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Serious 24 and still never had a relationship, No gf until now, I am 24

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post Oct 4 2009, 09:33 PM

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 09:32 PM)
True but however the homey girls I met were the taken ones. That left me no choices at all. The homey girls that I liked were normally very true to their bfs and one even said that she and the bf mengkaji for sometime, around a year before starting an official relationship.
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mengkaji??
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post Oct 4 2009, 09:34 PM

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QUOTE(vivienne85 @ Oct 4 2009, 09:33 PM)
mengkaji??
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study/revision/anything related to education

but that mengaji laugh.gif
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QUOTE(vivienne85 @ Oct 4 2009, 09:33 PM)
mengkaji??
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She said she and her bf also first timer, and they waited for some time to understand each other fully like a year only they started as official couple. This girl is actually a good girl and homey type but I was late.
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 09:25 PM)
No la. They just said that going to clubs, discos and pubs are fun but to me, those places are just plain noisy. They said they can dance and release their stress there and I told them no, I get more stressful there and they began to despise me as a non-clubber.
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To be honest,im pretty much the same as you. Clubs are noisy like hell with sucky music,unless they have Apparat or some Europeon DJs.Typical Malaysian clubbing music is shit.Cant dance at all. Shots taste like the worst medicine ever. I do consider myself as non-clubber and i rarely go clubbing. Even if i go,i'll find way to enjoy myself like talk to some friends and have some beer at the same time.

If you dont like clubbing,dont go then. No one is forcing you. The more i read,the more i think that you are with the wrong crowd. I really doubt every single girls out there is a clubber.
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Oct 4 2009, 09:35 PM)
To be honest,im pretty much the same as you. Clubs are noisy like hell with sucky music,unless they have Apparat or some Europeon DJs.Typical Malaysian clubbing music is shit.Cant dance at all. Shots taste like the worst medicine ever. I do consider myself as non-clubber and i rarely go clubbing. Even if i go,i'll find way to enjoy myself like talk to some friends and have some beer at the same time.

If you dont like clubbing,dont go then. No one is forcing you. The more i read,the more i think that you are with the wrong crowd. I really doubt every single girls out there is a clubber.
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not all single girls are clubbers...
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Oct 4 2009, 09:35 PM)
To be honest,im pretty much the same as you. Clubs are noisy like hell with sucky music,unless they have Apparat or some Europeon DJs.Typical Malaysian clubbing music is shit.Cant dance at all. Shots taste like the worst medicine ever. I do consider myself as non-clubber and i rarely go clubbing. Even if i go,i'll find way to enjoy myself like talk to some friends and have some beer at the same time.

If you dont like clubbing,dont go then. No one is forcing you. The more i read,the more i think that you are with the wrong crowd. I really doubt every single girls out there is a clubber.
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Well, not every but around 90% girls at 20+ age seems to be like this. I did meet with girls who doesn't like clubbing but then again, these girls are too overly homey. Asking them out for lunch before classes is like impossible.
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QUOTE(B@rt @ Oct 4 2009, 09:28 PM)
homey guy + wild girl = girl  doh.gif

Homey guy + homey girl = guy girl  thumbup.gif

wild guy + homey girl = girl  cry.gif
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damn true,i know a guy who loves clubbing and his gf hates clubbing.

It didnt go well.

QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 4 2009, 09:30 PM)
No.

Smart persons know how to balance and weight his life and study. It doesn't mean a student have to stay at home all time just for study.
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I know,and thats the reason i run for Honorary Secretary for a society next year. I cant just spend my entire uni in a room,except 4th year.

Now,i just hope i can get that post.

QUOTE(vivienne85 @ Oct 4 2009, 09:30 PM)
doh.gif

kan ada famous quote ni-ada wang ada ah moi lor whistling.gif
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Money isnt the only factor that have an impact on whether a relationship work or not.

QUOTE(silverhawk @ Oct 4 2009, 09:32 PM)
Dude, stop making a thousand and one excuses for not having the balls to date women.
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post Oct 4 2009, 09:39 PM

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 09:38 PM)
Well, not every but around 90% girls at 20+ age seems to be like this. I did meet with girls who doesn't like clubbing but then again, these girls are too overly homey. Asking them out for lunch before classes is like impossible.
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haih....got girls who are between in 1 la...not too homely and not the clubbing type...

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QUOTE(vivienne85 @ Oct 4 2009, 09:38 PM)
not all single girls are clubbers...
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Yes,i do realise that.

QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 09:38 PM)
Well, not every but around 90% girls at 20+ age seems to be like this. I did meet with girls who doesn't like clubbing but then again, these girls are too overly homey. Asking them out for lunch before classes is like impossible.
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No offence,just like hawkie say,you are making up thousands of reasons for not going for a girl.

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btw, I actually found my true love, right miss left ?
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post Oct 4 2009, 09:42 PM

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QUOTE(vivienne85 @ Oct 4 2009, 09:39 PM)
haih....got girls who are between in 1 la...not too homely and not the clubbing type...
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And is there a probability to find one so perfect? I am still searching but till now, I never met a girl in between like this but if I could, I might try provided she's not taken, since my record on taken girls, failed 100%.
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post Oct 4 2009, 09:45 PM

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QUOTE(Fatimus @ Oct 4 2009, 09:42 PM)
btw, I actually found my true love, right miss left ?
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Yeah,i know she's your true love.

She awesome.Always manage to fulfil your specific needs.Right? brows.gif
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post Oct 4 2009, 09:46 PM

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well, of course there are girls which don't like clubbing
there are obviously guys which don't like clubbing as well

if you really want a shortcut to learn the way a relationship "works", get to a club, try to open someone there...and things may happen...(of course, you need to have the charismatic speech and a loud voice to do so as malaysian clubs are dam noisy...LOL)

you are giving yourself quite a few reasons to not get a "proper" gf...try to be less self-aware and just enjoy yourself with the people you know...and have the energy in your speech and be fun to be around people...while communicating, try to tap one another..."act" angry and see how another reacts...kinda fun too you know...?=)

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 12:26 PM)
Me and 2 of my friends are now 24 and we still don't have / never had a gf before. Do you guys/girls think this could be a problem or do we still have lots of chances in the future? According to some people, girls nowadays are starting relationships early, around during school days 16-18 age and by the time we, 24 -25 age meet them in their 21-24, they're already taken and are in a stable relationship. Do you guys/girls think this is true?

Some girls commented that the 3 of us are a group of too  'husband-looking' guys and girls at 20s do not like to go out with us because we don't like parties/clubbing that much. We are those honest types of guys where, in the outside might look boring (because we dress normal and not very attractive) and girls say that we might get our love only around 30s because that's when girls finally find guys with our character to secure a future. What do you girls/guys think on this issue?

Do give me some feedback on this.
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 09:42 PM)
And is there a probability to find one so perfect? I am still searching but till now, I never met a girl in between like this but if I could, I might try provided she's not taken, since my record on taken girls, failed 100%.
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I bet you don't even go out and meet girls... and you pre-judge them too often. How are you ever going to meet a girl that fits your criterias? Heck, even if you do find one that suits you, what makes you think a girl like that will want you? All I can see from you, is that you're a hopeless guy who expects things to be handed to him on a silver platter. Hoping a girl will just magically fall for you, cause you like her.
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Oct 4 2009, 09:45 PM)
Yeah,i know she's your true love.

She awesome.Always manage to fulfil your specific needs.Right? brows.gif
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she is kinky
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It's not like I am not enjoying this life. My parents are always saying that when I get out to work, I'll surely find the right one but friends out there are saying the opposite. Who to believe? I myself am really afraid that I may end up like a single poor old man.
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 01:38 PM)
Well, not every but around 90% girls at 20+ age seems to be like this. I did meet with girls who doesn't like clubbing but then again, these girls are too overly homey. Asking them out for lunch before classes is like impossible.
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thats your problem. You think you're high and mighty be so picky yet complaining y no gf. =.=
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QUOTE(Fatimus @ Oct 4 2009, 09:49 PM)
she is kinky
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You told me that already. rolleyes.gif
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D1u... stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it. GO STUDY HARD AND BE A MILLIONAIRE!

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