QUOTE(junkie_1224 @ Mar 17 2009, 03:23 PM)
yes, only if both of them working together to achieve that goal =PAdvice Wanted To choose true love or high income bf ?, whom to choose?
Advice Wanted To choose true love or high income bf ?, whom to choose?
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Mar 17 2009, 03:24 PM
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Mar 17 2009, 03:25 PM
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FK U ..After reading your last long post i feel u are more disgusting!
generally your question is this SHOULD I CHOOSE REAL LOVE OR MONEY Wasn't i correct? B with 4-5K cant he give raise u and 1-2 baby? If you were to sit at home do nothing and think of shopping spree all the time,probably u dont waste time to post.A is your answer But other than that i still dont think u should have concern! Even A give u as much money u can..that cant bring u happiness infuture If u have that greed now u wont stop greeding for more! See a wider picture! Im here stating on behalf of B..from his point of view he can still choose many other girl with less demand and less money concern like u do! Again i would have f king dumb ur fking face if im him reading this |
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Mar 17 2009, 03:26 PM
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hi TS,
We cannot predict how our future is.. n it may end out with A bankrupt and own Ah Long a big deep shit.. n for B he may end out be promoted n bcome Manager o any higher position with more income.. so y u hv to b so care abt wat is the future.. i mean ppl may change due to environment.. for me, since B is not tat too bad n u hv the feeling on each other so wat u hv to consider again.. anyway the decision is on u.. once made dun regret.. |
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Mar 17 2009, 03:26 PM
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QUOTE(beandy @ Mar 17 2009, 03:25 PM) FK U ..After reading your last long post i feel u are more disgusting! did your gf leave you for rich guy or something lulzgenerally your question is this SHOULD I CHOOSE REAL LOVE OR MONEY Wasn't i correct? B with 4-5K cant he give raise u and 1-2 baby? If you were to sit at home do nothing and think of shopping spree all the time,probably u dont waste time to post.A is your answer But other than that i still dont think u should have concern! Even A give u as much money u can..that cant bring u happiness infuture If u have that greed now u wont stop greeding for more! See a wider picture! Im here stating on behalf of B..from his point of view he can still choose many other girl with less demand and less money concern like u do! Again i would have f king dumb ur fking face if im him reading this |
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Mar 17 2009, 03:28 PM
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QUOTE(junkie_1224 @ Mar 17 2009, 03:11 PM) Thanks so much for all you guys valuable opinion. I appreciate it. Back to d end, the decision is still on my hand. i always tell myself, never regret of watever i have done. So no matter who i choose , i will keep on tis principle " NEVER LOOK BACK". typical "drag mud pull water" minded, because of gals like you alot of guys become player and give doom to other female.Both A n B also a good guys. Its so hard for me to choose because I do not want to hurt anyone. But i realise at d end, i m d one that hurt d most. If i choose to be with B, I will pity A. If I choose to be with A, I will heartbroken. My heart is so pain whenever I think of tis. I totally agree that a woman should be independent financially. But back to d basic, all woman wanted a husband that can secure them financially. At least you will have d choice not to work after give babies. If wanna work, can work, if dont want, can be homemaker. Most girls wanted such life. I can work hard n be independent, but at d same time i wanted a husband tat can do d same too. If i choose B, i will have my happiness because i have found. He is d one!! We fall in love with each other naturally and without a words, we know we have feeling for each other. Its not easy to found someone that u love him n he love u too. B is d kind of man that will sacrifice his life for u. He can love u untill tat level. Even just a simple meal together, we feel so happy. We really appreciate each other. B aware the existance of A, he told me he will not force me, he will wait for me. He promise me he will never let ppl looks down on me, he will work hard. Although B gradute from civil engineering but now he is working in oil n gas industry. With commission, sometime salary will reach rm6k. I know i am very bad. No matter whom i choose, i will hurt someone. I will pray for his happiness and hope one day he will found someone better n more suitable for him. I am sorry. Most my fren and even my sis will choose B, because love matter but money even matter. I undertands that although now u r happy together but in future when financial problem arise, arguments will also arise. Money matter will hurt relationship. When i taught of this point, i will feel like " am i choosing d right road???" I am so scared.... its about my future.... i m now in d middle of road.... i need to make decision... a firm decision.... i really dont want to waste both parties time...i just want to be with 1 n that will be forever.... sometime, i just wanna be alone. I just wanna be single. although i don't know what so good in you, but from your reply I can tell you are actually a very greedy person. I mean, after i summarize your 1st post till the current 1, basically u are telling us that u want a perfect person which is rich + you love. You don't accept A because u dun love him, u don't accept B because u see his financial doesnt cope up with your expectation by giving excuse u saying if u accept B it will hurt A. Ohhh come on, u only got 1 life of course u have to make a choice. Thing is, i dun think its necessary for you to worry this and that, i mean are u really that kind hearted ? I never saw your face, but i doubt u are the 1, if u really that kind-hearted from early u will made up a farking decision and stop dragging both this good man's time. No 1 will know what happen in future, its like a road with alot of small branches lane, its based on the future decision u made, the choices that lead to consequence. I can tell u this, i know is harsh. Compare to A, u dun really love B because there is a doubt on your head. If you really love B, u shudnt start this thread in the 1st place. And of course, your head shud be think like "no matter what happen to B in future i will be with him, support him and love him" after that tell A u have B, for sure A will be sad after all he is a human, but then 1 day he will get over it, why ? because eventually he will get up and meet another person who worth his love even more. Don't look up yourself until too great, in this world there is nobody cant survive without any1. Include you, A and B. |
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Mar 17 2009, 03:29 PM
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sorry sis, i dun think u can concentrate so far since u are now choosing in between money n love... actually 4k not enough for a family?
hmm... depends... but i believe now we girls can work and perhaps better than male... unless u juz wish to shop and slim after married... |
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Mar 17 2009, 03:34 PM
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above 2 post says it all... he wouldnt have started this thread if she really love B (or maybe she dont understand wat love means)
CMON.. dont spoil a guy life..Just tell B that you need a person who are more rich n u have met one.EnD OF |
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Mar 17 2009, 03:34 PM
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QUOTE(junkie_1224 @ Mar 17 2009, 03:11 PM) Thanks so much for all you guys valuable opinion. I appreciate it. Back to d end, the decision is still on my hand. i always tell myself, never regret of watever i have done. So no matter who i choose , i will keep on tis principle " NEVER LOOK BACK". u are choosing secretly here, but are u sure the A / B not choosing secretly also, on different kind of gal.Both A n B also a good guys. Its so hard for me to choose because I do not want to hurt anyone. But i realise at d end, i m d one that hurt d most. If i choose to be with B, I will pity A. If I choose to be with A, I will heartbroken. My heart is so pain whenever I think of tis. I totally agree that a woman should be independent financially. But back to d basic, all woman wanted a husband that can secure them financially. At least you will have d choice not to work after give babies. If wanna work, can work, if dont want, can be homemaker. Most girls wanted such life. I can work hard n be independent, but at d same time i wanted a husband tat can do d same too. If i choose B, i will have my happiness because i have found. He is d one!! We fall in love with each other naturally and without a words, we know we have feeling for each other. Its not easy to found someone that u love him n he love u too. B is d kind of man that will sacrifice his life for u. He can love u untill tat level. Even just a simple meal together, we feel so happy. We really appreciate each other. B aware the existance of A, he told me he will not force me, he will wait for me. He promise me he will never let ppl looks down on me, he will work hard. Although B gradute from civil engineering but now he is working in oil n gas industry. With commission, sometime salary will reach rm6k. I know i am very bad. No matter whom i choose, i will hurt someone. I will pray for his happiness and hope one day he will found someone better n more suitable for him. I am sorry. Most my fren and even my sis will choose B, because love matter but money even matter. I undertands that although now u r happy together but in future when financial problem arise, arguments will also arise. Money matter will hurt relationship. When i taught of this point, i will feel like " am i choosing d right road???" I am so scared.... its about my future.... i m now in d middle of road.... i need to make decision... a firm decision.... i really dont want to waste both parties time...i just want to be with 1 n that will be forever.... sometime, i just wanna be alone. I just wanna be single. no offence, k. u said u love b. but u also considering A. They might do the same, w/o u knowing. later who know while u choosing, your A/B made other choice, last boat of gone , no more. everyone like to be pampered. in between you and B of pure love, a rich guy can buy u thing, u droolss... this thing can happen during your marriage years with B. some rich guy c tamp u with things, feeling, caring, love, when u already a wife. its a desire that is dangerous for you...in any stage. this is your desire, but u can control, dont let your desire ruin your life look at it this way, there is no free lunch this day, take ppl's offer with out giving in to the person, ppl will get back in other form. for B, u give in love, he give u back love, u work for money he work for money. things is normal and logical and fair. i donno how good or how sincere is the A, but i can tell u, no free lunch in this world. |
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Mar 17 2009, 03:35 PM
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Mar 17 2009, 03:40 PM
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yalo, 4k not enough for a family?
some ppl 1k also live happily. something brandy or luxurious thing probably not a necessity. money is hard earn. i am a guy, u know why i always dont tell my gal about my income, sadly the fact is, if they know i earn 4k, they will prey on my 4k, if i said i promoted and get 5k, they will put ownership on the extra 1k too. the more u tell them, the more they will spend it. economy not good, dont simply spend. |
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Mar 17 2009, 03:41 PM
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hmmm suddenly the TS sounds like our DPM's wife
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Mar 17 2009, 03:44 PM
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there u go..
u have answered it alrealy BUt try to live on 1K which u claim is enough... QUOTE(liquidoice @ Mar 17 2009, 03:40 PM) yalo, 4k not enough for a family? some ppl 1k also live happily. something brandy or luxurious thing probably not a necessity. money is hard earn. i am a guy, u know why i always dont tell my gal about my income, sadly the fact is, if they know i earn 4k, they will prey on my 4k, if i said i promoted and get 5k, they will put ownership on the extra 1k too. the more u tell them, the more they will spend it. economy not good, dont simply spend. |
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Mar 17 2009, 03:47 PM
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Mar 17 2009, 03:52 PM
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Now the problem is not a 1 k Guy
If is 1K then i will advice you to go for A who is rich. But what lack with B? probably he dont born rich and if thats the reason he gonna loose 'the poster' by all means i pray hard he loose this money sucking b****! |
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Mar 17 2009, 03:54 PM
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QUOTE(beandy @ Mar 17 2009, 03:52 PM) Now the problem isĀ not a 1 k Guy definitely pity the 4k-6k guyIf is 1K then i will advice you to go for A who is rich. But what lack with B? probably he dont born rich and if thats the reason he gonna loose 'the poster' by all means i pray hard he loose this money sucking b****! rich guy can anytime find a hot chick poor guy, loose 1 time, cry until heart become black hole like movie, cat looking at gold fish in tank, which one to catch. poor fish. imagine u were the fish, the one to be consider whats your feeling A) i got fat meat, good lean meat, pick me b) i got no meat, but i can perform fish aerobic and show to make u happy poor fish This post has been edited by liquidoice: Mar 17 2009, 03:59 PM |
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Mar 17 2009, 04:03 PM
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QUOTE(Joey Christensen @ Mar 17 2009, 10:35 AM) Morning, Hello there, did yu read my posting? Especially on the 3rd paragraph "mutually exclusive decision, unless".....Experiment with it.Dilemma? Let me ask yu a hypothetical question if I may, "Let's assume that yu are a fickle minded girl, would yu listen to our postings and will this affect the outcome of your decision?" "Let's assume it is mutually exclusive decision, unless.....I would not want to know" Ask me not but yourself. The ultimate decision is upon your OWN hands. There's NO CERTAINTY for what holds for tomorrow. I may sounded a little cliche but....."NOTHING IS WHAT IT SEEMS" This post has been edited by Joey Christensen: Mar 17 2009, 04:04 PM |
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Mar 17 2009, 04:05 PM
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QUOTE(beandy @ Mar 17 2009, 03:52 PM) Now the problem is not a 1 k Guy If is 1K then i will advice you to go for A who is rich. But what lack with B? probably he dont born rich and if thats the reason he gonna loose 'the poster' by all means i pray hard he loose this money sucking b****! overreacted... pity guy... |
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Mar 17 2009, 04:14 PM
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But mind you,u can still choose many other fish instead Fish A and Fish B..
there are ikan kembong,ikan haruan,ikan bodoh...etc So,why narrow your visual on these two fish. Cast your net wider as i am sure u are charming in a way even though u are not the "Miss Universal" grade.. U are beautiful in your own way. QUOTE(liquidoice @ Mar 17 2009, 03:54 PM) definitely pity the 4k-6k guy rich guy can anytime find a hot chick poor guy, loose 1 time, cry until heart become black hole like movie, cat looking at gold fish in tank, which one to catch. poor fish. imagine u were the fish, the one to be consider whats your feeling A) i got fat meat, good lean meat, pick me b) i got no meat, but i can perform fish aerobic and show to make u happy poor fish Added on March 17, 2009, 4:16 pmIpoh girl very hot hot one!! QUOTE(Joey Christensen @ Mar 17 2009, 04:03 PM) Hello there, did yu read my posting? Especially on the 3rd paragraph "mutually exclusive decision, unless".....Experiment with it. This post has been edited by MakNok: Mar 17 2009, 04:16 PM |
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Mar 17 2009, 04:22 PM
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Dear TS,
A great loves comes with a great scarification.If u loves him u have to accept all his good n bad.Nobody is perfect in this world. |
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Mar 17 2009, 04:24 PM
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Do you wish to be typical tai tai that is rich in surface but always get beaten by his husband at home?
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