you 2 havnt seen much of the world rite....tell you a little secret, man are man, rich or poor if they wanna stray they will stray, believe me. YOu think why they're expensive karaoke and why they've also cheap karaokes, I;m talking about those with girls.

So how do you get a mistress when you have enough money only to put food on the table ? Do you think the mistress will be yours if you got no money? And in this case I'm talking about MISTRESS.

Thats why i prefer hawk's one.

Nope,your post always implying that all the guys must be cocky,rich,powerful etc.Or trying to mold all the guy based on your ideal template.It doesnt work with everyone.At least for me,as i hate being an arrogant guy.

While what hawk implying is,set your own standard and just be yourself.You'll find your match one day.

Probably you're right
Anyway, i comment based on my experiences
It could be my comment involved only a minority of the people in Malaysia

mebbe its bcoz you always mix with BAD men ?

Anyway I don't wanna derail this topic, so if ezra or anyone wants to respond to the difference between ezra's opinion and mine, then do it in my topic/create a new one.

Dont like thinking that the glass is half empty, then go ahead and think that the glass is half full. It's your right to see things in whatever light you want... but seriously stop putting words in my mouth!!!

For the record: I DONT HAVE AN IDEAL TEMPLATE for either girls OR guys.
Here is my thread on the issue: http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=986099


1) There is nothing wrong being rich.
2) There is nothing wrong being powerful.
3) There is nothing wrong being in control of one's life and succeeding in it.
4) A rich/powerful/successful/thriving guy can be nice/good/humble/polite OR cocky/arrogant/a jerk/unfaithful.

In the same way not all poor/non-powerful are humble.
...not all rich/powerful people are arrogant.


If stereotyping rich/successful/powerful people as being bad/cocky/arrogant/unfaithful makes you feel good about yourself, then please go ahead and do so as much as you want - it's a free country. But to claim that I am trying to imply that is just wrong because I HAVE NEVER SAID SUCH A THING.

About mistress yes only the rich can afford one, but if you talking about womanizing then even the poor can one leg 2 boat, and its very common about this especially at working places colleague having secret affairs.

Bad in the sense samseng? or bad in the sense the person is cruel?
I think man who womanize doesnt restrict to samseng, financial, education, its all down there at their testicles!

Actually you and ezras discussion is within this topic, just that I find both of you trying to pinpoint the problem which I think is difficult to do so, every individual (as the name "INDIVIDUAL") is unique in character.

Some woman attracted to Power, not very rich never mind but so long he is commanding type
Some woman even the man is a whim also never mind, so long he is rich
Some woman want everything, power, money, standard
Some woman want money but no standard spit everywhere type also ok

So how do we conclude? there is no who is wrong and only everyody is correct, bcoz everyone is different.

But for those who kept insisting only the rich will stray and the poor will treat you well, now this I find is coming from a person whom had not seen the world yet.

Thats exactly what you have implying in your own threads.I dont even bother to read it now.

We are derailing this thread.Please go back to the topic.

Besides,it's always better to look at something from a positive perspective,than a negative perspective.At least it makes you happier.

This post has been edited by Cheesenium: May 2 2009, 01:07 PM

I agree, a person who is flower heart (flirtatious, playboy) or a person who later fall in love with another woman, has no restriction to status and background. Its HUMAN, they change for no reason, just like how we fall in love with no warning. When people change there seldom are explanation, only excuses.

Marrying the poor man doesnt guarantee he wont stray later on in life.
Marrying the rich man doesnt guarantee he wont stray later on in life.
Heck marrying the person whom you love and whom he love you right now still doesnt guarantee he wont stray later on in life.

Its a gamble.

This post has been edited by moorish: May 2 2009, 01:13 PM

You know what you can do to make it not so much a gamble?

You can earn your own money so that at least, you are financially free. This doesn't mean that you need to sacrifice motherhood if that's what you want. You just need to keep in touch and in the loop with the working world (and preferably the business community).

And yes, people do change. Part of being able to judge character is to be able to "read" it from moment to moment. Most importantly, human beings tend to be very consistent in certain aspects of their behavior, barring some form of psychological disturbance. Changes can be detected. How else do you think women begin to suspect their partner is straying?

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: May 2 2009, 02:48 PM

Its ok to be lesbians. Research indicates that more people prefer to watch lesbians in actions than gays.

Character changes over time due to changes in perception from experience. Nothing is absolute.
So nothing can be judged, but only to anticipate.

huh? you're contradicting your own words here right?

first you say can predict a persons character
Then you agree cannot predict a persons character
And last you say

When woman sense something is wrong, it is already too late meaning the character already changed and not going or about to change.

i stopped replying to him some time ago...perhaps you should too

When did I "agree" that "cannot predict a persons character"?

Care to highlight the text?

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Added on May 2, 2009, 4:44 pmYou try very hard, but does anybody even take you seriously?

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: May 2 2009, 04:45 PM

"girls are money minded", cant deny it since we're living in a developing country and are easily being exposed to many beautiful things. but there are still plenty of girls who are willing to work hard and arent as money minded as TS portrayed. I suppose "And be proud of it" that makes her got all the flaming.

What are you babbling about? Glasses half empty? Half full? Are you on drugs? That's not what Silverhawk is talking about.

YOU are putting words in Silverhawk's mouth, mister.

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: May 2 2009, 05:00 PM

TO: silvehawky & ezra
I dont even see whats the result u both wan, but just keep denying each other and lead to endless argument

A lot of people here have trouble with even BASIC reading comprehension. That's why to them all arguments here look alike.

This reminds me of that film "Idiocracy".

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: May 2 2009, 05:15 PM

some people are worse...they dont even understand what they wrote