Strangely, me too.

er, just imo,
ezra, you are still very physically involved in your theories, in comparison to silvy, which is having a bigger picture out there

not that physical attractiveness doesn't count, but in reality, it's just a bonus point for guys if they have them while for girls is what a guy would look for

For the record:

1) I was giving an example.
2) My theory doesnt place that much emphasis on PHYSICAL attractiveness at all. (see my latest thread: http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1107954)
3) I was referring to guys who are BOTH significantly shorter (6cm+) and significantly lighter (<5kg+) in my example.


I have dated a girl 2cm taller than myself. Note the word *significantly*

again, exception does not disprove the norm.

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Added on August 2, 2009, 5:59 pmThat's exactly what im saying: http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1107954



This post has been edited by ezralimm: Aug 2 2009, 05:59 PM

eerr.. i think you can easily compensate that with a samy-veloo's hairstyle.
how about half a foot and above?

Handsome guys do attract me at the very first glimpse but afterall, I will go for guys with decent personality and financial capability.

I have to wank, unlike you I produce too much healthy semen!


You cannot make any sort of conclusions without any sort of data. Now, tell me, what is wrong with such a statement?


Still harping on the same thing, totally missing the point.


I've seen plenty, and being a shorty myself, I know what I've succeeded in


I've seen fugly guys next to her as well as seeing good looking guys. Your point exactly?


Ahh herein lies the difference eh? While you see someone not attractive together with an attractive person you think of it as an "exception". I however see it that the couple sees something attractive in each other. Whether its ugly couples, pretty couples or pretty/ugly couples, its the same, both sides find something attractive in each other.

The other problem is that while you may look at a guy and think he's not attractive, you do not know him and furthermore, you are not a woman so you're judging the guy by skewed standards.


Yes, because if you have to mention #1, it shows you don't really understand attraction. You got one part right, but still have a lot to learn.

Appealing to the majority? Don't have the balls to stand up for yourself?


I will not answer your questions because those are loaded questions. It will need to me to agree to your view of reality, and narrow scope of attraction. Both which I do not agree with.

Nice try though

financial capability can be deceiving.. what lies on the surface may not equate to the true picture..

not if you're referring to certain observable traits.. (even my very own dad do not know how i'm doing financially.. and i don't know if i should give him a little pop someday)

This post has been edited by lwb: Aug 2 2009, 06:40 PM

Yes, the surface may not equate to the true picture. But the lie won't stay long.

Gotta take into account attitude as well. A person can have and make a lot of money, but if they have habits or do not know how to use it to generate more money, it'll disappear anyway

i'm not referring to an intended lie..

if i re-read your sentence correctly.. i believe you stressed on the 'capability' rather than the superficial props..

observing from others in the past.. alot of such capabilities are very subtle and nonchalant to a passing eye.. it's very much an internal thing, mostly practiced quietly..

lwb, what are you trying to say?

should i be allowed to interject.. i think financial capability can covers beyond the scope of a high salary.
you correctly pointed out that there're 'habits' that may be red/green flags..

beyond that habits.. there's this thing called value-perception..
it can be a constant friction if both couples have totally contrasting value-perceptions..

I mentioned very clearly that it was only an example of ONE OF THE THEORIES you dumbfvck.

Dont try and pin me down like you always do.


To other readers: Physical attraction is only part of the picture. Mental and emotional health are equally important, and of course security (eg. financial). Read my thread here - http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1107954 I believe I place appropriate emphasis on physical attraction. It's up to you to decide - have a read of the thread and give me a shout!





Silverhawk, can i assume that your answer to those very simple questions is "NO"?

This post has been edited by ezralimm: Aug 2 2009, 06:58 PM

ezralim to handsomeness is what bernard7 is to $

both also blur case.

saying from experience, debbieyss.. some people generate money beyond a paycheck.. able to see what's important, not to oneself on the current time frame.. but beyond (e.g child education, retirement, etc).

simply to put it.. i would be able to discern good financial capability from knowing a person's value perception.. what's his/her value/priority (salary is just a minor factor)

hmm, who is bernard7?

weiii i tell you la.....looks for guys when it comes to attracting women is not true at all la.......

I used to have lots of gangster friends with really hot chicks....they ARE the norm...not the exception.

and i also see alot of guys with talent, but no looks that gets the bestest chicks. I also see rich guys with no looks getting the chicks, and also guys with the most confidence...they too get the hottest chicks. really wan la weiiiii

Tall, short, skinny, fat....all these makes ZERO importance if you got talent, charisma, confidence, funny, witty, smart etc

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Aug 2 2009, 07:02 PM

it should be pinned!!!!! nice dude

I agree. Looks arent that important if you are a guy, but physical attributes still do play a role.
Note the word *SIGNIFICANT* in the example I gave.


Physical attraction is definitely part of the picture...but there are other equally important things as well. Read my thread here: http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1107954

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Added on August 2, 2009, 7:06 pmTotally.

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1107954

Healthy body. Healthy mind. Healthy emotions. Lots of friends.



1) Look at the people you find to be charismatic/confident.
2) Look at the people you find to be dull and boring and shy.


What do they have in common?



Healthy mind/emotions/social life are all important for a man to thrive in life and build up his charisma.

This post has been edited by ezralimm: Aug 2 2009, 07:06 PM

physical attributes? unless you are talking about extremely bad or extremely good, really makes no difference when it comes to attracting a girl. Talents, attitude, fun, funny, money, position, etc etc These are more important than pure looks by a long mile. its truela....go do a real survey and see