hello SphinxVille, i've spent about an hour reading from pg 1 to the current pg 19... all i could say is that, very interesting & i'm totally impressed by what you did.

simply awesome, mate! for sure, don't feel down, you did your best... perhaps you really did feel that you could be better than her ex or her current bf... never know, but i'm sure you did a lot of effort & sacrifice for her...

that's how a true guy should behave to impress a girl, not pretentious... shameful she didn't pick you. somehow i find it tough to really truly understand what a girl wants... refer to the movie What A Girl Wants, will really picture it.

i've had this experience before, perhaps i've posted to this LYN cupid's corner before, & i would really admit i weren't as patience as you... really too rushy to confess to the girl i like & ruined it.

maybe i'll need to learn from you, mate... ahaha.

whatever it is, just remain positive & confident in life, the ocean's always full of fishes... plus, you never know that there might be better girls out there... life is full of colours, wonders & by mixing them up, you get them in rainbow effects! voila!

i believe this thread is even more interesting than any fan fiction or novels or TV dramas whatsoever... plus with your updates, that really tempted all readers... as someone has said in this thread 'we're all trying to hope for you that this will work out as this will make 2 persons in the world less lonely'

hope you have a good time... for now, it's Happy X'mas & Merry New Year!
cheers...


Regards,
Shu.

let other ppl do that
we just dun go and do that

i'm with u on this. wat goes around comes around, always remember that

nope..i dont agree wit u..nowdays 98% gurl have their bf..if u dont have one,why not u grab those gurl to be ur gf..best men win maaa..thats a man!

Hi everyone! Wishing you all a merry xmas!!!

Oh.. THanks Shu... Thanks alot... Reading from the page 1 until now... Appreciate that you concern about my story... Anyway.. Now Im keeping up my life.... Will find a better one...

Wah lau, really like ur story Sphink. I stop reading after half way through but then suddenly i remember this thread and here i am continue the story from where i stop. I am so sad that in the end u still lost.

Anyway, meery christmas to u. U r damn cool!

well, for sure... always be positive, there are many more girls out there...
let bygones be bygones, as the year is drawing an end, welcome 2008 ok?

you're still young, mate... don't worry, proceed to the next level... build up your career, study hard if you are studying, graduate & get a lucrative job... eventually the girls will automatically find their way towards you... why? it's because you'll be financially attractive... & the confidence in you plus the security you'll give to assure them they'll be safe...

whatever it is, all the best to you in your The Amazing Woo-ing Story by SphinxVille : Episode II... lol, just kidding

as for now, Merry X'mas & Happy New Year... cheers!


Regards,
Shu.

love me...tender...love me sweeet....never let me go..

She looks like she wanted attention, but that was not given by her bf, then u came along and the stories goes...

Its true... Im thinking like that as well....

I was in ur shoe once also. Bf nv layan, i came into picture, she liked the attention, bla bla...

Bf found out bout me, took over from there and i was no longer in the picture.
Time , money n effort wasted.

Like all the biznesman use to say, get ur money's worth. R.O.I.
LOL

So ,next time, got to be careful.U have to ask the gal 1st,does she has a bf ? Make sure of that before fall into the "love of the entire ocean ".All else always be used as a tool for getting back bf attention .
Really not worth of making such a blind's eye on such a love.

my gf was taken away by another guy
it could be maybe i was not giving her enough attention
but i had to work to secure the future
however she still left me for another guy
even though i try to come back in the picture, but she still left me
TS love is.....i am lost
what is true love?
anyone in lyn help?

true love means - love with a little bit of sugar, spice & everything nice... lol, kidding, just saw the Powerpuff Girls mascots at Sunway Pyramid yesterday & that got me the inspiration.

well, actually... there's nothing of a true love, as love cannot be guaranteed, but only to be maintained it... girls need attention, a lot, plus they need to be cared of, you need to make them feel secured - what means of secured is that in terms of financial (you may not be rich, but must make them feel you're financially stable), if you're still a student, the this won't apply... but this - you need to be focusing on her alone, you can't show the flirtatious looks to other girls, except to her... girls are sensitive, if you want to go after on girl, make sure you'll be having your eyes totally set on her, to other girls, they're just your very absolute normal friends, better still if you unfriend them... as the girl you go after will be so delighted that you're really serious for her... lol

umm... let's see, you need to know the 'balancing act'... i would put it in terms of a scale, weighing scale of the ancient days... you need to know when to add some weight in love & when to take out some weight to make it balance... lol, tough yea? i suppose this'll be something like we do in our daily life, when you drive, if you corner too fast, you go turtle, if you brake too little your car can't slow down... what am i talking about? haha

sometimes shower her with some little gifts or flowers, but not too often... true love needs patience & needs something special, special means you can't do something the same all the time, she'll tell you 'you're so boring, i can predict what you want to give me already'... see? you just need to learn handicraft, what origami, lucky stars... all you can make, she'll be impressed

although this may be a little childish for some guys, i do believe it'll make true love exist & this will prolong a couple's love, to be lasting... well, human get bored, don't we? i guess it's natural, fresh things always make someone go for it... therefore to keep one's heart, all you need to do is to have the elasticity... just like a rubber band, get what i mean? lol, picture it...

hmm... tough it seems, good luck peeps... remember, love needs excitement, umm, not that 'excitement', but something to keep it afresh... cheers!


Regards,
Shu.

Nov 6 2007, 03:42 PM

Hello... Nice to meet you all... I have some doubt on how to woo this girl named A that I just met her few days back....

The Story goes like this... I met her last Saturday at Maxis fair... She approach me and introduce Maxis plan to me... I replied her that I applied long time already... Before this I notice her quite along time... I dont want to miss this chance to get to know her.. So I decide to get her hp number... Chating with her that time and finally I got her hp number... On the next day morning... I smsed her and said that I got something for her and ask her for a dinner if she wanted to.... So she agreed and we went out for a meet... At that time.. Im not so happy yet cause I think that she might bring along her bf since she want to meet me for dinner.... When we meet up... She came alone... Oh my god.. I was so happy... We get some place to eat and chit chat about everything... Almost reach 4 hours... I end up the session cause it is late at night... I was so excited that night cause she attracted me... and my mind keep thinking of her.... Next day morning... I smsed her again and chat until evening... How I going to woo this girl? Is sms and call the only way to mix with her..? I scare I sms her too much will get her realise that Im chasing her indirectly... Oh my god.... Help.... I dont have experience on this matter lerr.... Last few times I always fail on this kind of matter...

Nov 6 2007, 04:31 PM
I got ask her she got bf or not.. but she said dont want paktoh in the mean time... Concentrate on study and career is most important for her because having a relationship quite wasting time if her bf stick too much on her.... This is what she mention...

I got smsed her this morning to send my morning regards to her.... wait wait wait... luckily she got replied with a nice forward msg.... I scare that I sms her... She feel annoying then dont want to reply me.... I just sms her now... Haven get reply from her yet... Her reply sms may make my day de... Oh my god.... keep thinkning of her.. Suffering ;lerr..... Can you people tell me what to do next arr..? Especially for girls readers... What would you think and any suggestion from girls point of view....

Nov 6 2007, 10:50 PM
Wow.... So much reply already... Guys and girls ... thanks for your concern o....

Updates:

I just call up her... She is busy doing her stuff so sometimes she cant reply me... Just normal chat... I will try to date her this weekend... Will update you all about it ...

Nov 7 2007, 09:24 AM
Yesterday night I msn chating with her... that time she is working... and then she said she gtg so I goodbye to her lorr.. After a while... I still saw her msn online... So I call her and ask whether she is still working or not... She said yes... and I remind her to off the msn when leaving...

I think I care too much on this tiny things de.... Yesterday night chit chat with my roommate.. They said dont always sms regarding of what are you doing larr... dinner already or not arr... This might make the girl frustrated if we are not so close de... They suggest to forward some meaningful msg to her... Once per day.... Just to keep her remind of me.... If can... sms at the same time.. So that she will used to it receive the msg at the same time.... How you all think arr..?

Nov 13 2007, 09:53 AM
Latest Update:

Last Saturday... I went to The Curve find her... That time, she having lunch time... So when I came to her working place... I cant find her.... Wait wait wait for so long time... Finally meet her... She is window shopping that time... She was so surprise when I was there... And then we chat quite some times and I pass a souvenier to her that I bought from Melaka... Just a simple bookmark... Anyway... I had date her for a meet a Sunway Pyramid on Monday night for matter and she agreed. The gathering session end up by her friend ask her to accompany her to shopping... So we left....

Sunday night, she call up me saidthat she might bring her friend too when meet up with me... Since the time quite time for you.. So I suggest that we meet up next time and I dont want her to rush here and there... So she said ok... After that... We chat alot of things... End up she received a call and she said she will call me back.... After a while I received a sms from her said that she extremely tired and she want to rest already.. chat next time and make the appointment again for next time...

From the 2 incident above, I think she treat me as a friend and do not have any feel that will lead her to avoid me.... How you all think arr..? What should I do for the next step...?

Nov 14 2007, 04:16 PM
I try to date her this Thursday... She said she cant confirm with me.... Will let me know later.... Now still waiting for her reply....

Do you all know why I dont want to woo her so fast... It is because we just get to know each other not more than 2 weeks only.... If I approach too fast.... This might scare her away... In the end... I spoilt everything..

Nov 15 2007, 09:34 AM
Latest Update:

Yesterday I called her...

Me : HellO...
She : Hello...
Me : Where are you now arr..? Got songs play de...
She : Im at Wing's Cafe...
Me : ooO!~!~ So enjoy.... Yum cha...
She : You dont want come to find me... then ma find friends yum cha lorr...
[I was like ]
Me : Not I dont want find you larr... Just that you busy with your assignment and works.... So I dont want to disturb you lorr... How about this Thursday arr.. ? Decided already..?
She : Erm... ok... What time we meet arr..?
Me : 7pm.. ok?
She : ok..
Me : See you then... Enjoy your yum cha session larr..
She : See you....

Wow.... She claims that I dont go to find her.... Ermm Ermm... I think is a good sign for me... How you all think arr..?

Nov 16 2007, 09:55 AM
Latest Update :

Before I meet up with her yesterday... She sms around 4 something to ask whether I can fetch her out or not.... So I do reply her sure...

So after work... I rush to her place to fetch her... While she getting into my car... I ask her...

Me : HellO!~!~
She : Hi....
Me : Why you ask me to come to fetch you arr..? You dont scare that later I will bring you to somewhere else and doing something bad to you..?
[She smiled and replied]
She : Its ok for me... because I trust you...
Me : ok... thanks...
[I smiled back to her]

The dating quite nice.... Just as normal lorr...

Nov 19 2007, 11:30 AM
Last Sunday I date her for breakfast in the morning... On that the morning.. Oh my god... I was almost late already.. Woke up at 8.20am that I suppose to reach her house 8.30am... Oh my god.... Fast fast settle myself and get to her place... On the way I sms her whether she wake up already or not... She replied that she was just wake up and not yet ready, ask me to come at 9am... So I replied it doesnt matter... I wait her.... But actually I was late late late liao... Reach her place around 9... but wait until 9.30am... Once she get into my car.... She ask what time I reach... I said almost 9 lorr... She said sorry for that... That time her hair haven dry yet, still very wet.... But looks sweet larr.... She lead me to her place that she always having breakfast de... Quite pack since that day is family day... During breakfast... We chat and laugh alot.... After that I fetch her back to her place.... Got sms and call her the rest of the day and date her tonight whether she want to come out or not for a dinner.. She just replied this morning said that she want to stay at home since she went out so many days already... She want to stay at home to accompany her family de... So agree with her.... She said she will text me if she got free time to come out.... So I replied her I will do so if I got free time de....

So... How you all think about the progress... Should I sms her in these few days? Or I should not sms her until when I want to date her then only sms her....?


Nov 26 2007, 03:53 PM
Since last time, I date her last Saturday morning for breakfast... After that... Accompany her to do assignment from Saturday night until next Sunday morning at Mc D..... I think she knows that Im going after her already... But until now.. She din hint anything to me yet.... I also dont know she likes me or not....

Tonight I will having a movie with her then after that continue accompany her doing assignment de.... Might be whole night again.... I had think of holding her hand when watching movie... But I scare she will let of it... Dont know what to do also....


Nov 29 2007, 12:41 AM
Updated:
Bad news to tell you all... That night I went out watching movie with her ... After that night, she start to avoid me.... I call her to chat... She wish to hang up quickly.... I ask her around home at night... She said no... This is the feedback from her.... So I had give up to chase her already.... Thanks for the advise and guidance.... ^ ^

Nov 29 2007, 02:18 PM
Thanks for reply... guys... I think I need to tell you all in more details... So that you all can tell what should I do now....

Back to Monday night.... I go over to her convo to fetch her.... So reach her place.... Call her that I reach already... Then she came out... on the way to my car... She said got a bit headache and keep massage her head... So I ask her ok or not... She said is ok.... So we proceed to watch movie....

In the car... I talk much than her.... She seems like not feeling well... And I ask her is she ok..? She said feel like want to vomit de... then I care of her and said might be she do assignment too late... not enough sleep de...

So when I reach GSC.... I go to find some seat for her since she is not feeling well... Go round and round... No place.... She is following me... but a bit blur blur de... walk slowly... So we come to sport shop... and there are some seat... So I ask her to sit there 1st... I go to buy some drinks for her.... She said buy later larr... I said... I buy 1st since she is resting over here... So I went to buy drinks... After came back... She is trying shoes... and ask me nice or not... I said nice... I like those style as well... but just test only... She din buy de... After that she said she headache again... then I ask her where is the spot... she showed me and I ask I massage for her... She said ok.... then I massage lorr...

Time reach.. We get into cinema... She sat down and keep on massage her head... then I said sit properly... I massage for you.. She do it as what I said... then after that watch movie... care of her... cover my jacket to her so that she is not feel cool... In the mid of movie.. She receive a call from her bf and she rush out.... After a while.. came back to seat but didnt say anything... After finish movie... We went out and go home... When almost reach her home... She cannot tahan and ask me to stop... go down and vomit.... I comfort her back so that she feel better... then she siad ok already.... After that send her home de..... When I heading home... I smsed her rest earlier... if not ok.. then see doctor lorr.. She replied.. ok.. thanks for helping just now... good night...

Next day morning.. I smsed her and ask her feel better... She replied ok already... just a bit headache but not so serious larr... then after that I ask want to proceed doing assignment tonight... and she said no need my help already.. Just send whatever I had done to her... She will do it at her friend's house since she want to discuss assignment with her friends de... At night I call her up and then said I send to her already.. She received it already..? She said will check later... then she hang up phone quite fast de...

Next day morning... I ask her want to go to Pasar Malam..? She siad cannot ... want to complete assignment and pass up on Monday.... then ok larr... After that I ask her got around or not at night... She said no... then I ask what time she went out... She said not at home also... then I got noithing to say liao.. just said I will bring the things to her next time... hang up like that....

Until now... I dint give a call to her already.... Cause my hp credit out of limit...

This is what happen lorr... What should I do arr..?


Dec 10 2007, 11:21 AM
HelLO!~!~ Nice to meet you all back then... How you all recently.... Must be frustrated waiting for my updates right..? OK.... Less talk, details 1st....

Last Wednesday night
I date her out to get her laptop cause she said her laptop got alot of problem... So I offer her to fix it... Somemore customized her desktop as well.... During that night ... Nothin happen lar... Just yum cha and chating....

Last Saturday
In the morning, I call her to ask where is her booth in PC Fair cause she is working there de.... But she said she dont work de.... Cancel already.... Now sleeping.... I was [sweat]... I asked her for a breakfast if she want since I haven get mine.... So after few hours, she called me for a brunch.. not breakfast lorr.... After that we went to buy something for Christmas Decoration... and then back to her house... and she showed what she will decorate for her room de....

Last Sunday
This day is a wonderful day for me.... We went out for jogging... badminton... then after that dress ourself and went to PC Fair.... Taking Christmas photos at KLCC, One Utama and The Curve..... I was so happy with her that time..... Enjoying cam-whoring.....

Coming Tuesday, we gonna go for Movie... But still not yet confirm...Im still waiting for her reply today....

Dec 11 2007, 10:03 AM
Updated:
1 bad news... 1 good news....
Monday morning
I smsed her ask bout the movie whether she confirm or not... She said cannot... Got something to do.... No choice..... This is the bad news....

Good news... She asked whether can change to Thursday night or not.... I said sure... I will book the ticket... deal.... lol... So happy about that...^^

Dec 11 2007, 05:27 PM
HellO!~!~ Guys... Something doubt need to ask you all..... She sent me a testimonial to thanks everything.... Last sentence seems like hinting me... but is a bad sign...
"Appreciate to have u as friend"
Im so doubt about this sentence... So moody about this sentence.. Feels like she just treat me as friend only....

Dec 13 2007, 01:18 PM
Updated:
Yesterday night I smsed with her... but half way no reply already... then I call her up... Always get into voice message box... Cham.. She off her hp already.. Maybe she change to another sim card.... How arr..? Tonight I will having movie with her lerr... I scare I cant contact her de....

Dec 14 2007, 10:51 AM
Updated:
I went to have movie with her.... Taking photos of Christmas theme..... Then when I fetch her home.... I ask her about her bf and her current bf de... She said she still think of her ex bf.. not the current bf de... But no chance at all larr... She said she might think too much... On the other hand... She told me that she wont chase guy... and she wont give any hint to the guy who court her de... Is that means she wants me to confess to her arr..?

Dec 16 2007, 01:55 PM
Updated:
Last Thursday... I have a movie with her.... Nice outing as usual... Snap a lot of photos...

Friday night... I went to her house.. in her room... Showing her laptop desktop that I customized for her... Even create a Christmas wallpaper for her... She appreaciate it... and we chat alot until 12 midnight..... Gave her the 1st Christmas present... I ask her whether can celebrate Christmas with me on Monday 24 Dec.. Whole day... She said she will let me know on next Monday...

Saturday morning.. jogging with her... badminton with her... then after that fetch her to go to buy some Christmas stuff to decorate her Christmas tree... Now those stuff in my place ... Will go over to her room to decorate in coming Thursday... Cause no work marr...


Dec 17 2007, 02:01 AM
Just now having snooker with her... Ask her about the date for 24 de... She said might be cannot worr... Cause her bf cant confirm the date for her de.... So I ask her how about 25... She said dont know also... So I told her I will blank out these 2 dates and will keep her update the status... She said if got other event... dont let it blank.. I said nvm... I dont have event that time... I will totally blank it out for her....

Tonight... really enjoy playing snooker with her de.... Eventhough she is not pro... but the feeling was so nice.... On the way back to her house... Im asking her bf things..... and she told me about it also.... I do think that want to hold her hand that time... but I keep pressing myself not to do so... Wait until the right time.... If I really go out with her.... I promise her to get her a unforgetable and memorable date for her de.....


Dec 18 2007, 07:12 PM
"why not try ask her wht her bf will think he bring u back home and decorate his room?"

I asked her already... He said her bf know she want to decorate her room... but her bf do not take any action to decorate for her de... She is so disappointed about it....

"why she not ask her bf help but ask u ?"

I dont dare to ask cause this might lead to confession already.... Later she ask me back... Why I offer to decorate for her de...

Dec 19 2007, 10:53 AM
Ya... She stay with her family de.... In the room... We just chit chat only ... Nothing much doing....

Updated:
Yesterday night I had did something stupid... I went to her house to help her decorate her Xmas tree... And then chit chating... Dont know what give me guts... I go and hold her hand and ask her whether she will consider to accept a Taurus guy(Me) as her bf de,.... She smile and turn her face around... let go my hand and said... She will consider.... after that ... we talk about her study.... I was like jerk larr.. that time.... Shimata... What I had done.... I scare next time I ask her out... She dont want to come out anymore....


Dec 21 2007, 10:27 AM
Updated:

I think she had choose her bf de... Tonight she will go back to his bf hometown to celebrate guo dong with her bf... and then celebrate Xmas with him as well.... I greet her... and then she just replied thanks for everything...

Thanks u guys from the beginnning until now... Given many support and advise.... I think this is the end for this thread... Thanks... THanks a lot...


Dec 21 2007, 01:48 PM
Updated:

I smsed her just now... "THanks for ur answer and make it clear to me.. I hope we still can be friend like usual.. We still can hang out like jogging?"

She replied "Ya. Of course. V can be best frens forever."

Luckily I did not lose a friend... Somemore gain a best friend....

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TS, sorry for making it into one big post because i think it is a very good journal .
what i am thinking about this girl is , she is not so close with her bf and probably she is trying to find another suitable guy. what cares ? probably luck will side on u after few month . it is very hard for her not to go to her bf place as her bf already invited her, u wont want her to break with her bf by christmas ya ?
imho, she is telling u to be best friend first probably still need time to monitor u in case there is a good time for her to break .

well , it is a fail in the end , but the experience is not a fail , it is a very good one .

try to find other girls to date out when u are free , in case she is not available , at least u got the u-turn and concentrate on another one .

good luck ya , hoping to see ur 2nd date soon .

happy new year .

You confius me, u should use "quote", i read the story i see why so familiar one, i thot u and TS got similar story, turn out u do a summary pulak lol...

LOL!!!!! ....found this thread when using search function.....even I'm like 1 year late..but this story rocks....I salute to TS!!!!

out of a blue moon, i was so bored doing nothing online... then i decided to get into this forum... u know what?? i was ONE year late too... what i saw, i am the second to be late for ONE year!!!

anyway, dude, ya the best man... after all these efforts...! keep it up... hopr to see u have a new story... btw, this is like watching a drama!!! respect man!!!

wow..that is a sweet story. Albeit it is a bit twisted as the TS is trying to spanar but he did it gracefully (assuming he did not leave anything out la).

I hope TS found someone else by now. And she would be still happy with her bf.

And dear TS, I don't think you need any advice on how to be a great guy to a girl la.