You're the perfect exhibit for EPIC FAIL. I'll show you why in a moment.
Thank you for once again proving just how narrow minded you are.

Do metaphors totally elude you? I compared your "points" to walking legs, and used "one legged handicap" as a metaphor for any perceived weakness a person could have. All your criterias for attractiveness are highly subjective and many of us here who have a wide experience with social interactions can tell you that none of those criterias truly matter.

Smoking, drinking (alcohol, clarifying it with you cause I'm starting to doubt your intelligence) are unhealthy. By your definition these people by default are less attractive to others, and those who don't (normally goody goody guys) are by default, more attractive. Yet who are the ones getting the girls? You can see a hot chick with a fat guy, and a good looking buff guy sitting sadly all alone at a bar. What does that tell you? Exceptions?

Your exceptions only exists because you do not wish to acknowledge that you're missing something. You can talk about all these points, but in fact, I don't believe you truly understand anything about attraction. Whatever you understand, is simply on the surface level, shallow. You don't have that inner strength that successful people have, which is why you require so much validation from others. You can't bloody validate yourself.

You just can't admit that you're mistaken. Your "theories" are incomplete, you write not to help others, but to validate your own theories because of how your life has been affected by it. It shows in your writing and how you constantly try to garner support from others, appealing to the readership instead of your own rationality. Even that is laughable cause in this topic alone, how many people have you seen supporting what you say? How many have been saying I've been too nice to you? You appealed to the readership, so what are they saying? Or are you blind to that too because it'll hurt your fragile ego?

You wrote the face the truth series. I actually liked that at first, but the more you wrote, the more obvious it became you have a very skewed perspective. So I think its apt for you to also face the truth, that you don't know much about attraction as you think you do.
Which is what I'm trying to get into his thick skull. Its so damn thick, it doesn't have much space for a brain any more. I talked about how women are a social driving force, and the only thing he thinks about is love & attraction Any attempts to try get him to understand that have failed and basically that's how it got derailed.

I nicely asked him to admit he misunderstood what I wrote, but he was adamant on sticking to his view points. Typical behaviour of a narrow minded person.

waa.. ah peng, afternoon start "uphappy hour" oledi ah?
how was lunch?

Smoking, drinking (alcohol, clarifying it with you cause I'm starting to doubt your intelligence) are unhealthy. By your definition these people by default are less attractive to others, and those who don't (normally goody goody guys) are by default, more attractive. Yet who are the ones getting the girls? You can see a hot chick with a fat guy, and a good looking buff guy sitting sadly all alone at a bar. What does that tell you? Exceptions?

Oh...

It's because someone keeps saying figure of salary is the criteria a gal choose her bf. But I'm emphasizing that salary figure is not the end of the world, it is in fact the person's possitive and agressive drive of life that brings him who he is today.

If you've the possitive and agressive drive of life, you will find a way to improve and build up your career, you'll never let your salary stay at RM2000 forever.

Still, I can't help but see you as being fixated by the "positive and agressive drive" so that you can reap the reward of having a bf with high salary in the future.

while you guys can talk/argue/debate all day.. just don't forget the fun/learning experience which is a necessity part of life..

it's a journey.. not some dogma/creed/doctrine/etc.. it's a journey that will benefit our maturity in the long run

Still, I can't help but see you as being fixated by the "positive and agressive drive" so that you can reap the reward of having a bf with high salary in the future.

hahaha, you can declare what you want. Readers have a brain.

First you talk about datasets, then it was the handicapped, now it's about smoking and drinking.

Given a choice between A and B, with all other factors being the same, a great majority of people would choose the one that does not smoke/drink.

What im trying to say is that NOBODY is perfect. We all tolerate each others flaws...so long as attractiveness can overcome those flaws.

So work to be the best you can be!

Be in the best physical, mental and emotional health possible.

Awesome.FTW! 

Oh my gawd.....

Pssst ezra...u hurt? shall i call medic? nvm u can pay me back the cost of phone call when the doctors certified you are not dead. If permanent injury then u still have to return my rm0.50 la...because that one got insurance cover...

For your ownself, not because its things girls want. Get it?
What the heck are you, a power ranger that needs to scream a catch phrase every time?