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Advice Wanted To choose true love or high income bf ?, whom to choose?

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moorish
post Apr 4 2009, 01:50 PM

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QUOTE(rangeseven @ Apr 4 2009, 01:17 PM)
This thread bikin gua panaassss

Why girls cannot be financially indepent?
TS what is your occupation? If you dont earn a lot, then you know how hard it is to earn 5 figure.

Man's income will increase from time to time.
But your beauty will decrease from time to time, till you become butt ugly. Then at that time, the only one who truly loves you will still be there for you.

Besides, it's his income, it's his money, it's bank account. What makes you so sure that the rich guy will still give you a luxurious life when you are old and fat and not pretty anymore?
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rosmah is prove that this work rclxms.gif
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post Apr 4 2009, 02:22 PM

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For TS sake i hope it's true.

Maybe she needs to marry with contract. A contract that says 'His money is my money. My money is my money'.

This post has been edited by rangeseven: Apr 4 2009, 02:22 PM
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post Apr 4 2009, 02:33 PM

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sikit sikit lama lama menjadi bukit...
susah susah dulu... senang senang kemudian....
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post Apr 4 2009, 03:17 PM

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I can't imaging she can consider the one that she don't love company her for the rest of her life. Dam* what kind of girl like this ? Please count how many years you still want to be with him ? and every night sleep with him ? ooo no, really sick now a day.

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post Apr 4 2009, 10:28 PM

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Rich guy got a lot of partner, will you accept that?
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post Apr 5 2009, 12:51 AM

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TS already know the answer and yet still want to ask?
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post Apr 12 2009, 05:17 AM

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selling yourself ah? is money really that important that u dont even love him, hate his character, yet even wanna consider him?

is money enough to buy u happiness? so since u dun have any feelings for him, guess u wouldnt mind if he has other amois as well..

heck, guy(b) is willing to buy u gifts even though he doesnt have much money just so that u are happy. what else do u want?
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post Apr 12 2009, 06:04 AM

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what are you bringing to the table?
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post Apr 12 2009, 01:27 PM

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materialistic gal...ts prefer money more..go for a la..why still bother open this thread...you phailed really..4k salary at the age of 30 i agree its abit less but im sure 4k is enough for you to have normal life....

you choose A u need to stay with someone you dont like at all for so many years and probably when your old he will dump you and find another hot chicks aswell...then at that time your so ugly and money minded no1 wan you adi..so think carefully la materialistic gal..
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post Apr 12 2009, 01:41 PM

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i personally say you should choose b, b will keep happy forever.....
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post Apr 12 2009, 02:00 PM

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TS is stupid lor, how old are you nways?... theres no guarantee in life. money can come and go ez. but love last till death.

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post Apr 12 2009, 03:37 PM

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give the relation a break for a year or two., choose option C, be independent!!!

tell A u dunt like him bcoz of his altitude and tell B bcoz he is not rich enuff u cannot chose him.

time will tell who love you most and who love you most...
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post Apr 12 2009, 04:42 PM

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money is important. but it is not everything. you wanna be in love with money or be in love with someone that loves you?










but i think you already answered it yourself. just tht you're damn itchy head only.....can't let go of the money and want love at the same time
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post Apr 12 2009, 05:03 PM

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i guess u already have ur own answer.. that u mentioned " he love me and i love him"

and is money really important? since u don really have the feeling for A, what is the point to get together.. it will end up jus both of u suffer..

perhaps u should choose someone that u really love and will happy when get along with him.

money is not everything, although u cant spend luxurious but it doesn't mean u cant be happy. =)

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post Apr 12 2009, 05:06 PM

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to ts: which 1 do you think is more important? love or wealth? which 1 comes first? if money is your priority then by all means pick A as your husband. sure you will get to indulge yourself in all kinds of luxuries that you could have only dreamed of but that DOESN'T guarantee your happiness! you said so yourself that you don't even have the slightest feelings for him, how could you picture yourself in spending the rest of your life with somebody you don't love?

for my part, i would definitely go for B since the chemical is already there for the both of you, treasure it while it's still there.

no matter what's the decision, bear in mind that you only get to live your life once. don't throw it away on something unrealistic and idealistic. cherish what your heart really desires and you will find happiness. look beyond the horizons, contemplate your options prudently.


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post Apr 12 2009, 10:19 PM

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Girl, get off your couch and start earning your own instead of leeching off the men around you doh.gif
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post Apr 12 2009, 11:02 PM

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love is more important than money!!!
Life without love is not a life at all
Life without money is still a life

This post has been edited by TheLastFew: Apr 12 2009, 11:03 PM
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post Apr 12 2009, 11:21 PM

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QUOTE(cyberbebe @ Apr 12 2009, 10:19 PM)
Girl, get off your couch and start earning your own instead of leeching off the men around you doh.gif
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yeah, why girls think that their guys are supposed to pay for their stuff.. my ex-coll (guy) said that he thinks that girls are like prostitutes when their bfs buys things for them. my friend and i talked about it recently too, we said that the girl would feel indebted and obliged to do things?

friendA: when she runs out of money or reloads, she asks her bf for cash even though she works, and does direct selling
friendB: her bf gives her a shopping allowance. she works for a top company in klcc, earns more than her bf who is a management trainee. so why she need an allowance leh?

somehow feel that we ladies must be independent! like ne-yo's miss independent. see, he likes that miss independent, not miss leech.

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