having the baby itself is already a regret
it's not a toy, they realized how bad it is after few months

those that think it through and through end up with pets instead

else end up like a thread yesterday...saying life is tough because his baby is coming up....without realizing it's a choice, not compulsory

This post has been edited by MR_alien: Apr 24 2024, 09:19 AM

this statement alone already shows you're thinking from your POV and not the child's POV which most parents are

many people today still has that mindset children is there to take care of you when you're old




without realizing that they themselves also have trouble staying afloat

they never asked to be right?
u just bring them into this world with the purpose that they're your slave...and their responsibilities are to take care of you when they're old

and when they ask u 2 questions, u can't seem to answer them at all
1. why did you bring them to this world?
2. is this world a wonderful place to be in?

glancing through the comments here....certain people's life is really sad until they need to drag another helpless lives into their life

if that child is being brought into this life just so you don't feel lonely, just so someone inherit your last name, just so someone can take care of you when you're old, just so they can mourn at your funetal and just so there is someone there to bury you
thn i can say that's a sad life you got there, you may want to rethink the purpose of that child from the beginning because all along it's ALL ABOUT "YOU"...YOU YOU YOU!

some even goes as far as labelling that having a child equals to being W in life

of course no
specifically due to question no.2


no they're not...not from what i saw these days
i'm not saying all...there are parents out there that sayang their kids like no tomorrow
but there are also parents out there that treat their children as slaves....yell at their child all the time and it's not because they did something wrong
it's just a normal conversation but they just use a yelling tone to talk to their children....and you wonder why certain "rempit" grew up acting like gangster/samseng
it actually originated from their father....monkey see monkey do, turun menurun

and another point is if you bring the child to this world, care for them and you expect return...that's also wrong
you have to think that they barely even keep afloat, where do they still have the resources to take care of you
and it's not even the future, it's already happening now as we speak....it's just going to be much worse in the future

at the end of the day, they can care for u....physically but not mentally and financially....u have to tampung them instead when the real estate price gets out of control

This post has been edited by MR_alien: Apr 24 2024, 05:21 PM

the key is always look far enough to the future FOR YOUR CHILD.....NOT FOR YOU