If you really want to escape from all these, you probably just have to move out from staying with her or something. I can feel how much pain you are going through since it's your ex going after your best friend and happens to be your roommate at the very same time.

Same here. Valentine's Day and CNY is coming... Although I think of her quite often lately, I guess nothing will ever happen I am neither hoping nor wishing for anything or any miracles to happen now. Not for the time being. Of course I believe in miracles but certainly not this kinda miracles.

Actually you know something. There's practically nothing in the guys' mind. Or rather, when a guy has a problem, he prefers to keep it to himself or tell another guy friend without other people knowing.

it's true that guys tend to hide all the problems and solve it on his own most of the time. even myself, i also try to solve it myself instead of letting others to worry.

however, gf will feel not enough understanding on the bf which will affect the relationship.

actually when they say "i wan to understand u more" i also blur lo wut they wan... im a simple guy.. its not like i keep secrets from u "*ahem* im spiderman"...

but somehow gurl already set in their mind we are hiding something
no matter wut we say they wont believe........

Same here. I guess all guys are like that. But we do tell another guy whom we are close to about it. Watch this video

Somehow they can tell if we have problem but refuse to tell them by saying everything's alright. Furthermore it's quite difficult le.. saying ' I want to understand better'

This post has been edited by DreMAx: Jan 30 2010, 07:57 PM

well.. the "i have problem" face and "i am sleppy face" is the same face for me

every time i "accidentally" (which is like, every day?) think of him, i hate myself a lit bit more.

sigh. anyway.. for those ppl who r like me, we need to put a stop on all these crap.

it requires so much of hard work to get thru this... but we gotta keep doing.

Well that bring a little of a problem... Guess it's difficult to tell you are having a problem or not.

every time u accidentally think of him, u pm one of the guys here. they will flood your inbox such that u'll forget about him in no time

LOL. Like that I pity her la... everyday PM inbox full.

..... this is..not a very good method lol
besides i've got nothing to offer hahahaha =P

You email inbox confirm with all the LYN PM Not a very good idea. It will somehow turn out to be an annoyance.

not so 'kwa zheong' la.. when i 1st started off in LYN, yea..can say everyday got new PM.. coz i was active in kopitiam.

now im always in this boring heartbroken thread.. ppl also runaway ahahahah

He said 'flood' ma so likely can get the inbox full lo.

Active in /k/ that one normal la... it's /k/ ma...

Actually this thread not to say very boring la... At least here we can share ideas and thoughts. There's still life to it.

being "heartbroken" makes me bored ma..thats my meaning

Part and parcel of what we are supposed to go through. Actually sometimes being bored helps us think. THINK of things we could and should be doing.

at present u r emotionally unavailable issit?

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Added on January 30, 2010, 9:46 pmwhen one's inbox is perpetually empty, u don't mind it being full

This post has been edited by willy_wonka: Jan 30 2010, 09:46 PM

anything u can think of. both physically and emotionally hahahaha =P

mine is alwiz almost full. mayb coz i dun bother erasing old msgs. just keep it there. haha

This post has been edited by slushie: Jan 30 2010, 10:39 PM

HAHAHA give her a break la... if you read her previous posts you can tell she's just broke off not too long la...

Actually true about the inbox thing la. But some people may find it annoying and treat it as harassment.

well..of coz i dont mind new people filling me in geh.

about the PM thing.. it depends how a person strikes the conversation also. in an intelligent manner

u referring to me ah?

i was just trying to be helpful....cos in my short time here, i already got to know a forumer who specialises in gals on the rebound. tot missy slush might be interested ma......

This post has been edited by willy_wonka: Jan 30 2010, 10:46 PM