Me and 2 of my friends are now 24 and we still don't have / never had a gf before. Do you guys/girls think this could be a problem or do we still have lots of chances in the future? According to some people, girls nowadays are starting relationships early, around during school days 16-18 age and by the time we, 24 -25 age meet them in their 21-24, they're already taken and are in a stable relationship. Do you guys/girls think this is true?

Some girls commented that the 3 of us are a group of too  'husband-looking' guys and girls at 20s do not like to go out with us because we don't like parties/clubbing that much. We are those honest types of guys where, in the outside might look boring (because we dress normal and not very attractive) and girls say that we might get our love only around 30s because that's when girls finally find guys with our character to secure a future. What do you girls/guys think on this issue?

Do give me some feedback on this.

Well, not every but around 90% girls at 20+ age seems to be like this. I did meet with girls who doesn't like clubbing but then again, these girls are too overly homey. Asking them out for lunch before classes is like impossible.

It's not like I am not enjoying this life. My parents are always saying that when I get out to work, I'll surely find the right one but friends out there are saying the opposite.  Who to believe? I myself am really afraid that I may end up like a single poor old man.

ya lar..there are more chicks than dudes in this world population.

which army?

if it is Malaysian army then

msia army is....          

what so rush?

sound so cute 

wow,this part suck in life if u are physically unattractive, and unattractive to other female in any other way.

that means, all the pretty and awesome girls will be taken away, and leaving u with the girl out of ur standard, but u will take them anyways.

where is the picture?

lazy debate at this point.

always 2 side will stand

If you ask 10 guys out there that has been through a few relationships, and they will just say what you said above might be bull. I remember having a few guy friends in college that have been through a few relationships. They told me that after a few relationship tries, they realised that there's no such thing as "love doesn't look at how good their looks are". They said that it is because a girl is attractive or pretty or hot, the guy will go near her and starts to understand her. Once he got enuf understanding of the good points, he will go for the chase. This is proven as most "not quite attractive girls" will not have guys approaching them in the first place. The guys will normally be stuck with the more attractive ones and try to know them more. One of men's realistic characteristics.

Yeah I understand what you mean but the problem is, if a girl doesn't look attractive enough, the guys wouldn't even try to know her, not even saying love her. Imagine a realistic situation where a guy has 2 female friends, one attractive but doesn't talk much with him, and another that isn't attractive but talks a lot. For any guy out there, the obvious answer is the guy will try and love the attractive one first. That's how we guys are. I can't deny that but I am like this too. However I am hoping to change my perception.

You know what you should do: Stop giving excuses on your past failures and do something to fix this,than sitting in the forums whining non stop.

Nobody is saying you are wrong euphoria. Read the replies carefully.

LOVE REALLY IS BLIND - LOOKS DONT MATTER WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE.

BUT.
Human beings are damn picky with who they fall in love with.

Guys notice all the nice things and try to get to know the pretty/hot/attractive girls - girls who are fertile, curvy, hot - guys hate falling in love with ugly, disproportionate women.

Girls notice all the nice things about guys with successful traits - good genes that would produce successful offspring - girls hate falling in love with losers.

Not all guys are successful winners in the game of life.
Not all girls are pretty.

Everyone knows where they stand in the game of love. You know who is available to you.

People who are single in adulthood learn to set their standards lower as they approach the age of desperation (eg. 35) and never had been a relationship.

SO yeah, love is blind BUT Look at all the girls who only got into their first relationship in their 30s. Look at the guys they settled for. Look at all the guys who only got into their first relationship in their 30s. Look at the girls they settled for.
I rest my case.

Yeaps, the not so attractive ones are always friends, never lovers. Even if the attractive ones talk very less than the non attractive ones, guys will still throw hopes on the attractive ones. Although, the part on whether suitable or not is a case in the future, guys will not spend their time on such trivial matters that is less attention giving than the girls' looks and attributes.

Although at the end, the not attractive one suits him, the guy will not admit. I have seen many cases. A guy and a girl is soooo suitable for each other the way everyone see it, but the guy seems to be minding about the girl's physical size. The guy is not in a state to accept that he found a suitable girl that looks like this and so on. At the end, the unattractive one gets nth.

or the guy was also desperate maybe?