every time i "accidentally" (which is like, every day?) think of him, i hate myself a lit bit more.

sigh. anyway.. for those ppl who r like me, we need to put a stop on all these crap.

it requires so much of hard work to get thru this... but we gotta keep doing.

..... this is..not a very good method lol
besides i've got nothing to offer hahahaha =P

LOL. Like that I pity her la... everyday PM inbox full.

well..of coz i dont mind new people filling me in geh.

about the PM thing.. it depends how a person strikes the conversation also. in an intelligent manner

on the rebound? you meant.. looking for a rebound? or trying to move on?

err, wasn't referring to you. hahaha.

are you working as part-time match maker? hmm..

LOL good to be helpful mate. Eh I wonder who is that member?

definitely not. i dont think i ever sound like i needed one. hmm.

juz kinda curious coz u r like 'hardselling' that dude. haha.. =P

LOL that's not a very good suggestion. I think probably he faps too much...

Nope... but seriously... is his user ID tfk?? Seriously it puts people off lo like one fella which called himself sexualpower.

Aiyo!!! I mana tau... you know people these days are like that one la... only know 1 meaning of tfk... so thought of that only la...

i am afraid we shouldn't be fooling around in this thread especially it's tagged as "serious".. coz indeed there are people who come here looking for constructive advice n suggestions on how to get over a heartbreak.

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Added on January 31, 2010, 12:10 am

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yeah man. i gotta agree whole-heartedly.

totally agree with debbie on this..

Ok. Now I got it.

Are you now trying to complicate things? Well, ladies always think too much and by nature, ladies are more expressive. The thing is, ladies always have the 5 W 1 H in mind, and those are endless.

Good one willy.

Well, yes,and it is because of guys are simpleton, less expressive and not that nagging compare to ladies, that's why women love men

That is only applicable till that time, not now. Anyway, this is a very subjective topic. It depends on individual

guess im joining the broken hearts' family
just broke up with my bf last night..

gosh. i still feel like total shit now.

f***

A woman shall has her own career, while not too depending on the guy. It is quite hard to explain or elaborate more. Both parties are supposed to put in the effort. I do believe in true love exist, whether the guy is rich or not, that isn't any concern in a relationship at all. I look into guy's personality more than anything else. The attitude speaks it all.

thx alot 
im having mixed feelings now. argh.

matured, hardworking and understanding.
I think this is very common. I don't have any high expectation but I think most important that guy must be matured, if not it will be like a mother is taking a son out on the road.

Ya, why are the guys getting confused after saying NO or YES? Why are they unsure about their answer?

Those are very common but not all guys are able to show me they have it, even they do, but there's no feelings involved which also useless.

Matured isn't being dull but the thinking wise which will make me feel no worries about a lot of things. A matured guy knows how to carry himself out. Being a man but not a little boy.

Isn't guy shall put career first? A man without career makes me feel insecure. It does not matter if he is working hard for more money or working hard for himself. Hardworking does not mean to only work hard in the office, as long as that person is not a lazy pig to sleep and eat everyday at home will do. A smart person knows how to work smart and hard for own career.

Are you sure the one I'm looking for is willy_wonka? Somewhat I don't believe that.
Yes, A smart person knows how to balance up things in life. Everyone can work hard but not all can work smart.
No, those are not work smart, those are just lazy people to look for excuse for themselves. Yes, investment is something good in return but it should be only play it as a side income. I doubt there's anyone can survive and feed the family base on that. I saw how many people kill the family by stocks/forex/property and those investment.

So means you are working hard and smart while lurking at CC?

I am not being skeptical but only saying the fact.