....?Advice Wanted To choose true love or high income bf ?, whom to choose?
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 Mar 17 2009, 06:59 PM
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hmm how much is enough
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Mar 17 2009, 07:02 PM
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QUOTE(youthchean @ Mar 17 2009, 06:47 PM) I'm just thinking for the long run. I think combined couple income of RM 5,000 to RM 7,000 may make the cut...Seriously, unless they don't plan to have kids at all, else 4k really not enough to maintain a comfortable lifestyle.  Of course, everybody has different way to judge what is called a decent life with kids... Different people, different standards and different goalposts |
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Mar 17 2009, 07:08 PM
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can you guys break it down ?
how much u need to live a comfortable life?? |
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Mar 17 2009, 07:11 PM
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438 posts Joined: Oct 2008 From: Goblintown
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Steal all A business to B so that he can be a millionaire.
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Mar 17 2009, 07:26 PM
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LOVE > Money
if u choose money... later one day no MONEY ma cham? |
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Mar 17 2009, 08:15 PM
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my verdict:
if she can't judge in between a or b , she is not ready to get married so forget about 4k or getting rich guy. |
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Mar 17 2009, 08:26 PM
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QUOTE(youthchean @ Mar 17 2009, 06:47 PM) I'm just thinking for the long run. 4k is enuf for living comfortably, just that u wont be saving up too much for the future, but let's not forget about the income from the wife, unless she's planning to be staying home being her "xiu lai lai"Seriously, unless they don't plan to have kids at all, else 4k really not enough to maintain a comfortable lifestyle. read her post carefully, u know wht she seeks is not just a comfortable, but a luxurious lifestyle. QUOTE (a) He is financially secure with 5 figure income every month with own business with age of 25. Treat me well and I can spend luxuriously . Not much worried financially. [for spending luxuriously(added by me)] He can provide everythings such as house, car, petrol, foods, shopping, holiday, entertainment etc... This post has been edited by cloudaeris: Mar 17 2009, 08:37 PM |
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Mar 17 2009, 08:27 PM
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QUOTE(junkie_1224 @ Mar 17 2009, 04:22 AM) Hi, i am having dilemma this few months. The answer seems obvious to me.  I have two guys to choose to be my future husband :- (a) He is financially secure with 5 figure income every month with own business with age of 25. Treat me well and I can spend luxuriously . Not much worried financially. He can provide everythings such as house, car, petrol, foods, shopping, holiday, entertainment etc..But he is not high educated, smoker, bad attitude, bad family background. He love me but I dont have d feeling.  (b) He is just an employee with age of 30. Graduated from Inti College in Civil Engineering. Salary per mth only less than rm4k. But good n polite family background, good attitude, socially smoker,treat me good. Even if no $$, also will buy gifts to make u happy. Planning to do business when have $$. He love me and i love him too.  For u guys opinion, whom should i choose? Actually i have chosen, but i just want to hear u guys opinion.  Thanks all  Follow your heart, choose the one you love most, and live a happy life together.  For (a), I would think it's quite awesome at the age of 25 with 5 digits income, provided that he's not highly educated with bad family background. That's one strong and determine man there, i must admit. |
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Mar 17 2009, 08:47 PM
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4k is considered high paying in Malaysia no?!? You dont take income+what gift he'd buy you+car+house into consideration when you want to spend your life with someone you love. 2 persons in a relationship and 2 have to work for it. |
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Mar 17 2009, 08:50 PM
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¯\(º_o)/¯ wut!!? this thread still going???
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Mar 17 2009, 08:52 PM
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Mar 17 2009, 08:56 PM
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become wife for B and become secret lover of A
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Mar 17 2009, 09:07 PM
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my opinion is ! for a rich guy to turn good personality wise its harder compared for a middle class to earn more money ....
n alsoo..... rich + bad attitude= potential womanizer not rich but gppd attitude = not soo gona b a womanizer... ask urself is ur life reli abt money n securing ur future financially n having luxurios lifestyle? the 30 yr old guy eventhou earn mush less but i guess rm few k can still support u rite ??? |
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Mar 17 2009, 09:42 PM
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QUOTE(HappyPic @ Mar 17 2009, 08:56 PM) become wife for B and become secret lover of A now we know you are like that kind of person¯\(º_o)/¯QUOTE(AHCK @ Mar 17 2009, 09:07 PM) my opinion is ! for a rich guy to turn good personality wise its harder compared for a middle class to earn more money .... she just need to ask her self what can she offer to the guy first.. think so big but those she deserve such a guy?¯\(º_o)/¯n alsoo..... rich + bad attitude= potential womanizer not rich but gppd attitude = not soo gona b a womanizer... ask urself is ur life reli abt money n securing ur future financially n having luxurios lifestyle? the 30 yr old guy eventhou earn mush less but i guess rm few k can still support u rite ??? |
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Mar 17 2009, 10:03 PM
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QUOTE(beandy @ Mar 17 2009, 04:27 PM) And wat a dumb f uuck u sound like Ya, I agree with u. Damn pity. Probably another money minded materialistic bit ch! lol |
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Mar 17 2009, 10:11 PM
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QUOTE(junkie_1224 @ Mar 17 2009, 10:03 PM) Ya, I agree with u. Damn pity. If you're not money minded as well you wont measures against each of their salary. |
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Mar 17 2009, 10:46 PM
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QUOTE(AHCK @ Mar 17 2009, 10:07 PM) my opinion is ! for a rich guy to turn good personality wise its harder compared for a middle class to earn more money .... hehe kinda right in a way... but its also could b a guy's responsibility to secure his wife rite?n alsoo..... rich + bad attitude= potential womanizer not rich but gppd attitude = not soo gona b a womanizer... ask urself is ur life reli abt money n securing ur future financially n having luxurios lifestyle? the 30 yr old guy eventhou earn mush less but i guess rm few k can still support u rite ??? |
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Mar 17 2009, 10:54 PM
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Smells a little Dupey here.
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Mar 17 2009, 11:27 PM
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since ts got the dilemma of choosing,
she isn't ready for any relationship/marriage, she just looking for someone who can give her "a good life"=rich life meanwhile have some love feeling. therefore in the end, no matter who she choose, in the future she will create another phailed thread. |
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Mar 17 2009, 11:36 PM
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she's not ready, true wif what anti said
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