I feel good after seeing a bunch of crazy people in Cupid's Corner... lol

I kind of agreed with that based on my own personal experience.

It is funny that jealousy lies within our subconscious mind in which hatred and anger is expressed consciously in our feelings. Don't you think?

My second year breakup anniversary of our 4 years' old relationship drew nearer. All I can do is to tell myself that it is just a bad nightmare and hopefully I can find a better one soon.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 23 2009, 10:03 AM

Being ignorant and not doing anything to make the relationship better from either side?

It's been quite a while since I visited Cupid's Corner, but only recently, the negative emotions of jealousy start to manifest me again, until I came by this thread. Reading some posts from d-zire and Dremax gave me some comfort. Thanks.

Keep the positive vibes flowing.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 23 2009, 05:32 PM

Well for the first few weeks I broke up with my ex, it feels totally weird, and I had a numb feeling about everything. I don't know where to go. I feel lonely, being in solitude, and is very very lost. It was also the time where I tried very hard wanted to get back into the relationship, but then as time goes by, I came to learn that even if one day, we reunited, the relationship won't be the same anymore like it used to be. We may have grown into two different individuals and we both are in different worlds already. Sad but true. What ends must end.

The only thing I can tell myself and what dremax mentioned also, appreciate your loved ones while you can. When you only appreciate your loved one when it's already over, it is already very very very late. All I must do is to move on, and shall never repeat the same mistake like I did before again.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 23 2009, 10:45 PM

nlgoh, Life does not have take 2, but Life does have season 2. The ending of season 1 means a new and fresh beginning for season 2.

Occupy yourself with more activities and enlarge your circle of friends so that you won't be thinking of him so much. Before you knew it, you have just realized that Life is very meaningful. Be strong and be positive.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 24 2009, 03:34 PM

It is something normal, because we have invested so much emotional attachment to our loved one, so it's hard to let go, and it makes you feel very numb and lost.

But as we go through the process of recovering from the relationship, that makes us a wiser and a more matured person on how to deal with a future relationship. Someone have asked me once on how to become more matured in a relationship. Unfortunately, thinking back on the amount of pain I have gone through, I couldn't say much.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 25 2009, 11:16 AM

This statement is very very true.

I took a slightly different strategy. After me and my girl were no longer couples, I took the time to try out things I have never done before in Life, and boy, it's a totally fresh and a great experience.

I don't know, maybe I'll continue to follow this path, and maybe one day I'll find a new GF in the process.

I tried chatting with an open heart with my ex today, and weeded off all the negativities and jealous feelings. I don't know why. It's just feels good.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 25 2009, 10:25 PM

Yeah, I know. It's not easy, and going through it is no joke.

But if I don't let it go, it will continue to haunt me forever.

Had been in a gathering once with some CC members early this year. Missed those outing days. Hope we can have a gathering too and enlarge our social circle.

No, don't do that. Please.

I'm glad to hear that.

Yes. It's true, Winnie. Your closest friends are the most important people who give you strength to move on with Life. Widening your social circles is one of the way you can explore more about your life, and what you have missed out. That is what makes your life become much more meaningful for years to come.

Good luck in your life's journey.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 29 2009, 02:58 PM

I can understand how you feel. It's like that feeling of solitude. Sometimes it happens to me too. Working late at night, and after finish work, getting dinner yourself, sitting in the restaurant alone, man! It sucks, and all the crazy thoughts emerge in your mind.

Worst thing is, at the "so-right" moment of time, so happened that none of your friends can chat with you.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Dec 1 2009, 06:44 PM

I told myself not to get into a relationship if it's for the sake of hiding my sad feelings and it's not a true love. It will be very unfair to my new GF.

In my opinion, you should just be open and give him the present like what you did to your close friends. No biggie about it.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Dec 12 2009, 12:13 PM

Today I saw my ex-GF's Facebook page and her relationship status has changed to "In a relationship with XXX..."

I skimmed through her BF's wall, lots of postings from him stating how much he loves her. Everyone gave a lot of positive remarks on his Facebook wall.

This time, tears were rolling down my eyes... not because I'm feeling sad... because I'm touched. I'm glad she found someone who can give her happiness, and I'll pray that both of them will be a loving couple forever.

I just don't know why this time I got such a big courage to let her go for a better.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Dec 13 2009, 07:46 PM

Same situation here. Bought a Christmas gift for my ex while on a business trip in Singapore. Now, the process of giving her the present may be a bit quirky, as she'll bring her BF along when we meet up later. I'm not worried about her. I'm just worried how her BF will think. Besides, I don't know her BF pretty well..

Any suggestions/criticisms/flames?

This post has been edited by geekster129: Dec 14 2009, 01:17 PM

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No, I'm not going be a person who is ignorant. I need to face her BF someday and not trying to stay away from the reality and fact.