Mar 17 2009, 03:34 PM
QUOTE(junkie_1224 @ Mar 17 2009, 03:11 PM)
Thanks so much for all you guys valuable opinion. I appreciate it. Back to d end, the decision is still on my hand. i always tell myself, never regret of watever i have done. So no matter who i choose , i will keep on tis principle " NEVER LOOK BACK".
Both A n B also a good guys. Its so hard for me to choose because I do not want to hurt anyone. But i realise at d end, i m d one that hurt d most.
If i choose to be with B, I will pity A. If I choose to be with A, I will heartbroken. My heart is so pain whenever I think of tis.
I totally agree that a woman should be independent financially. But back to d basic, all woman wanted a husband that can secure them financially. At least you will have d choice not to work after give babies. If wanna work, can work, if dont want, can be homemaker. Most girls wanted such life.
I can work hard n be independent, but at d same time i wanted a husband tat can do d same too.
If i choose B, i will have my happiness because i have found. He is d one!! We fall in love with each other naturally and without a words, we know we have feeling for each other. Its not easy to found someone that u love him n he love u too. B is d kind of man that will sacrifice his life for u. He can love u untill tat level. Even just a simple meal together, we feel so happy. We really appreciate each other. B aware the existance of A, he told me he will not force me, he will wait for me. He promise me he will never let ppl looks down on me, he will work hard. Although B gradute from civil engineering but now he is working in oil n gas industry. With commission, sometime salary will reach rm6k.
I know i am very bad. No matter whom i choose, i will hurt someone. I will pray for his happiness and hope one day he will found someone better n more suitable for him. I am sorry.
Most my fren and even my sis will choose B, because love matter but money even matter. I undertands that although now u r happy together but in future when financial problem arise, arguments will also arise. Money matter will hurt relationship. When i taught of this point, i will feel like " am i choosing d right road???"
I am so scared.... its about my future.... i m now in d middle of road.... i need to make decision... a firm decision.... i really dont want to waste both parties time...i just want to be with 1 n that will be forever....
sometime, i just wanna be alone. I just wanna be single.
u are choosing secretly here, but are u sure the A / B not choosing secretly also, on different kind of gal.Both A n B also a good guys. Its so hard for me to choose because I do not want to hurt anyone. But i realise at d end, i m d one that hurt d most.
If i choose to be with B, I will pity A. If I choose to be with A, I will heartbroken. My heart is so pain whenever I think of tis.
I totally agree that a woman should be independent financially. But back to d basic, all woman wanted a husband that can secure them financially. At least you will have d choice not to work after give babies. If wanna work, can work, if dont want, can be homemaker. Most girls wanted such life.
I can work hard n be independent, but at d same time i wanted a husband tat can do d same too.
If i choose B, i will have my happiness because i have found. He is d one!! We fall in love with each other naturally and without a words, we know we have feeling for each other. Its not easy to found someone that u love him n he love u too. B is d kind of man that will sacrifice his life for u. He can love u untill tat level. Even just a simple meal together, we feel so happy. We really appreciate each other. B aware the existance of A, he told me he will not force me, he will wait for me. He promise me he will never let ppl looks down on me, he will work hard. Although B gradute from civil engineering but now he is working in oil n gas industry. With commission, sometime salary will reach rm6k.
I know i am very bad. No matter whom i choose, i will hurt someone. I will pray for his happiness and hope one day he will found someone better n more suitable for him. I am sorry.
Most my fren and even my sis will choose B, because love matter but money even matter. I undertands that although now u r happy together but in future when financial problem arise, arguments will also arise. Money matter will hurt relationship. When i taught of this point, i will feel like " am i choosing d right road???"
I am so scared.... its about my future.... i m now in d middle of road.... i need to make decision... a firm decision.... i really dont want to waste both parties time...i just want to be with 1 n that will be forever....
sometime, i just wanna be alone. I just wanna be single.
no offence, k. u said u love b. but u also considering A. They might do the same, w/o u knowing. later who know while u choosing, your A/B made other choice, last boat of gone , no more.
everyone like to be pampered. in between you and B of pure love, a rich guy can buy u thing, u droolss...
this thing can happen during your marriage years with B. some rich guy c tamp u with things, feeling, caring, love, when u already a wife.
its a desire that is dangerous for you...in any stage. this is your desire, but u can control, dont let your desire ruin your life
look at it this way, there is no free lunch this day, take ppl's offer with out giving in to the person, ppl will get back in other form.
for B, u give in love, he give u back love, u work for money he work for money. things is normal and logical and fair.
i donno how good or how sincere is the A, but i can tell u, no free lunch in this world.
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