it's interesting to read how one can structurally increases a better probability to start a relationship by offering a step-by-step series of action to take..

it does lend credence, i'd say.. but i wouldn't over analyze into it (akin to chess opening moves, a game of chess is squared in fixed dimensional board.. life isn't)

it does sound familiar noting the importance of communication on all the 5 steps.. should i be allow to stress further.. communication is the toughest part, perhaps because it's like an iceberg (what you can hear is only 10% of the gist.. what remains far more important, is the hidden 90% body languages)

it's not easy to master a favorable body language.. (conmen takes pride at mastering them for ill efforts)..

it's nice to read all the various parts leading to a successful beginning of a relationship.. alot of the points mentioned here are valid and solid because you view life from your distinct angle/pov..

kudos for the write up.. but let not those who failed following such steps be discouraged.. for life is a mysterious book.. perhaps you'll stumble upon the hidden 90% part someday?

i think you're right.. besides knowing how to fap.. what else do you know?

^ got poon-digged eh?

^ cheers man.. the point here is.. do you claim to understand "life"? if you so claimed that i've gone gibberish aka "everywhere" and not understanding what's going on..then where are you at, player? what's with the judgmental attitude? at least i'm aware of the real struggle people go through to be thankful for such assistance..

This post has been edited by lwb: Jul 31 2009, 07:03 PM

it's ok.. i'm sure it' must've felt good to fart around once in a while.. i'm cool to be collateral damage here

^ really.. no offence taken.. in fact, it's nice.. the spontaneous part of it

waa.. somebody got vexed there

eerr.. i think you can easily compensate that with a samy-veloo's hairstyle.
how about half a foot and above?

financial capability can be deceiving.. what lies on the surface may not equate to the true picture..

not if you're referring to certain observable traits.. (even my very own dad do not know how i'm doing financially.. and i don't know if i should give him a little pop someday)

This post has been edited by lwb: Aug 2 2009, 06:40 PM

i'm not referring to an intended lie..

if i re-read your sentence correctly.. i believe you stressed on the 'capability' rather than the superficial props..

observing from others in the past.. alot of such capabilities are very subtle and nonchalant to a passing eye.. it's very much an internal thing, mostly practiced quietly..

should i be allowed to interject.. i think financial capability can covers beyond the scope of a high salary.
you correctly pointed out that there're 'habits' that may be red/green flags..

beyond that habits.. there's this thing called value-perception..
it can be a constant friction if both couples have totally contrasting value-perceptions..

saying from experience, debbieyss.. some people generate money beyond a paycheck.. able to see what's important, not to oneself on the current time frame.. but beyond (e.g child education, retirement, etc).

simply to put it.. i would be able to discern good financial capability from knowing a person's value perception.. what's his/her value/priority (salary is just a minor factor)

btw, what's the benchmark of a "good chick"? i'm not certain if you guys have only one yardstick..

i've once gone out with a very attractive lady.. all i can say was, i was a miserable failure at it, as i realized that she has too much distractions and i can hardly converse with her beyond superficiality.. it's as though there's a thick titanium wall.. shielding her inner sanctum..

positive outlook is a good attribute..

aggressiveness is something i find iffy to pin down.. well, yes.. it certainly helps at building up one's carrier (assertiveness as well)..

being highly paid in one's career tends to exposed that aggressiveness to a less favorable light.. burn-outs, exhaustion, ill-reproached from competitors, etc..

my old boss once said to me "you're highly paid" and 2 seconds later, i was under the microscope! *lol* it was my first bitter exposure to consequences that aggressiveness had led me.. (btw, this is strictly my own take, ok? you may not experience the same)

i admire those leaders who are able to show an inner strength and the amount of 'quiet assertiveness' that can withstand the elements in life rather than blatantly being aggressive.. (i was once a bad superior myself, able to squeeze water out of rock.. i find such aggressiveness is more harm than good)..

financial status is very delusional.. both guy stand side by side.. one looks a million(but owns a penny).. while the other looks a penny(but owns a million).. this intrigues me alot.

who's ghey here?

aiyoo.. why kopi peng rike to galohh one?
deflate the pride a little won't hurt gua..?

you're not afraid that suddenly ezra verbal 'peng' you kao kao ah?

waaa.. an eye for an eye.. like the shampoo advertisement huh?

you sure sounds like someone who got alot of bad blood.. couple with small gas.. sounds like you have a wenkel engine there!!

you're not creamin me with your jizz, right? i sked!!!