How do u know that your kids will take care of you?

I've talked some of the senior citizen among chinese people, they are so proud telling me all of their kids are living & working overseas, while they are rotting here and depends on relatives help.

Their kids only come back once a year or no come back for a long period of time

Clearly their kids don't even care much about them. I'm sure going back to Malaysia for the currency they earn is just peanut to them.

That's not something to be proud at all.