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 INTERNET LOVE,Me n My E-lover., we have never met b4,But I love her.....

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TSGengarbear
post Sep 20 2007, 12:47 AM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Sep 20 2007, 12:39 AM)
Life is a game, but your not playing it alone nor your style.
Hope for all the best, and do your best.
Nobody can predict the future, you plan your future, God leads u to accomplish it by the best way.
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u r right bro,I will do my best...
wat i can do is juz wait for her exam to finish .....
even though it doesn't work out.....then i will b glad that at least i gave it a try...

p/s:sometimes i do feel lonely since i really miss her n she is not by my side....
and it's really hard to resist when thr r girls thr approaching u waiting for u to go kao.....
guess that's y some ppl said it's good to b single......
I'm very loyal 1 k.....

time to tidur...chat with ya all tml .....


This post has been edited by Gengarbear: Sep 20 2007, 12:49 AM
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post Sep 20 2007, 01:00 AM

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all the best to TS man.
cherish the girl who really loves u as I dun tink thr r lot of them out thr....
I do believe in internet love it's more about determination and sincerity as some girls u have met and known for so long also might let u down...,we r not living in the stone age,so move on man......+U +U


as to devil_x and mzhai.....
haizz...putting in 100% is always not wise .....especially ur 1st love....
for me..it takes me 1years++ to get back to my life and ur life really get screwed up when u r heart broken....
but she has got her options as we r juz bf/gf,so I nvr blame her...life goes on....
wish u guys will find ur true love soon k....


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post Sep 20 2007, 02:05 AM

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true love lol... not so belief le..
now hope got ngam de understandin de onli
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post Sep 20 2007, 03:34 AM

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bus ticket rm 50 , jus take it and go look for her...
if u really love her so much ( as u mentioned)
rm 50 and 100+km is ntg for u..
sacrifices needed dude , good luck
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post Sep 20 2007, 03:41 AM

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dude you gv my support..Go for it
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post Sep 20 2007, 09:00 AM

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Quit the online thing. Move your relationship to real-time; phone calls. I've learnt bitter lessons from online relationships and now I prefer to call, even if my girl's a continent away.

If that doesn't work due to technical constraints, write snail mail. It may seem similar to e-mail, but a real letter she can hold is worth so much more.

And don't worry about the SPM thing. If you trust her and believe in her, you know she can cope with the relationship and her exams. Just don't give up no matter what she says. Coz the feeling is there!
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post Sep 20 2007, 09:58 AM

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get a bus ticket and go visit her

if she is a super lenglui .... u lucky lar
if she is a gpar ... be ready to accept her
if she is a he ... then u see who want to volunteer his back
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post Sep 20 2007, 10:10 AM

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QUOTE(Gengarbear @ Sep 19 2007, 11:31 PM)
ok,I juz wan opinions from u all helpful guys...sincerely,so pls dun fool me here k....
the story starts with Me n she starting knowing each other through MSN(totally stranger)...last year NOV..
then we started to chat...and she is so cute n sincere(though it's msn)to me....
so I was like kinda got some feeling for her...(that time still kinda feeling sad bcoz of my 1st love)
then her caring makes me got that feeling again(in love)....

So finally I confessed to her....and she accepted it(shortcuted,no need bla so much)
then we r like MSN couple only since we never met each other b4,coz staying at different state k...
but then I really feel that i really love her until I have rejected a few girls in reality....
and now both of us agree to have the commitment of an actual relationship(meaning it's official d lo)
but yet we still nvr met each other...b4 this,we lost contact for a few months since she moved to somewhr else n her com spoiled and cant go online due to the flood last time(wt she told me afterward) note:she is kinda typical chinese girl who not really cant live without internet....

then now we get back to contact d...then she gets a new HP number from her fren then we start SMS....then I called her......sometimes.....juz like BF N GF....as i said,we made a promise of commitment for our relationship...again..though we never met...(both of us have seen our pictures ...)
but then since she is having SPM,her mum took her phone d,so now i cant really contact her anytime,and gotta wait for her to online n chat with me(as she cant often online coz her sis n mum doesnt allow it)...she said she might call me using public phone.
so far it's like that...
so wat i need is ur opinion on this "relationship" or u guys think it's juz a silly childish game?
as i need to know since I'm really serious in this relationship...(as I had promised her)
our plan is that after her SPM,we will b like other normal couple,meeting each other n go paktor....
is this relationship immature???
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hey bro, my situation is "almost" same like u !
it's jz tt i've been v her 4 more den 1 year ady comin to 2 years soon !
haiz... the difference of mine n urs is tt i nvr seen her pic b4 bt she'd seen mine ...
i oso tried 2 ask her out bt she sed she nvr meet net frens so she's oso nt rdy 2 meet me yet ...
bt at the same time she has a LDR bf n i had changed few reality gf's oso ...
bt still v both love each other .....
wad i tink is it's nt immature la, it's hard 2 find sum1 tt u has feel with in reality nt 2 say virtual ...
so y nt jz treasure it n meanwhile giv urself chance in the real world ?!
if u both aren't gonna meet or the so called official paktoh with her doesn't work out ...

anyway gd luck 2 ur "virtual" relationship s urs is muc clearer den mine biggrin.gif

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post Sep 20 2007, 10:19 AM

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hmmm all the best to Gengarbear.. hope everything works out for you

just one thing though.. dont put ur hopes to high up
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post Sep 20 2007, 10:32 AM

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TS earns my respect...dont even see her before, then committed himself already....nowadays ppl...so hunger for relationship shakehead.gif
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post Sep 20 2007, 01:08 PM

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Go meet her! With public transportations and you and her being in the same country but just different states, do you even need to be told???!?! Get her address and say you wanna send her something then end up visiting her! Or I'm sure you know what school she's in and since you've seen her photograph you'd be able to recognize her coming out after school? If you want something you gotta work for it!

I knew someone from Malaysia online when I was in London. We always talked on MSN and we kinda liked each other but we've never mentioned unlike you both. I didn't know he liked me nor did he know I liked him. Somehow I made the decision to come back and we met each other and we were just meant to be =)
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post Sep 20 2007, 01:13 PM

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Internet and reality is totally different.

- End of story -
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post Sep 20 2007, 01:29 PM

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when the world is still using ICQ, i also had a gf online...
every weekend online chatting until 3am, then followed by phone conversation until 6am.
this lasted for a year. we also seen each other photos.

after we finally met each other, then things changed
no more icq, no more phone conversation...

internet and real world are different
just be prepared... don't put so much hope..
even though both of u meet in the future, start slowly
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post Sep 20 2007, 03:17 PM

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QUOTE(F1meteor @ Sep 20 2007, 01:29 PM)
when the world is still using ICQ, i also had a gf online...
every weekend online chatting until 3am, then followed by phone conversation until 6am.
this lasted for a year. we also seen each other photos.

after we finally met each other, then things changed
no more icq, no more phone conversation...

internet and real world are different
just be prepared... don't put so much hope..
even though both of u meet in the future, start slowly
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True don't put so much hopes on it as in many cases it won't turn out the way you want it to be.
But I've had many experiences on internet relationship and so far non that turned out that way...guess it depends on luck and who you meet.
Also my mum and uncle as well are married to the people they know on the internet.
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post Sep 20 2007, 03:59 PM

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QUOTE(xcutelilgal @ Sep 20 2007, 03:17 PM)
True don't put so much hopes on it as in many cases it won't turn out the way you want it to be.
But I've had many experiences on internet relationship and so far non that turned out that way...guess it depends on luck and who you meet.
Also my mum and uncle as well are married to the people they know on the internet.
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eh.. ur mum? how old r u btw? as far as i know internet invented not long ago..
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post Sep 20 2007, 05:39 PM

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QUOTE(MariMo @ Sep 20 2007, 03:34 AM)
bus ticket rm 50 , jus take it and go look for her...
if u really love her so much ( as u mentioned)
rm 50 and 100+km is ntg for u..
sacrifices needed dude , good luck
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Rm50 is about the bus fare....hehe...i really ready to go and meet her,but she is now having her trial summore her sis ask me to be patient....so i guess i might have to wait ....


Added on September 20, 2007, 5:40 pm
QUOTE(BlaBlaBoy @ Sep 20 2007, 03:41 AM)
dude you gv my support..Go for it
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thx bro!!Toh man chap...


Added on September 20, 2007, 5:42 pm
QUOTE(prozac @ Sep 20 2007, 09:00 AM)
Quit the online thing. Move your relationship to real-time; phone calls. I've learnt bitter lessons from online relationships and now I prefer to call, even if my girl's a continent away.

If that doesn't work due to technical constraints, write snail mail. It may seem similar to e-mail, but a real letter she can hold is worth so much more.

And don't worry about the SPM thing. If you trust her and believe in her, you know she can cope with the relationship and her exams. Just don't give up no matter what she says. Coz the feeling is there!
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ya bro...i called her sometimes....and we juz chat happily though at 1st we were quite shy...but now everytime b4 she hang up will say smth sweet to me....hehe
but then now her mum had taken away her phone since she is having her exam soon...so now i can juz wait for her to online at msn which she cant do often also...


Added on September 20, 2007, 5:43 pm
QUOTE(FeeLBreAkeR @ Sep 20 2007, 10:10 AM)
hey bro, my situation is "almost" same like u !
it's jz tt i've been v her 4 more den 1 year ady comin to 2 years soon !
haiz... the difference of mine n urs is tt i nvr seen her pic b4 bt she'd seen mine ...
i oso tried 2 ask her out bt she sed she nvr meet net frens so she's oso nt rdy 2 meet me yet ...
bt at the same time she has a LDR bf n i had changed few reality gf's oso ...
bt still v both love each other .....
wad i tink is it's nt immature la, it's hard 2 find sum1 tt u has feel with in reality nt 2 say virtual ...
so y nt jz treasure it n meanwhile giv urself chance in the real world ?!
if u both aren't gonna meet or the so called official paktoh with her doesn't work out ...

anyway gd luck 2 ur "virtual" relationship s urs is muc clearer den mine  biggrin.gif
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wow...u r so chun...why don u ask ur gf out n mayb bring the relationship to another level?? wat diff between us is juz that me n she had commited to this relationship....
juz wish me luck k...thx bro


Added on September 20, 2007, 5:46 pm
QUOTE(F1meteor @ Sep 20 2007, 01:29 PM)
when the world is still using ICQ, i also had a gf online...
every weekend online chatting until 3am, then followed by phone conversation until 6am.
this lasted for a year. we also seen each other photos.

after we finally met each other, then things changed
no more icq, no more phone conversation...

internet and real world are different
just be prepared... don't put so much hope..
even though both of u meet in the future, start slowly
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i'm juz glad that i'm not the only 1 who can fall in love through internet...
haha...i know i cannot be rush ...
thx bro


Added on September 20, 2007, 5:48 pm
QUOTE(xcutelilgal @ Sep 20 2007, 03:17 PM)
True don't put so much hopes on it as in many cases it won't turn out the way you want it to be.
But I've had many experiences on internet relationship and so far non that turned out that way...guess it depends on luck and who you meet.
Also my mum and uncle as well are married to the people they know on the internet.
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OMG sweetie....Can u borrow me some of ur luck???
since u r so pro in internet romance might need to learn more from u d...everytime also successful, then u really v pro...
mind to teach some moves???


Added on September 20, 2007, 5:50 pm
QUOTE(xcutelilgal @ Sep 20 2007, 01:08 PM)
Go meet her! With public transportations and you and her being in the same country but just different states, do you even need to be told???!?! Get her address and say you wanna send her something then end up visiting her! Or I'm sure you know what school she's in and since you've seen her photograph you'd be able to recognize her coming out after school? If you want something you gotta work for it!

I knew someone from Malaysia online when I was in London. We always talked on MSN and we kinda liked each other but we've never mentioned unlike you both. I didn't know he liked me nor did he know I liked him. Somehow I made the decision to come back and we met each other and we were just meant to be =)
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if i go meet her suprisingly....will she feel that I'm weird or get angry with me???
since i nvr inform her b4 and i might coz some inconvenience to her rite???
need advices over this matter.


Added on September 20, 2007, 5:51 pm
QUOTE(mzhai @ Sep 20 2007, 02:05 AM)
true love lol... not so belief le..
now hope got ngam de understandin de onli
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dun be sad bro....got many nice n hot lowyat girls here also....
I'm sure they like guys who can drive to different state juz to take care of sick gf...
kinda touching...
^^advertising for u leh...

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post Sep 20 2007, 07:24 PM

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QUOTE(weiheng @ Sep 20 2007, 03:59 PM)
eh.. ur mum? how old r u btw? as far as i know internet invented not long ago..
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I can tell you my mom has only known this person through the internet 4 years plus ago and he was in London. She went to London and they are living happily ever after. My mom is in her upper 40's and divorced when I was 5.


Gengarbear dear: I would lend you some of my luck if I could. I could only wish you goodluck since I can't. It depends on both individuals. There are people you meet on the internet who will judge your outlook and when they see you in real life, you're not what they imagined you to be or you look different that what they perceived from your photographs, they might just ignore you from then onwards. In photographs you probably have to look not too different from real life. Some on the other hand will like you for who you are regardless they perceived you to look will be shielded by the beauty of who they actually liked from the beginning through the internet. (sounds a bit complex, don't really know how to explain)

My boyfriend I haven't really seen him on photograph but with 1 or two and with his personality, it made him someone I liked a lot. When we met it was like *click*. I hope that the girl since you mentioned that she's being chased after by many looks at your inner and outer beauty that makes you a whole beautiful person =) (not the girl type of beautiful but a wonderful person thats what I'm trying to say) hope you don't misunderstand my sentence.

If she says wait till her exam is over then probably you will have to be patient and wait till she finishes then tell her you're coming down to find her on which day. Try not to disturb her too much and push her too much as she might be stressed with exams and find you disturbing and distracting.

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post Sep 20 2007, 07:38 PM

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QUOTE(xcutelilgal @ Sep 20 2007, 07:24 PM)

Gengarbear dear: I would lend you some of my luck if I could. I could only wish you goodluck since I can't. It depends on both individuals. There are people you meet on the internet who will judge your outlook and when they see you in real life, you're not what they imagined you to be or you look different that what they perceived from your photographs, they might just ignore you from then onwards. In photographs you probably have to look not too different from real life. Some on the other hand will like you for who you are regardless they perceived you to look will be shielded by the beauty of who they actually liked from the beginning through the internet. (sounds a bit complex, don't really know how to explain)

My boyfriend I haven't really seen him on photograph but with 1 or two and with his personality, it made him someone I liked a lot. When we met it was like *click*. I hope that the girl since you mentioned that she's being chased after by many looks at your inner and outer beauty that makes you a whole beautiful person =) (not the girl type of beautiful but a wonderful person thats what I'm trying to say) hope you don't misunderstand my sentence.

If she says wait till her exam is over then probably you will have to be patient and wait till she finishes then tell her you're coming down to find her on which day. Try not to disturb her too much and push her too much as she might be stressed with exams and find you disturbing and distracting.
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thx ya!!!
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I do know wat u mean,and i tink she is kinda like me regardless the look or mayb my look is ok... biggrin.gif
and afterall,I juz love her v much...
wat i'm worrying is the *click*......but shouldn't b a problem also.... i tink .hehe...
if gotta wait till her exam finish....tat mean i gotta wait till december .....haizzz
so...I should or shouldn't pay her a visit during this time???
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TS, sorry to borrow ur thread...

Mzhai, I've read most of ur posts and all of them are very negative.

Have faith in yourself and future, ok?? Don't lose it....

One day you'll find your princess thumbup.gif


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>< tanks for the caring... lost hope long time jor lol...
the ship has sunk~~~

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