try to live the single bohemian free life until you are 50.

then tell me u enjoy or not?

I see so many single guys reached 50 but don't seem to have direction in life. They want to go travel round the world but nobody to go with. They asked other guys, but other single guys think eh so ghey one, don't want to join. They asked other girls, girls think I don't want to join 50 yo uncle. Some more those 50 yo uncle, maybe got money but they also have preference for younger gals, when they look at 50 yo auntie, they say don't want lah, no quality.

I also see some 50 yo guys buy a lot of man toys like mercedes, most expensive mountain bikes, superbikes, gundam toys, but in the end just play with it themselves.

In the end what is the point eh?

Got all the moneh, got all the time but don't know where to spend it.

Got some even very filial, spend a lot of times with their parents, take them out for makan, take them overseas, hire maid for them. That is good. But some of my single friends at that age, feeling depress because they see death all around them, they take care of their dementia parents, don't see life around them.

Then everyday in office, people look down on single guys. Some people even dread working for single unmarried dragon lady in their 50s. True story, i heard got one bitch unmarried lady like to punish her staff if they get pregnant, put them into dead end jobs.

gosh don't know which one is more pathetic, you misunderstand my writings or you thinking that I am really that shallow that single people are the only ones who can take care of dementia parents ?

U don't get my message, do you?

read it again. The only nonsense is your eyes.

I am saying people who chose to stay single, the feeling will magnify because they don't experience life around them, such as birth of their own child, but they experience death. Obviously everyone will experience death of a loved one close to them, but in the absence of children to bring back the hope of life, they may feel some sense that everyone around them are aging.

this one you may disagree with me, but misundestanding and reading it wrongly is pathetic.

Can stay single at 20, at 30, at 40 but are you going to continue doing that ?

It is boring to stay single after 40

there is nobody to hang out with, nobody to share your life with.

your parents are aging, in fact everyone around you is aging.

you have a lot of money but spent it all on your investments and boy toys. In the end when you die, who is going to inherit it ?

every night and day you sleep, you sleep alone, you done enjoy the company of a partner.

sure you can snore or you won't hear others snore and you got the whole bed to yourself.

your boss may think because you are single, he or she sweep all the work to you.