Choose A
Do you never hear the classic tale?, when young time both can drink water and pretend its diner, struggle for him, help him out in the rent and so on, when he made it big in his 30s he will have a PRC woman as a kept.

If pak toh, you choose the one you love and enjoy the time
When talking about marriage you choose the secure one, are you even a woman?

TS!

You should look into the guy personality & behaviour. A well educated guy does not guarantee you a good future, perhaps the qualification is just a stepping stone for him. Even if he has the attitude"tidak apa", "not ambitious" & etc, eventually it will only ruin both of your future if married. Somehow, i do see the point of when someone grown from a poor family, less educated are prompt to better innitiative to gloom their career & work harder. Thus, you must really measure the maturity of the individual guys because it reflect how they handling things when face crisis.

The (a) has the ability to gives you the security as a husband, but his age is still the borderline of a guy maturity. As i said, u need to analyse his maturity though the age does not determine the maturity. Secondly, his bad family background can cause a nighmare impact to you if married. So you need to analyse the critical of his bad family background, as u married to him. At times, a chiild grows really reflect to their family background on how to pamper them into the grow process.

For (B), first he has a good & steady career as an engineer, but my question is does he is a "ambitious guy"? If am to answer u, i would say he has big problem in his career with the age already at 30 but only earning <4k!!???Do you know, majority of failure in marriage are due to financial argument & problem amid the husband & wife? So you need to seriously analyse how financially he is able to support you & family if you married him. As i said, the most important for a guy is the "ambitious" & hardworking is the key of security to a gal nor neither he just an engineer.

you don't deserve both

dont choose somkers.

they suck.

U will regret

you don't deserve both

you don't deserve both

i will choose A, and having baby from B, then divorce A, get money from A, married with B

( am talking nonsense, right? ts, dont follow this advice! )

alright, be serious,

You've your answer no need to doubt. You won't be happy with A, in fact, you will suffer and live the life miserable later..

i will choose A (stage one) , and having baby from B (stage 2) , then divorce A (stage 3) , get money from A (stage 4) , married with B (stage 5) 

( am talking nonsense, right? ts, dont follow this advice! )

alright, be serious,

You've your answer no need to doubt. You won't be happy with A, in fact, you will suffer and live the life miserable later..

Hi, i am having dilemma this few months. 

I have two guys to choose to be my future husband :-

(a) He is financially secure with 5 figure income every month with own business with age of 25. Treat me well and I can spend luxuriously . Not much worried financially. He can provide everythings such as house, car, petrol, foods, shopping, holiday, entertainment etc..
But he is not high educated, smoker, bad attitude, bad family background. He love me but I dont have d feeling.

(b) He is just an employee with age of 30. Graduated from Inti College in Civil Engineering. Salary per mth only less than rm4k. But good n polite family background, good attitude, socially smoker,treat me good. Even if no $$, also will buy gifts to make u happy. Planning to do business when have $$. He love me and i love him too.

For u guys opinion, whom should i choose? Actually i have chosen, but i just want to hear u guys opinion.
Thanks all