I know u r a rich person...got $$$ and nice cars....those gals will go for u...

wat if u dun have those things I mention...soon u will know...

Ok ok....having $$$ might be useful to some extend. But a nice car?????!!?!?!?!?

Only the shallowest of the shallowest of the shallowest person talk like you.

you are doomed la bernard.....Given your current ideas about how things work, even if a truly sincere girl come to you and love you also u wont believe her. You will reject her. Just to prove your point all this while has been true.

God bless you man.

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Jun 14 2009, 04:22 PM

<sigh> You still don't get it. And I suppose I owe you an apology, I wasn't very clear.

I don't know how many girls you've dated, but if all of them are materialistic gold-diggers, then the problem is you - you with your "no money no honey" attitude. If you think women's affections can be bought, then of course the women you meet will be all too happy to sell it to you.

The kind of woman you claim to respect, whom you think are very rare? They are turned off by your attitude. That's why you never meet them.

Do you even know how to attract a girl with anything other than money?

You are hopeless.A lot of my friends are just driving small cars.Some even dun have a car in the 1st place yet they are already in relationship for years.

The thing about you is, you already have a mindset, telling you that every woman out there is going to con you.Like teongpeng said, even if you have the most sincere lady in the world, standing in front of you, you will still be thinking that she is after your money.Unless and until you get rid of such stupid thoughts, you will never get a gf.

The problem here is lies with you and not with the girls out there.Your siggy just show that you are immature and lack of respect to the ladies.Pity those ladies around you especially the one you are after...

C'mon...u think gals will take public transport wif u? in these days? or even a small car?

I know...im not a handsome or rich person!...tats why most gals dun accept who am i....I know I dun have nice car to fetch them and bring them to nice place!

I know u r great!....but u will realize wat I say 1 day...if u been looked down & criticize by gals b4...and not only once...but many...u will understand!

U will nvr know if it doesn't happened 2u.Now u talk is great!

There is no sincere gal who can accept my "current status"....they looked for sum1 is better with $$$,cars,looks and trust me! Those gals tat I dated out...they like to compare me with others.

Once I know they look for $$$....I say goodbye to them and nvr meet them again! Cos I know...these kinda gals will nvr be with a guys for long term!

This post has been edited by b3rnard7: Jun 14 2009, 05:08 PM

You are hopeless.

gone case d la...

i think this thread is hopeless. TS can't even define a proper meaning and full understanding to his/her own 'observation'

+1 on the bolded part...


exactly..

This post has been edited by vivienne85: Jun 14 2009, 05:51 PM

if the girl stays in the kitchen that shows that she is mature already

mature in wat sense then???

If this is the situation, then you already know that something is wrong and you may want to have a paradigm shift.

Yes, I do agree that some girls (AND I REPEAT: SOME) are really nothing but a real materialistic girl, good for nothing, emotional, immature and don't even worth being someone's GF, and I'm serious, based on my experience. Don't forget also that there are also good for nothing, damn rich guys, spoon fed by their parents, don't want to come out and work to earn their own money and became a womanizer all the time.

But, as people once said, is it worth giving a forest just because of a few trees? The answer is NO! You must have the courage to know more girls and I think before you agree to be someone's BF, try to know them more first. Don't jump into a relationship so fast. You will always end up in disappointment very fast if you do so.

I know in this day and age, a relationship demands more and more as human life and the society becomes more and more complex and complicated. As the society became even more sophisticated, it demands one to upgrade themselves and compete with one another. However, this is from a realistic point of view. Girls are human too and when human priority changes, different stages in life will be affected by the changes in life's priority, and this will indirectly affects a relationship, especially when it spans through different stages of human life (study, work, family, middle-aging). It's up on you on how to deal with the changes, and yet doesn't mean that lacking on something will be a disadvantage for you to deal with it. Everyone has their own strength and weaknesses, and everyone have a different ways on dealing with it.

Each relationship demands a different challenge. Some girls may not put money as their higher priority but would want to feel secure and being listened to all the time. Imagine that you are rich, just send her enough money for her to live. But everytime when she's sad, no one is by her side. Or when she has a family, and she doesn't have the completeness of a family because the husband is not caring about his family at all. Think about it. Girls want a guy who can both support her financially and emotionally. Girls' heart are more sensitive than guys and girls sometimes are vulnerable at times. But because in this age, where the status of guys and girls are almost the same, that's where you see that girls are becoming stronger. But in the end, the same principle still remained in a relationship. Guys strength to protect a girl's heart, and girls' sensitive heart to complement a guy's insensitivity. Mother Nature always have her way.

Think about it. You need to mix more with girls, understand them, and be a real man with courage and with great respect. Show them the real you.

Good luck!

Actually, of course gals will look for "better" guys
U have no looks
U have no money
heck, the worst thing in you, is the MAJOR turn off - your attitude

no SANE gal will ever accept you.
its a no brainer they opt to choose someone better

and the only thing you think u can improve is your $$, then good for you
a lot, PLENTY gals will go after $$, so if you have a lot of $$, then Im sure u can get one, or a few

but looking at current scenario, I TRUST you. there is no gal (sincere or not) who can accept you

I've dated a model and a few other rich and hot chicks when i was just riding motobike. and yes they used to drive me around either in their car or their dad's .

Its all in the mindset. Riding a crappy old motobike never ever held me back. NEVER.

Shall I teleport in with my thunderhammer nao?

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: Jun 14 2009, 08:08 PM

Go ahead, Thor.

Yes, Brother Captain. Your wish, is my command.

I shall thoroughly prepare myself in mind and body for this holy crusade. I shall undergo various rituals of purification while steeling my mind to face the unclean by reciting the hymns of damnation and righteous fury against the heretic.



MY BROTHERS! Prepare thyselves. The pillar of Justice, is RETRIBUTION. Give thanks to our Primarch for his strength flows through our body. Give thanks to the Emperor for his spirit bestows us with HATRED against the heretic, the alien, and the traitor. Give thanks to the blessed Machine Spirits. Apply the holy oils and unguents and recite the hymns of supplication, the better to spit HOT BOLTER DEATH to the enemies of Mankind!

My Brothers, when I complete my meditations and purification rituals and emerge from the Chamber of the Reclusium, we shall launch an immediate TELEPORT ASSAULT upon the heretic.

Through the mortification of the flesh, can the soul of Mankind be saved.

But, Yeah!!!!!!

Just curious How come such a man as you cannot con-vince interviewers to hire you for a year. How come you end up as a car salesman (no offence to car salesmen and women) instead of a corporate high flyer?

This post has been edited by Malefic: Jun 14 2009, 10:55 PM