hello SphinxVille, i've spent about an hour reading from pg 1 to the current pg 19... all i could say is that, very interesting & i'm totally impressed by what you did.

simply awesome, mate! for sure, don't feel down, you did your best... perhaps you really did feel that you could be better than her ex or her current bf... never know, but i'm sure you did a lot of effort & sacrifice for her...

that's how a true guy should behave to impress a girl, not pretentious... shameful she didn't pick you. somehow i find it tough to really truly understand what a girl wants... refer to the movie What A Girl Wants, will really picture it.

i've had this experience before, perhaps i've posted to this LYN cupid's corner before, & i would really admit i weren't as patience as you... really too rushy to confess to the girl i like & ruined it.

maybe i'll need to learn from you, mate... ahaha.

whatever it is, just remain positive & confident in life, the ocean's always full of fishes... plus, you never know that there might be better girls out there... life is full of colours, wonders & by mixing them up, you get them in rainbow effects! voila!

i believe this thread is even more interesting than any fan fiction or novels or TV dramas whatsoever... plus with your updates, that really tempted all readers... as someone has said in this thread 'we're all trying to hope for you that this will work out as this will make 2 persons in the world less lonely'

hope you have a good time... for now, it's Happy X'mas & Merry New Year!
cheers...


Regards,
Shu.

well, for sure... always be positive, there are many more girls out there...
let bygones be bygones, as the year is drawing an end, welcome 2008 ok?

you're still young, mate... don't worry, proceed to the next level... build up your career, study hard if you are studying, graduate & get a lucrative job... eventually the girls will automatically find their way towards you... why? it's because you'll be financially attractive... & the confidence in you plus the security you'll give to assure them they'll be safe...

whatever it is, all the best to you in your The Amazing Woo-ing Story by SphinxVille : Episode II... lol, just kidding

as for now, Merry X'mas & Happy New Year... cheers!


Regards,
Shu.

true love means - love with a little bit of sugar, spice & everything nice... lol, kidding, just saw the Powerpuff Girls mascots at Sunway Pyramid yesterday & that got me the inspiration.

well, actually... there's nothing of a true love, as love cannot be guaranteed, but only to be maintained it... girls need attention, a lot, plus they need to be cared of, you need to make them feel secured - what means of secured is that in terms of financial (you may not be rich, but must make them feel you're financially stable), if you're still a student, the this won't apply... but this - you need to be focusing on her alone, you can't show the flirtatious looks to other girls, except to her... girls are sensitive, if you want to go after on girl, make sure you'll be having your eyes totally set on her, to other girls, they're just your very absolute normal friends, better still if you unfriend them... as the girl you go after will be so delighted that you're really serious for her... lol

umm... let's see, you need to know the 'balancing act'... i would put it in terms of a scale, weighing scale of the ancient days... you need to know when to add some weight in love & when to take out some weight to make it balance... lol, tough yea? i suppose this'll be something like we do in our daily life, when you drive, if you corner too fast, you go turtle, if you brake too little your car can't slow down... what am i talking about? haha

sometimes shower her with some little gifts or flowers, but not too often... true love needs patience & needs something special, special means you can't do something the same all the time, she'll tell you 'you're so boring, i can predict what you want to give me already'... see? you just need to learn handicraft, what origami, lucky stars... all you can make, she'll be impressed

although this may be a little childish for some guys, i do believe it'll make true love exist & this will prolong a couple's love, to be lasting... well, human get bored, don't we? i guess it's natural, fresh things always make someone go for it... therefore to keep one's heart, all you need to do is to have the elasticity... just like a rubber band, get what i mean? lol, picture it...

hmm... tough it seems, good luck peeps... remember, love needs excitement, umm, not that 'excitement', but something to keep it afresh... cheers!


Regards,
Shu.