how old r u,Cheesenium???

mid 20's?

ok dude.  I'm gonna tell u what you need to do first and foremost.  You seem to have very good hing tai but really you guys are what is holding yourselves back.  You need to branch out and meet girls yourselves. Quit hanging out with each other every other day and go out and meet ppl on your own.

Sure you guys can meet up like once a week to hit the gym (Pls do this together and motivate each other to keep going to the gym) but having that safety net (ie your friends) is what is keeping you from taking the leap of faith and pursuing girls.  I know this because when I was in secondary I had a very good bunch of hing tais. We were like brothers and because we always had each other we never courted girls.  When I went off to college and they stayed and did form 6, I got my first gf.

Are you looking for the right girls? If you're always chasing hot chicks well you have to have at least 4 or 5 of the the following "C"s
1) cash/credit card (ada wang ada amoi)
2) condo (you live on ur own, also relates to the saying above)
3) car (ada wang ada amoi)
4) confidence (looks)
5) charm and charisma

Do you have 4 or 5 Cs?

I beginning to think TS is going on the wrong crowd.

I will not accept those who like to go to gay clubs.Something is wrong.

21.

Still in uni.

Not very far off from TS.

I beginning to think TS is going on the wrong crowd.

I will not accept those who like to go to gay clubs.Something is wrong.

uni boy no need to worry abt ladies la...go study la...
gay clubs??
no need to go to that extreme la...

Perhaps it's something with the gals nowadays.

uni boy no need to worry abt ladies la...go study la...

No la. They just said that going to clubs, discos and pubs are fun but to me, those places are just plain noisy. They said they can dance and release their stress there and I told them no, I get more stressful there and they began to despise me as a non-clubber.

Okay,so i study now and end up like TS 3 years after with a thread like this?

No la. They just said that going to clubs, discos and pubs are fun but to me, those places are just plain noisy. They said they can dance and release their stress there and I told them no, I get more stressful there and they began to despise me as a non-clubber.

then it is their (face) problem. I have my ways to release stress, it is not compulsory for me to club.

Clubbing seal is more benefit than clubbing itself.

Okay....
Okay,so i study now and end up like TS 3 years after with a thread like this?

True but however the homey girls I met were the taken ones. That left me no choices at all. The homey girls that I liked were normally very true to their bfs and one even said that she and the bf mengkaji for sometime, around a year before starting an official relationship.