Aug 11 2023, 12:13 PM
QUOTE(happysalad @ Jul 27 2023, 02:25 PM)
is it better to marry or stay single?
marriage is a lifetime commitment to another person, and another family.
We have not explored the different possibilities to be offered by the world. ppl with different characters, different career opportunities, etc.
If you are a person longing for freedom and flexibility, would you still get married with the person who you have been together for many years (more than 5 years)?
If you marry the right person, you will be happy most of the times. If wrong person, it will be like hell. marriage is a lifetime commitment to another person, and another family.
We have not explored the different possibilities to be offered by the world. ppl with different characters, different career opportunities, etc.
If you are a person longing for freedom and flexibility, would you still get married with the person who you have been together for many years (more than 5 years)?
Right person: happy to spend time together, can come to an agreement on decision making (negotiation required), can share happiness and sadness without any fear or worry
Wrong person: not responsible to you or family, not working hard enough to provide a living for family (doesn't need to be wealthy rich), doing drugs/alcoholic too much till neglecting family.
You will still get freedom and flexibility after getting married, just need to set expectations.
I am not talking about freedom to have intimate relationship with another person, other than your partner/wife/husband. To my standard, that's consider as betrayal.
With family, you will sacrifice your time and spend more time with growing up with kids and family.
It's tiring in the first 3 years, but after that it's fun coaching kids about different things in life, look at them growing up.
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