if you really wanna score...go hit the clubs, and don't say no just because you don't like it...

if you really wanna look for a proper suit...well...i can't tell you how...but it's usually with those people whom are already in your circle of friends (or at least, some people whom you are able to have communication with)

This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Oct 4 2009, 09:01 PM

well, of course there are girls which don't like clubbing
there are obviously guys which don't like clubbing as well

if you really want a shortcut to learn the way a relationship "works", get to a club, try to open someone there...and things may happen...(of course, you need to have the charismatic speech and a loud voice to do so as malaysian clubs are dam noisy...LOL)

you are giving yourself quite a few reasons to not get a "proper" gf...try to be less self-aware and just enjoy yourself with the people you know...and have the energy in your speech and be fun to be around people...while communicating, try to tap one another..."act" angry and see how another reacts...kinda fun too you know...?=)

you know euphoria, the situation you mentioned kinda reflects the "norm" of malaysians i guess

a probable explanation would be the handsome ones really don't have guts to do anything, so the "ugly" ones had initiative and probably managed to secure the guy, and vice versa for the ugly men...LOL

well, i don't really get what you mean, but it could be a thing as well outside of malaysia too, but i just wont generalize it that far as, i really did not see it with my own eyes, still, that doesn't mean that it isn't happening

well, i really should refrain from using the word "ugly", maybe less attractive is a better word...

anyway, as mentioned earlier, the better looking ones would rather let other take initiative while the less attractive ones will try to take more initiative?