Thanks thanks for all those constructive comments. Through reading the past 2 comments made, I am hoping more than I even did to see a bright day ahead.

Time to say goodbye to low self esteem and time to say welcome to making the world a better place for oneself to live in.

"A change must come from one before the other."

Thanks again for those D-zire and Winnie

We can still live without your love partner. But can we still live without money ? Money comes first before relationship... No money, no talk nowadays...

We can still live without your love partner. But can we still live without oxygen? Oxygen comes first before relationship... No oxygen, no talk nowadays...

Dremax, it is good to see you feel better. Sometimes, do not hope but just do it. I wasted a month time to hope that the relation in between me and him could get better; I wasted a month time to hope for a miracle to happen but whatever it is, I know it is all depends on myself what I actually want to do, and what I can do.

A change must come from one before the other, but it is you yourself to decide if you want to change. I did nothing but to pour out all my thoughts here to share with people. There are people think it is nonsense but it might be useful for certain people. It is depending on you, when you feel like taking it to place it at the useful side.

You've already fallen down, perhaps deep down. You've already suffer from the pain, perhaps deep pain. Is this the time for you to stand up, it is all depends on you. Standing up might be painful too but since you are already in deep pain after a fall, so why is there to bother if it's painful to stand up? After all, apply the right medicine for your wound, you will be able to run like no body's business again.

I can see how silly you are in relationship. No money no talk? Then why you are here to talk? See, relationship is relationship; money is money. No doubt we need money in everything but it does not mean money can buy a relationship. There are silly people out there to go for monetary but are they really serious and commit into relationship? You can get the answer by yourself.

Anyone who is serious to carry on a relationship with you, will not look into money first but your personality and as well the chemical reaction. If you've got cheated by a girl before, that's your sad story and I feel sorry for that, but it does not mean all girls after you are for money.

For me, money is nothing compare to a true love.

absolutely agreed with that.

i went out with my ex too.. everythings seem fine. seems like both dremax n winnie really move on well.. 3 cheers to us.. hooray, hooray, hooray..

I'm glad everyone is happy and what a happy ending!

Time to move on to season 2 with a lot of happiness ahead!

I want to take this opportunity to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Great New Year 2010!!!!

Haha, I'm in a relationship right now but I kinda miss being single, so perhaps break-ups are not that bad after all??

some people will only realise how much they have missed and lose out after their partner has left them. Only then they will start to regret/beg their partner to come back to them. If you only know how to regret it now, why dont u cherish them right from the beginning?

That's what I'll do when I am getting into a new relationship.

We learn from mistakes.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Dec 24 2009, 06:06 PM

Something pops up when I see your reply: Would you compromise your new GF which what she asks may against your principle?

Being in a relationship is not easy. It is no fairy tale.

It takes a lot of time and patience to learn about your partner and not everyone is born equal, not to mention searching for the other half is part of the journey of your life. Every new relationship means a new chapter of a life-long learning process.

About compromising your new GF, it depends on how she is willing to accept my principles. Most important is to be honest with yourself. It's better for her to understand your real character than to lie to her forever, and besides, having principals in Life is a good thing too.

To me, I want someone who loves me for who I am. This is just me.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Dec 24 2009, 06:35 PM

So will you compromise her if what she asks is against your principles?

If it's too severe and extremely unacceptable, Yes. I will compromise. Any particular reasons you are asking this?

A relationship is a two-persons' world. It takes two to tango. If one start to have conflict with another, everything will start to fall apart.



This post has been edited by geekster129: Dec 24 2009, 06:48 PM

So you mean you WOULD COMPROMISE for her severe and extremely unacceptable requests?

Is it typo? Sorry, I just want to clarify.

it's a big YES.

Now, to look at it from a different perspective, if you DON'T COMPROMISE and let her take control of the relationship and your life, how would it turn up?

This post has been edited by geekster129: Dec 24 2009, 06:53 PM

Why would you allow yourselves to go against your principles? Mind to share your view?

I thought she will take control of the relationship only if you keep on compromising? She will demand for more, she may take it for granted, no?

Whoa whoa whoa... hold on a minute, I think there is a misunderstanding here.

What I'm trying to say is, I won't let her take control of everything but rather to have balance in the relationship.

I'm Sorry if I got you wrong and the replies go ding-dong. I think my English epicly failed this time

It's OK to compromise sometimes, but to a certain extent. You still need to spend time with your GF to nurture the Love, and make her feel special emotionally and spiritually.

Sometimes, if she is taking it for granted too many times, she will soon forget the meaning of the relationship itself, and as time goes by, Love can slowly fade away. Worst still, she will just ended up dumping you.

Love is something pure and beautiful. There are many ways to show Love to your partner and to compromise is just one of them.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Dec 24 2009, 07:24 PM

Erm... compromise is when you agree on something which against your principle, right?

In that case, the more you compromise, the more she will demand and eventually she may take it for granted, no?

Yeah.