totally agree with debbie on this..

maybe sometimes we think we understand them but actually we don't really understand at all.. there's when break up exists... no?

My break up was due to the mutual understanding in both parties, to come up with the term of break up because we know there is no future of that relationship. He was struggling to keep it going for long enough and because I can understand how stressful it is for him, at the end we just agreed on that.

Maybe I grew with the guys, I am surrounded by guys since small. Eventually they speak to me whenever they need someone to talk to. For what I've been through, I can understand them better, even I've got quite many guys agreed on this. Actually, they are really that simple. When they say yes, they mean yes. Sometimes girls are more complicated than guys. Anyway, I can't tell you how to understand them, or how simple they are but they are just easy to understand and simple.

Most girls think too much

yup.. agreed

i can't understand why girls make it sound like we are so complicated. ladies, seriously, most of us guys are simple creatures!

This post has been edited by willy_wonka: Jan 31 2010, 06:20 PM

Ok. Now I got it.

how come u suddenly got it?

Are you now trying to complicate things? Well, ladies always think too much and by nature, ladies are more expressive. The thing is, ladies always have the 5 W 1 H in mind, and those are endless.

Willy, ya.. I've just got it.

What is 5W1H?

which are 5 questions start with "Wh" and a How.

i dunno how to. willy is a simpleton remember?

yes, i know women generally think too deep/much, are generally more expressive and inquisitive. that's why men love women, no?

Good one willy.

Well, yes,and it is because of guys are simpleton, less expressive and not that nagging compare to ladies, that's why women love men

Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends up blocking his retreat [Oscar Wilde 1854 - 1900]

That is only applicable till that time, not now. Anyway, this is a very subjective topic. It depends on individual

since its very subjective, what's your thought on this then?

This post has been edited by willy_wonka: Jan 31 2010, 08:14 PM

A woman shall has her own career, while not too depending on the guy. It is quite hard to explain or elaborate more. Both parties are supposed to put in the effort. I do believe in true love exist, whether the guy is rich or not, that isn't any concern in a relationship at all. I look into guy's personality more than anything else. The attitude speaks it all.

guess im joining the broken hearts' family
just broke up with my bf last night..

gosh. i still feel like total shit now.

f***

awwwww......sorry to hear that.....come come come.......willy_wonka give you a group hug

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Added on January 31, 2010, 9:38 pmsorry to hear that.....come come come.......willy_wonka give you a group hug

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Added on January 31, 2010, 9:50 pmsounds like my kind of woman!

what are the 3 key personality/attitude traits that u look for?

This post has been edited by willy_wonka: Jan 31 2010, 09:54 PM