ok,I juz wan opinions from u all helpful guys...sincerely,so pls dun fool me here k....

The story starts with Me n she starting knowing each other through MSN(totally stranger)...last year NOV..
then we started to chat...and she is so cute n sincere(though it's msn)to me....
so I was like kinda got some feeling for her...(that time still kinda feeling sad bcoz of my 1st love)
then her caring makes me got that feeling again(in love)....

So finally I confessed to her....and she accepted it(shortcuted,no need bla so much)
then we r like MSN couple only since we never met each other b4,coz staying at different state k...
but then I really feel that i really love her until I have rejected a few girls in reality....
and now both of us agree to have the commitment of an actual relationship(meaning it's official d lo)
but yet we still nvr met each other...b4 this,we lost contact for a few months since she moved to somewhr else n her com spoiled and cant go online due to the flood last time(wt she told me afterward) note:she is kinda typical chinese girl who not really cant live without internet....

then now we get back to contact d...then she gets a new HP number from her fren then we start SMS....then I called her......sometimes.....juz like BF N GF....as i said,we made a promise of commitment for our relationship...again..though we never met...(both of us have seen our pictures ...)
but then since she is having SPM,her mum took her phone d,so now i cant really contact her anytime,and gotta wait for her to online n chat with me(as she cant often online coz her sis n mum doesnt allow it)...she said she might call me using public phone.


so far it's like that...
so wat i need is ur opinion on this "relationship" or u guys think it's juz a silly childish game?
as i need to know since I'm really serious in this relationship...(as I had promised her)
our plan is that after her SPM,we will b like other normal couple,meeting each other n go paktor....
is this relationship immature???
since it's kinda long...u all lazy to read 1 la....
SUMMARY

I have this internet GF for about 1 year d...we nver met b4,long distance-different state...both of us keeping our photo...recently only she give me her new phone number....then we sms n I called her sometimes and we chat like normal bf n gf....she is having SPM this year so cant contact me often d...summore her parent is v strict....so now our plan is juz wait for her exam to finish then only start to go paktor...""""I'm willing to go to find her"""it's juz that her parent is v strict and she is having her exam now also...1 more point to add...many boy boy trying to chase her also but she said she never peduli them...

UPDATE 16/10/07
since we last chat through MSN last month...we never contact with each other at all...
not even phone,msn,email...
she told me b4 that she might gotta prepare for her coming SPM...is it bcoz of that she nver contact me at all...her phone was taken by her mum,so i tot mayb at least she can send sms to me using her friend's phone?(she is staying at hostel without knowing many friends thr..juz transfer to that scholl also got not many friends over the new environment)
or juz send me an email???well,high possibility that smth wrong with pc or internet thr as her sis also din online 4 long time d...
watever...i wil juz have to wait..my birthday coming soon ,so i hope she will contact me at that day...is bz preparing for Exam a valid reason not o send a sms bday greeting to BF? I'll wait till that day to see lo...not scolding her but more to worrying bout her and i'm abit confused bout this relationship...

UPDATE 19/10/07
YTD she sms me,saying that her phone actually spoiled d...we chat through sms a while but then unfortunately i gotta do smth so cant chat with her but i told her that i will give her a call after that ..and she said ok,but when i call her ...cannot get through,as if her phone is off..
wat happened?? I dunno...again she told me she will wait for me also..
guess I will juz wait then...
and yup,confirm that day she called me using public phone...and i cut her phone coz i was in the class...she's abit dissapointed as i promise her i will pick up her call no matter wat...
alright...I'll keep on waiting then...
c ya....


This post has been edited by Gengarbear: Oct 19 2007, 07:54 PM

yes... what are you doing man ??
virtual and reality is not the same thing.
If you love her that much, what's keeping you from seeing her?

I'd walk a thousand miles if there was no other way.

logical advise.... how to sustain a relationship if u never even met

not logical advise.... continue and see? u will know how it ends...as an experience

my personal experiense.... it wont go so well by the time u realy meet.

in ur case....do u think she realy have the same feeling towards u?

wah paragraph la

But... are you sure she's a girl?

he did called her many times

If its ok with you then may god bless u and her =)

she told u Afterwards[SIZE=7] about why she couldnt contact you ?

dude , that is just so wrong .



even normal friends would tell u where they were or whats going on in their lives for that long rite ?

is she hawt?

for me... hehe... i think this is quite funny as well... but honestly speaking.. please think twice because you can't put too much of feelings in this kinda relationship first, atleast not until you guys have met each other.. then things will get easier once you guys meet each other...

maybe the girl is thinking that you're her cyber bf or something like that... or maybe worse comes to worse you're just one of them in her list?? who knows right?? anything might happen..
what i'm trying to say is you will know all kinda ppl once you mix around with the society more...

i got the shock of my life as well when i really came out to the society and mix around for the first time...

so think twice before you get hurt..

btw... where is she from and how about you?

wait.....im curious.....
did she ever send u her photos? or at least her friendster with her pics? if realy in love...shud at least hv photo of each other wat....

I'm a living example of an "almost" successful case of finding love in the internet.

Although we broke up (many yrs ago), I think it works. We have to acknowledge that in this era, love has to evolve as fast as the internet )

yeah according to him they exchanged photos already what..

---

Added on September 19, 2007, 11:53 pmthink i can't deny that possiblities are there

This post has been edited by paqralos: Sep 19 2007, 11:53 PM

got?? where where? too many words....my eyes blur cant find that sentense

why dun u try make a trip down to see her.. i mean if u love her so much..
i am sure u can have a weekend placed aside and take a trip down love lane..

she will be happy... with ur sincerity =)
think about it... a bus ticket ain't that expensive ain't it?

g' luck to u bro..

Too lazy to read. IMHO everything's that virtual should just stay that.

There's no love on the internet, stop kidding yourself.

hehe yeah.. i think so if i'm not mistaken

yeah i think they plan to do that, but he has to wait after the girl finish her exam

yeah...at least make an effort to go visit her in her hometown. i did it few times. silly tat time... hahahahaha.

but in the end din work out well....hope ur case works only

but u cannot say that there's no chance at all.. there are a lot of couples in the world right now know each other and living happily ever after because of internet as well

---

Added on September 19, 2007, 11:57 pmi mean if you have finacial stability and maturity to maintain the long distance relationship then i guess its still ok u know

This post has been edited by paqralos: Sep 19 2007, 11:57 PM

cant deny possibilities lar. but..chances are, its slim. juz do u fall in the minority or not

---

Added on September 19, 2007, 11:59 pmfrom wat i experience + a few other friends....
without solid relationship prior, there is no way u can maintain long distance relationship..... further more, they never even met!

This post has been edited by devil_x: Sep 19 2007, 11:59 PM