that's why dont judge a book by its cover

oh noo.. now u guys scare me. i'm never gonna see "tame" guys the same  way again.. lmao

i think doing it with ur hand and porn is normal. to finish fast is a complete turn-off, but if they can do kinky stuff when in bed, why not? not to the extreme, of course.

nahh.. sexual behaviours aside, for me these "tame" ones usually make you feel secured and calm inside.. "wild" ones can give you headache. maybe heartache.

so TS, i hope you be a gentleman and just be who you are. no need to change just for the sake of wanting to be in a relationship.. don't worry too much~

For guys maybe.

But for most girls, the book cover is always nice.

Until you open it lol.

Not all books lar.

Sorry i'm late in replying this, I'm not on the forums on weekends.  Too many stuff to do preparing for wedding dinner.  Anyway what i'm saying is you can't wait too long to get your act together.  The good homey pretty girls that you said you like start working around the age of 22-24 and they are picked up fast by guys because they are hot and marriage material.

Here is an example of how things might turn out if you don't get your act together soon.
24 years old - you are a homey unattractive guy who wants to date a pretty homey girl
25 years old - you think you still have time. No problem lah 25 only mah
26 years old - you think you still have time. No problem lah 26 only mah
27 years old - your friends start to get married and you become the hing tai for the umpteenth time and you're like hmm i never even had a relationship before
28 years old - OMG i need to do something. You enroll yourself in a gym and ask again in Lowyat forums.
29 years old - You now have a body that is acceptable and manage to score a date with a homey but unattractive girl
30 years old - You don't love the girl but you're scared to dump her as you don't know whether you will be able to find another
34 years old - Things become so stale that she dumps you cos you are not husband material.
35 years old - You are called "uncle" by the Carrefour cashier and BAM you realise that you should have listened to Bart's warning and get your act together sooner.
36 years old - you go into a state of depression
37 years old - you emerge from the state of depression but now back to square 1
38 years old - everybody around you (the group you mix with) have teenage children and you are alone living with your parents.  You get rejected by the 24 year old girl because you look like her father.
39 years old - you decide to go buy a wife.
40 years old - you get married
41 years old - the wife runs off with an Indonesian labourer doing renovation for the house behind yours.
42 years old - you come back to Lowyat forums again and post "42 and alone"

If what he says is right, then I am totally alone for the rest of my life.