i have the same dilemma but mine is different ...

(a) a good hearted, non-smoker, highly educated, good family background like me for more than 10 years

mine even hard to pick

remember not only you pick the guy, whether what you can offer that guy will pick you..

body shapes/ and beauty its just to attract not to buy you... that not something to offer

This post has been edited by JapanKid89: Mar 17 2009, 02:26 PM

iF I'M B and i read this i fu cking DUMB you right away!

Go ask yourself what u have before complaining one as if your Ms Universe? F K off

if I'm A after read TS post and your reply, i will send people 'settle' u down.

She should grab a mirror and start valuing how much she woth before asking such question..ask her look value,her body,her intelligent,her attitute value..
which i think she dont worth a shit!

well that is the best answer so far

no wonder people nowadays dont want to get married or married at older age

girls are scarry

Looking at inflation, don't expect we guys to be sole breadwinner or the majority breadwinner, i don't think it is sustainable in the future

u saw her face b4 ?

Attitude is 0 ...Even he choose to marry B ,,someday she might feel regret and jealous over other more rich husband.From her initial concern that will happen.

When attitude is bad ..no matter how good she looks all went ugly.

bolded 1 i agree.

but how come u sound like knewing TS for like few decades ? are u sure she really that suck like u mention ?

I about to ask the same question..

Seems like he knows TS very well..

Thanks so much for all you guys valuable opinion. I appreciate it. Back to d end, the decision is still on my hand. i always tell myself, never regret of watever i have done. So no matter who i choose , i will keep on tis principle " NEVER LOOK BACK".

Both A n B also a good guys. Its so hard for me to choose because I do not want to hurt anyone. But i realise at d end, i m d one that hurt d most.
If i choose to be with B, I will pity A. If I choose to be with A, I will heartbroken. My heart is so pain whenever I think of tis.

I totally agree that a woman should be independent financially. But back to d basic, all woman wanted a husband that can secure them financially. At least you will have d choice not to work after give babies. If wanna work, can work, if dont want, can be homemaker. Most girls wanted such life.
I can work hard n be independent, but at d same time i wanted a husband tat can do d same too.

If i choose B, i will have my happiness because i have found. He is d one!! We fall in love with each other naturally and without a words, we know we have feeling for each other. Its not easy to found someone that u love him n he love u too. B is d kind of man that will sacrifice his life for u. He can love u untill tat level. Even just a simple meal together, we feel so happy. We really appreciate each other. B aware the existance of A, he told me he will not force me, he will wait for me. He promise me he will never let ppl looks down on me, he will work hard. Although B gradute from civil engineering but now he is working in oil n gas industry. With commission, sometime salary will reach rm6k.

I know i am very bad. No matter whom i choose, i will hurt someone. I will pray for his happiness and hope one day he will found someone better n more suitable for him. I am sorry.

Most my fren and even my sis will choose B, because love matter but money even matter. I undertands that although now u r happy together but in future when financial problem arise, arguments will also arise. Money matter will hurt relationship. When i taught of this point, i will feel like " am i choosing d right road???"

I am so scared.... its about my future.... i m now in d middle of road.... i need to make decision... a firm decision.... i really dont want to waste both parties time...i just want to be with 1 n that will be forever....

sometime, i just wanna be alone. I just wanna be single.

choose, Money or Happy.

Im good in learning human philosophy..hehe

im Just getting the picture ,her character, her manner from the way she concern.

Its call realistic n materialistic and if all girl in this world were to choose husband like she did..there wont be real love n happiness left in this world.

choose C... wait for the one that u love him, he love u n with 10k above plus with good family background...
juz if you has not become a liability and depreciate with time sister...

How old are you?

Why so rush? Is it because of biological clock?

Anyway, take your time and release yourself from tons of mental pressure slabs for now...

Hopefully, you can feel some peace of your life for now

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Mar 17 2009, 03:22 PM

To Beandy,

Please dont insult here. I just ask for you guys opinion not your rate on me. I admit i am not a perfect woman, but at least dont said until i dont worth a shit. That so hurt.

or choose none of them

I am 24. I am not rush but i just wanna concentrate on loving 1 person.

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Added on March 17, 2009, 3:20 pmThanks dear

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Added on March 17, 2009, 3:21 pmThanks lots

This post has been edited by junkie_1224: Mar 17 2009, 03:21 PM

Thanks, but will happiness last forever?