how old r u,Cheesenium???

mid 20's?

Perhaps it's something with the gals nowadays.

uni boy no need to worry abt ladies la...go study la...

No la. They just said that going to clubs, discos and pubs are fun but to me, those places are just plain noisy. They said they can dance and release their stress there and I told them no, I get more stressful there and they began to despise me as a non-clubber.

homey guy + wild girl = girl 

Homey guy + homey girl = guy girl 

wild guy + homey girl = girl 

No.

Smart persons know how to balance and weight his life and study. It doesn't mean a student have to stay at home all time just for study.

kan ada famous quote ni-ada wang ada ah moi lor

Dude, stop making a thousand and one excuses for not having the balls to date women.

not all single girls are clubbers...

Well, not every but around 90% girls at 20+ age seems to be like this. I did meet with girls who doesn't like clubbing but then again, these girls are too overly homey. Asking them out for lunch before classes is like impossible.

btw, I actually found my true love, right miss left ?

she is kinky

nahh.. not true. i'm in my 20s and i'm single. and i still like 'tame' guys too.. so no problem at all. there are still so many ladies out there who are like me.

maybe going out once in a while can get you lady friends to start with~

be careful Redblaque. "Tame" guys might seem tame to you but when they go in the bedroom they either:

1) finish too fast because they can't believe they're doing it with a girl and not their hand, or
2) do some weird kinky stuff that they saw on disk 568 of their 100,000 porn CD collection

and yeah I'm a "tame" guy 

that's why dont judge a book by its cover

Who says 'tame' guys will have so big a collection of porn stuffs? I am a tame guy and I seldom watch any.

As for spanaring, I don't think that works for a couple of reasons:
1) If you can spanar a girl from one guy, who knows someone else might come spanar her from you again later?
2) Most girls don't like a guy friend to spanar her from their bfs. Once they notice something is wrong with your behaviour, they will immediately cut contact from you and it's dangerous.
3) Spanaring is not ethical. Who knows the girl might be having problems with the guy and the guy is on his way to recovery and there you go snatching away what he's trying to fix. I pity the guy because the same incident might happen to me, it's like a cycle.

oh noo.. now u guys scare me. i'm never gonna see "tame" guys the same  way again.. lmao

i think doing it with ur hand and porn is normal. to finish fast is a complete turn-off, but if they can do kinky stuff when in bed, why not? not to the extreme, of course.

nahh.. sexual behaviours aside, for me these "tame" ones usually make you feel secured and calm inside.. "wild" ones can give you headache. maybe heartache.

so TS, i hope you be a gentleman and just be who you are. no need to change just for the sake of wanting to be in a relationship.. don't worry too much~

Yeah what!

Plus, it's LESS boring lol.

Better still, teh girl do all the talking and I'll go uhuh, uhuh, uhuh.

Even when she has finished talking lol.

Lol, just joking man.

Haha. Any takers out there now!???!!!! 

Haha, if I realized that she found out at the very moment I kept "uhuh-ing" after she's finished talking, I'll go:

"Oh shit. Shit. Shit shit shit shit. Sorry sorry sorry sorry sorry, so sorry! Oh shit. You were so boring so I didn't pay attention...oh SHIT! I don't mean that! Shit, I'm so sorry!"

maybe if you spend more time with your family, you can attract nice girls? that's another way to start.. some girls like it when they see a guy being so nice with their loved ones because that would make an impression that he'll take good care of his GF as well.

Win a girl's heart and it's "HEART SHOT!"