'm single. and i still like 'tame' guys too.. so no problem at all. there are still so many ladies out there who are like me. too tame is boredmaybe going out once in a while can get you lady friends to start with~ |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:17 PM
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QUOTE(redblaque @ Oct 4 2009, 10:08 PM) nahh.. not true. i'm in my 20s and i'm single. and i still like 'tame' guys too.. so no problem at all. there are still so many ladies out there who are like me. be careful Redblaque. "Tame" guys might seem tame to you but when they go in the bedroom they either:maybe going out once in a while can get you lady friends to start with~ 1) finish too fast because they can't believe they're doing it with a girl and not their hand, or 2) do some weird kinky stuff that they saw on disk 568 of their 100,000 porn CD collection  and yeah I'm a "tame" guy  This post has been edited by B@rt: Oct 4 2009, 10:17 PM |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:18 PM
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QUOTE(B@rt @ Oct 4 2009, 10:17 PM) be careful Redblaque. "Tame" guys might seem tame to you but when they go in the bedroom they either: 1) finish too fast because they can't believe they're doing it with a girl and not their hand, or 2) do some weird kinky stuff that they saw on disk 568 of their 100,000 porn CD collection and yeah I'm a "tame" guy I know some tame looking guy that is completely different on bed. |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:20 PM
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360 posts Joined: Jan 2008 From: land of Starlight
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that's why dont judge a book by its cover
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Oct 4 2009, 10:21 PM
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Who says 'tame' guys will have so big a collection of porn stuffs? I am a tame guy and I seldom watch any.
As for spanaring, I don't think that works for a couple of reasons: 1) If you can spanar a girl from one guy, who knows someone else might come spanar her from you again later? 2) Most girls don't like a guy friend to spanar her from their bfs. Once they notice something is wrong with your behaviour, they will immediately cut contact from you and it's dangerous. 3) Spanaring is not ethical. Who knows the girl might be having problems with the guy and the guy is on his way to recovery and there you go snatching away what he's trying to fix. I pity the guy because the same incident might happen to me, it's like a cycle. |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:26 PM
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QUOTE(vivienne85 @ Oct 4 2009, 10:20 PM) that's why dont judge a book by its cover Hahahhahahah. Damn true. QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 10:21 PM) Who says 'tame' guys will have so big a collection of porn stuffs? I am a tame guy and I seldom watch any. You can come out with thousands of reasons why you are still single,unless you stop thinking so much,you'll still be single.As for spanaring, I don't think that works for a couple of reasons: 1) If you can spanar a girl from one guy, who knows someone else might come spanar her from you again later? 2) Most girls don't like a guy friend to spanar her from their bfs. Once they notice something is wrong with your behaviour, they will immediately cut contact from you and it's dangerous. 3) Spanaring is not ethical. Who knows the girl might be having problems with the guy and the guy is on his way to recovery and there you go snatching away what he's trying to fix. I pity the guy because the same incident might happen to me, it's like a cycle. |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:26 PM
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253 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: KL/Kajang
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No offence TS, but i can sort of understand your situation here, whereby i can say i'm completely in your shoes(just that i might be slightly better in terms of the experience) but your doubt here won't do you any good be it Physically or Mentally(actually esspecially mentally). What you need to do, is just Ignore it and focus on something else. E.g a Career?And with luck, you might just bump into one. But when that happens, don't let it pass you by
Good luck |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:27 PM
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Plenty of fishes in the seas, but they are grumpy
got it from 500 days of summer. |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:35 PM
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oh noo.. now u guys scare me. i'm never gonna see "tame" guys the same way again.. lmao
i think doing it with ur hand and porn is normal. to finish fast is a complete turn-off, but if they can do kinky stuff when in bed, why not? not to the extreme, of course. nahh.. sexual behaviours aside, for me these "tame" ones usually make you feel secured and calm inside.. "wild" ones can give you headache. maybe heartache. so TS, i hope you be a gentleman and just be who you are. no need to change just for the sake of wanting to be in a relationship.. don't worry too much~ This post has been edited by redblaque: Oct 4 2009, 10:36 PM |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:36 PM
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QUOTE(vivienne85 @ Oct 4 2009, 11:20 PM) that's why dont judge a book by its cover alot of people are like that tho. It will be nice if everyone dont do it, but at the end, its still. ppl judge the books by its cover. :/ Added on October 4, 2009, 10:37 pm QUOTE(redblaque @ Oct 4 2009, 11:35 PM) oh noo.. now u guys scare me. i'm never gonna see "tame" guys the same way again.. lmao Yea, the msg.. Just be who you are i think doing it with ur hand and porn is normal. to finish fast is a complete turn-off, but if they can do kinky stuff when in bed, why not? not to the extreme, of course. nahh.. sexual behaviours aside, for me these "tame" ones usually make you feel secured and calm inside.. "wild" ones can give you headache. maybe heartache. so TS, i hope you be a gentleman and just be who you are. no need to change just for the sake of wanting to be in a relationship.. don't worry too much~ !This post has been edited by KVReninem: Oct 4 2009, 10:37 PM |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:38 PM
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253 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: KL/Kajang
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QUOTE(KVReninem @ Oct 4 2009, 10:36 PM) alot of people are like that tho. It will be nice if everyone dont do it, but at the end, its still. ppl judge the books by its cover. :/ I wouldn't say its "Judging a Book by its cover", but i would classify that as "First Impression"Added on October 4, 2009, 10:37 pm Yea, the msg.. Just be who you are ! |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:38 PM
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943 posts Joined: Apr 2008 From: Petaling Jaya, Selangor, Malaysia.
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QUOTE(vivienne85 @ Oct 4 2009, 10:20 PM) that's why dont judge a book by its cover For guys maybe. But for most girls, the book cover is always nice. Until you open it lol. Not all books lar. |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:39 PM
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360 posts Joined: Jan 2008 From: land of Starlight
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QUOTE(Deadlocks @ Oct 4 2009, 10:38 PM) For guys maybe. of cos nt all books lar...lolBut for most girls, the book cover is always nice. Until you open it lol. Not all books lar. |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:40 PM
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QUOTE(Deadlocks @ Oct 4 2009, 11:38 PM) For guys maybe. haha ya...always concern abt the cover than the input But for most girls, the book cover is always nice. Until you open it lol. Not all books lar. |
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Oct 4 2009, 10:40 PM
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2,499 posts Joined: Apr 2005 From: Tyneside
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QUOTE(sabbertooth @ Oct 4 2009, 09:03 PM) hey dude... m 30 n yet no gf.. cheer up dude.. don't feel sad.. u can pay to get girls.. ) True but this is just to satisfy your lust Girls in clubs normally are just for 1 nite stand....if you're aiming for long relationship type of gals, dont be choosy there are a lot of girls out there  Just build your self esteem and be positive |
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