Whatever man, your writing speaks for itself. Just like you said in another topic, true self confidence can't be faked, the same is true with the understanding of attraction. While you mention other theories, and exceptions, and try to sugarcoat what you say by saying u place appropriate emphasis on physical attraction. I see all that as simply a smoke screen to make your writings more palatable to the public.

He's a forumer here that is incredibly bitter about women being materialistic and truly believes that women only look for money in men. A firm believer of the "ada wang ada amoi" philosophy

btw, what's the benchmark of a "good chick"? i'm not certain if you guys have only one yardstick..

i've once gone out with a very attractive lady.. all i can say was, i was a miserable failure at it, as i realized that she has too much distractions and i can hardly converse with her beyond superficiality.. it's as though there's a thick titanium wall.. shielding her inner sanctum..

One who doesn't have the possitive and agressive drive of life, any value or priority of monetary sense is useless to me.

And the only thing to prove if he is really mature in terms of personality and attitude is his career and financial status.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Aug 2 2009, 07:59 PM

okay....

how bout this, i do the 1 & 2 thing, skip 3 & 4, n suddenly i ask her out and she agree...

positive outlook is a good attribute..

aggressiveness is something i find iffy to pin down.. well, yes.. it certainly helps at building up one's carrier (assertiveness as well)..

being highly paid in one's career tends to exposed that aggressiveness to a less favorable light.. burn-outs, exhaustion, ill-reproached from competitors, etc..

my old boss once said to me "you're highly paid" and 2 seconds later, i was under the microscope! *lol* it was my first bitter exposure to consequences that aggressiveness had led me.. (btw, this is strictly my own take, ok? you may not experience the same)

i admire those leaders who are able to show an inner strength and the amount of 'quiet assertiveness' that can withstand the elements in life rather than blatantly being aggressive.. (i was once a bad superior myself, able to squeeze water out of rock.. i find such aggressiveness is more harm than good)..

financial status is very delusional.. both guy stand side by side.. one looks a million(but owns a penny).. while the other looks a penny(but owns a million).. this intrigues me alot.

just to jerk your memory, you were the one who accused me of trying to belittle people.

Do you know what it means to sugar coat something? Or to gloss over reality?

Below is a definition of "sugarcoat"
http://www.answers.com/topic/sugarcoat

I have sugar coated nothing. In fact, I have been pretty point blank (straightforward) and I do see how some people may be hurt although I do try to be as politically correct as possible.

I have not been "glossing over reality". If I did that, nobody would have been "put down" or "belittled"

I realize that the game of love is competitive. There will be winners and losers.

I stand by everything that I say. Essentially in one simple sentence:

Having a healthy body, mind and emotional state will make any guy more attractive to women.

I believe in placing APPROPRIATE emphasis on all aspects mentioned above.

To other readers: Please see my thread http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1107954


^silver: see the amount of emphasis i placed on each subheading in my thread. Im sure I didnt place too much emphasis on physical attributes.

This post has been edited by ezralimm: Aug 2 2009, 09:31 PM

Weiiiiii...what la dude....

Nobody is getting put down or belittled la...rather ppl are getting put off. Why? because your thread and the things u said really dont apply to them and what they see mah...and if u look at the amount of ppl who dont agree with you in here...they are no longer the exceptions liau...they are the majority di! It is only you that keep saying must be politically correct or what...then sommore say u are being direct. what la dude......
People who are direct dont even need to bother with being politically correct la. And i think people actually appreciate that kinda 'directness' better.

you trying to hard la weiiii....really wan...

People who are hurt by the truth dont really mind getting hurt wan..like that only can grow ma....but when ppl not hurt but u say they are hurt, like that means u 'belittle' them liau. u say like they so teruk like that..and u act like you so terrer like that, can hurt ppl...
Be humble ma...its not how much u know its how much you care.

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Aug 2 2009, 10:29 PM

"belittle"


...says the gay fvck who calls other guys "sweetie"

who's ghey here?

i thought you're a little girl...u know...u post and argue like one....

I think you guys are going "off topic" already.

aiyoo.. why kopi peng rike to galohh one?
deflate the pride a little won't hurt gua..?

syok ma.....so serious for what....later become like ezra...

eh.. i also serious one.

I flame people also.

atleast u can flame ppl....ezra kena flame by people....different level debbie...

you're not afraid that suddenly ezra verbal 'peng' you kao kao ah?

i also kena flamed by people

then i flame them back

with short and acute sentences

waaa.. an eye for an eye.. like the shampoo advertisement huh?

Ok to avoid turning this wonderful thread into a chat session, i shall cease to post any more tonight. Its not cool to hijack someone else's thread to discuss about something else.....im not like someone *looks at ezra*

alright.

good night then.